Most real gang members are either ugly and/or lonely

[Deleted member 6164]

Like seriously either these guys are average to low tier looking guys (usually early to late 20’s or early 30’s) and they would have a girlfriend I guess but a lot of the time she goes out of their life and tries to get child support but rightfully so if ur dad is a fucking active gangmember. lol anyways yeah tho if I look through these guys posts like half of it is those dumb motto pictures from tumblr about wanting weed and then a picture of some random booty

 

[lookismfugee]

didnt understand single word even tho i did read. are u saying criminals are uglier? sure

 

[Deleted member 6164]

didnt understand single word even tho i did read. are u saying criminals are uglier? sure

Yes a lot of the time

 

[lookismfugee]

Yes a lot of the time

most of the time actually. man has nothing to lose=turns to crime

 

[Stare]

They commit crimes to cope with their loneliness

 

[Deleted member 6164]

most of the time actually. man has nothing to lose=turns to crime

Which is what I’m doing tbh I just hit up a high ranking gang member I want to join this gang in my neighborhood it has like 5k members in my state

They commit crimes to cope with their loneliness

Yes

 

[maxmendietta]

Gangs me ngl

 

[Deleted member 26]

gang members and ISIS are the true blackpilled incels wreaking havoc in a world that has rejected them entirely.

 

[Richard Fitzwell]

Which is what I’m doing tbh I just hit up a high ranking gang member I want to join this gang in my neighborhood it has like 5k members in my state

Yes

why the hell would you want to join up with a gang.. they all betray and kill eachother over meaningless shit

 

[Deleted member 5683]

Meeks

 

[Deleted member 6164]

why the hell would you want to join up with a gang.. they all betray and kill eachother over meaningless shit

Because I don’t have a meaning in life it’s either I join a gang or the military I don’t have much meaning and the military would just be dying for jewish israel

Meeks

Which is exactly why he’s famous for being a “pretty boy” or whatever the word is in a gang.

 

[Richard Fitzwell]

Because I don’t have a meaning in life it’s either I join a gang or the military I don’t have much meaning and the military would just be dying for jewish israel

Which is exactly why he’s famous for being a “pretty boy” or whatever the word is in a gang.

EXACTLY! you see it...
you dont need to ''die for anyone'' Don't throw your life away to a bad cause because you have ''no meaning''
If you join a gang you wont get a nice life... You will likely end up in jail and that would be hell, especially if you live in america.
You don't need to be part of SOMEONE ELSES cause to have a reason to live, Don't let yourself become a disposable tool for someone to use... The militaries cause is wrong, pays piss and all your life could come down to could be just another white cross on an endless field, indistinguishable from the rest. A gang isn't a substitute for a family or a cause either.. You'll likely just end up worse off in the end and society will hate you for it.
You obviously care something about your appearance, for the way people treat you, or you most likely wouldn't be here looking to better yourself. If you become involved in a gang most decent people will want to distance themselves from you, especially if you wear a patch or their tattoos and clothing.
Don't let another persons group define you as a person and give you an excuse to go on. You need to be your own meaning to live... Life has a lot to enjoy and you need to find something in it yourself instead of throwing it away for someone else

How old are you? Do you have a family or live with them.... Do you have things in life you enjoy? and what is your level of intelligence school wise. Il reply again but can you answer those questions

 

[Deleted member 6164]

EXACTLY! you see it...
you dont need to ''die for anyone'' Don't throw your life away to a bad cause because you have ''no meaning''
If you join a gang you wont get a nice life... You will likely end up in jail and that would be hell, especially if you live in america.
You don't need to be part of SOMEONE ELSES cause to have a reason to live, Don't let yourself become a disposable tool for someone to use... The militaries cause is wrong, pays piss and all your life could come down to could be just another white cross on an endless field, indistinguishable from the rest. A gang isn't a substitute for a family or a cause either.. You'll likely just end up worse off in the end and society will hate you for it.
You obviously care something about your appearance, for the way people treat you, or you most likely wouldn't be here looking to better yourself. If you become involved in a gang most decent people will want to distance themselves from you, especially if you wear a patch or their tattoos and clothing.
Don't let another persons group define you as a person and give you an excuse to go on. You need to be your own meaning to live... Life has a lot to enjoy and you need to find something in it yourself instead of throwing it away for someone else

How old are you? Do you have a family or live with them.... Do you have things in life you enjoy? and what is your level of intelligence school wise. Il reply again but can you answer those questions

I’m 16 right now turning 17 in June. I live with my family yes. I don’t have many things I enjoy in life I like to play videogames and do a lot of java script stuff,boxing and wrestling I will go for my last wrestling season in September when I am a senior in HS. I also watch a lot of porn to Cope with loneliness I’m 16 and never kissed or hugged a girl. My level of intelligence school wise isn’t bad it’s just I’m lazy because all I do is sit around ldaring from being depressed. (I also have ADHD was on meds when I was 10 to 12 but got off of them)Currently im studying for SAT. that’s all.

edit: So far Im reaching 1300 on SAT Idk if that’s good tho.

