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Getting ghosted on dating apps or being brushed off by random girls you're attracted to irl isn't real rejection.
Real rejection is when you actually get to know someone over the course months or years, and they decide they want nothing to do with you. Breakups, failed friendships, and family estrangement are real rejections. The more you've invested in a relationship, the more it hurts.
This is why normies avoid commitment or settle for shitty partners. For all the platitudes they spout, most are extremely fragile and damaged from past rejections. People just have way too much baggage as you get older. It's honestly healthier to have lots of superficial temporary relationships and live selfishly.
Real rejection is when you actually get to know someone over the course months or years, and they decide they want nothing to do with you. Breakups, failed friendships, and family estrangement are real rejections. The more you've invested in a relationship, the more it hurts.
This is why normies avoid commitment or settle for shitty partners. For all the platitudes they spout, most are extremely fragile and damaged from past rejections. People just have way too much baggage as you get older. It's honestly healthier to have lots of superficial temporary relationships and live selfishly.