Most of my friends have been trash.

[MoggerGaston]

With little to no regard for my well-being, whether I mentioned anything or not. My emotions, thoughts would get discarded instead of accepted. Likely due to no other factor than their total emotional/social competence being no more than: 'if I don't feel it, your feelings must be wrong.'

It's like I was forced to socialize with total losers simply due to being (unjustly) ugly asf and abused in my childhood.

I have come to the conclusion that I need higher-quality human-beings in my life with which I can prosper deeper relationships with, so far not possible.

Is what it is. Watch out who you socialize with.

 

[JeanneDArcAlter]

Definition of a fakecel

 

[MoggerGaston]

It's the same when dating girls. Some are just too stupid/shallow and you will never find emotional satisfaction in dealing with them.

At best they can be (sexual) entertainment.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Definition of a fakecel

People like you on this forum constitute the type of people I talk about in this topic.

 

[Vincent Freeman]

at least you found your true friends here - among short ethnics

 

[MoggerGaston]

at least you found your true friends here - among short ethnics

Online interaction is a poor substitute for the real thing. But it's better than nothing at least.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Need to delete and get my life back on track ASAP. I've been distracting with nonsense for too long. Not too late for me yet.

 

[Primalsplit]

With little to no regard for my well-being, whether I mentioned anything or not. My emotions, thoughts would get discarded instead of accepted. Likely due to no other factor than their total emotional/social competence being bo more than: 'if I don't feel it, your feelings must be wrong.'

It's like I was forced to socialize with total losers simply due to being (unjustly) ugly asf and abused in my childhood.

I have come to the conclusion that I need higher-quality human-beings in my life with which I can prosper deeper relationships with, so far not possible.

Is what it is. Watch out who you socialize with.

Yes. Socialise with me instead.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Yes. Socialise with me instead.

I need the IRL thing

 

[The Grinch]

Most people are NPC‘s and in order to fit in, you have to be a shallow NPC as well, which can be exhausting long term

 

[Giorgio]

normie socialization seems like a big circle jerk, where they meet to primarily validate each other, to quench the primal fear of not being a part of any in-group
this of course is amplified when it comes to women

 

[MoggerGaston]

normie socialization seems like a big circle jerk, where they meet to primarily validate each other, to quench the primal fear of not being a part of any in-group
this of course is amplified when it comes to women

Theres nothing wrong with that. Ive missed people on my side my entire life.

If I would tell someone about my struggle I would just get some argument back or shit like: 'hmm ye but dont u think its wrong that u were angry'

Autistic robots without empathy. They fucked me up as much my abusive parents did honestly.
No social/emotional support at home and then u cant even get it from friends/gf either.

Inhumane life circumstances.
Youre wrong.

 

[Daddy's Home]

I need higher-quality human-beings in my life

Luckily I found 2 siblings (boy and girl) who are like that in highschool, with whom I went to university in another city (you guessed it, they were objectively speaking among the ugliest in the class in highschool + quite fat, who would have guessed), with whom we can behave extremely naturally and openly with each other (with certain healthy and respectful boundaries, on the basis of which we will soon be celebrating 10 years of friendship without ever having argued or contradicted each other in a serious or tense manner)

Now at my age, I realize that I'll probably never be able to have a friendship of that nature with anyone else in this lifetime, which is crazy to think about..

Some are just too stupid/shallow and you will never find emotional satisfaction in dealing with them.

That's why most ''traditional'' thinking men want a wife to be like a second mother (but one that you can also rub your dick on when you're stressed and tired), and a slave to the responsibilities of home and family, because they know that anything more valuable than that they couldn't provide anyway

It's hard to find a girl with a cool and fun personality with whom you can live a satisfying and chill life, so the average girl would be better off just keeping quiet, doing the housework, making sure our children don't starve, so that our genetics are passed on and our ancestors didn't die in vain..

 

[Aladin]

It's like I was forced to socialize with total losers simply due to being (unjustly) ugly asf and abused in my childhood.

We all were.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Luckily I found 2 siblings (boy and girl) who are like that in highschool, with whom I went to university in another city (you guessed it, they were objectively speaking among the ugliest in the class in highschool + quite fat, who would have guessed), with whom we can behave extremely naturally and openly with each other (with certain healthy and respectful boundaries, on the basis of which we will soon be celebrating 10 years of friendship without ever having argued or contradicted each other in a serious or tense manner)

Now at my age, I realize that I'll probably never be able to have a friendship of that nature with anyone else in this lifetime, which is crazy to think about..

i wouldnt be that negative about it, you never know, but with that attitude it becomes impossible so why not stay open to the idea)

That's why most ''traditional'' thinking men want a wife to be like a second mother (but one that you can also rub your dick on when you're stressed and tired), and a slave to the responsibilities of home and family, because they know that anything more valuable than that they couldn't provide anyway

It's hard to find a girl with a cool and fun personality with whom you can live a satisfying and chill life, so the average girl would be better off just keeping quiet, doing the housework, making sure our children don't starve, so that our genetics are passed on and our ancestors didn't die in vain..

Not entirely sure. I think there are more undersocialized men than women, simply due to female social privilege. So you will find the average female better socially/emotionally calibrated while men are more likely to cope after rejection tbh.

 

[MoggerGaston]

We all were.

it doubles the pain

 

[MoggerGaston]

We all were.

I remember the first time I met my last friendgroup, at a bar, they were literally just bullying one guy in the group lmao.

I was stunned how you can treat someone like that, they just thought it was funny.

I should've left that group back then and there. It didn't do anything good for me, but I guess I felt like I didn't deserve anything better either from how I had been treated thusfar.

 

[Zonar]

It's the same when dating girls. Some are just too stupid/shallow and you will never find emotional satisfaction in dealing with them.

At best they can be (sexual) entertainment.

Woman are so fucking dry. It's exhausting to carry conversations and emotionally bond even if they like you.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Woman are so fucking dry. It's exhausting to carry conversations and emotionally bond even if they like you.

i was talking about specific women, not all women.

 

[Zonar]

i was talking about specific women, not all women.

Most are from my experience. They got nothing to talk about

 

[MoggerGaston]

Most are from my experience. They got nothing to talk about

I find women way harder to vibe/socialize with on a surface-level, but when it does workout, it has higher pay-off on a deeper emotional level.

I am kind of tired of this surface-level interact that I already know all too much in my life.

 

[NORDEN SLAVORUM]

The ones that aren't like this are usually low T and insufferable cause of it

Its very rare to find a actual match

 

[MoggerGaston]

The ones that aren't like this are usually low T and insufferable cause of it

Its very rare to find a actual match

Most of my loser friends were lowT though