 

[Deleted member 1338]

 

[lookismfugee]

man u are fucking 17. dont join gang you wont make good one either since u are dumb enaugh to talk about it on this website that is obviously monitored. jfl at joining gang if u werent born into it as top boy
@TheMewingBBC
save this poor soul bro
jfl if u think joining gang will put you above anyone. its not much different from being wagecuck you are still getting used. given u know programming or whatever maybe u can make some money while ldaring if i knew any coding id be pretty happy but i cant get fucked and too dumb for it i think

gang members and ISIS are the true blackpilled incels wreaking havoc in a world that has rejected them entirely.

isis sure as fuck are

 

[Richard Fitzwell]

I’m 16 right now turning 17 in June. I live with my family yes. I don’t have many things I enjoy in life I like to play videogames and do a lot of java script stuff,boxing and wrestling I will go for my last wrestling season in September when I am a senior in HS. I also watch a lot of porn to Cope with loneliness I’m 16 and never kissed or hugged a girl. My level of intelligence school wise isn’t bad it’s just I’m lazy because all I do is sit around ldaring from being depressed. (I also have ADHD was on meds when I was 10 to 12 but got off of them)Currently im studying for SAT. that’s all.

edit: So far Im reaching 1300 on SAT Idk if that’s good tho.

I don't know about whats what in american school systems but at least you are born in a better country than me (besides the medical care price) .. Anyway...

It's probably good you got off those meds, plenty of younger people have alot of energy and they tend to try and drug kids up to make them more mellow which isnt really good for their mind or mental health overall.

My first bit of advice will be the hardest, and probably one of the toughest things you will ever do, If you succeed at it. And that is to QUIT PORN. Before you call me a prude or say i'm stating the obvious I'l try and explain why you should and how I have.
Porn will only make loneliness and sexual frustration worse. It doesn't fill a void it makes one bigger
A lot of guys use it more when they can't get anyone but it will only make the cravings worse. I compare it to a starving homeless man watching the cooking channel on an empty stomach. Porn tends to create anxiety in guys that can lead to difficulty dealing with females in the real word. Building false expectations of how things are meant to be and can lead to disappointment and frustration when you encounter real life relationships and partners. It's a virtual world that glorified and exaggerates to the point the real life females can lose their value.
There are a number of studies and people who have spoke about no longer having an interest in their partner due to getting all their fulfillment from porn, some find it leads to erectile dysfunction as well, but those arent really your concern at the moment as you don't have a partner but if you are someone who is willing to care about things down the track, then you might want to consider the effects it might have after years of it.
Besides the frustration it can cause It can also kill motivation and energy. People are likely to be less confident in real life. Now this part I can't confirm, but most guys these days watch porn, excessively. Guys I know watch it because they've admitted it.. And I can tell you out of all the 20 something year old guys I know none have the BALLS to actually approach girls in public or pubs. Regardless of whether they would fail or not, they don't even try. I have been out with them and even when they see girls they like the look of they wont approach. I don't know about porn being a factor here but i know not watching it can help.

My own negative experiences with it.
Because of porn I have never been satisfied with any females I've been with, I'm always comparing her to the hoe's I've seen in picture or video on the internet.
I have an extremely negative view of sex, when I was 18 I thought of it as just a private thing in a relationship between couples, after years of porn I now think of it as dirty, vile and I think of females as just holes who love getting abused sexually and need it that way to satisfy them and myself.
When you don't have many positive experiences with girls and combine this with how you see them in porn it becomes hard to think of them as people worthy of any respect.
I became for more of a shy awkward idiot who wouldn't put as much effort into pursuing real world relationships.
And the worst part of it is if you go too far with it it can start to interfere with your school, job or regular schedule due to late nights etc.
These wernt problems I had at 18, when I started watching, these developed over time and became worse and I wish I had never seen it. I know I would be better off.

If you want help getting away from that then try going on NOFAP It's not just a meme it has actual benefits and can help avoid porn.
Obviously being young it will be almost impossible to ignore your sexdrive, but trying this out for long enough could help rewire your brain to not rely on the instant dopamine hits you get from porn that are also proven to reduce motivation.
There is a whole community on youtube and online that support this so theres a lot of information on it. I recommend taking a look.
This could definitely help you as a base to start dealing with your other problems and getting your life back on track and keeping it there...

My personal experiences of 20 days on it so far have been limited due to not exercising and corona lockdown, but what I have noticed is that I feel a lot more self worth, which is rare for me, I now have motivation to go out and pursue a change in my life and I feel more confident and motivated to talk to people, or more to talk about with people I know.
My actual love for wanting to live has come back.

Alot of people have noticed a big change in drive and motivation doing this.
But ignoring your instincts isn't easy and porn is like a drug, and like any other drug the hardest part is staying clean. The easiest way to try and get over an addiction is to find other things to fullfill your life to put effort into and concentrate on. Lazyness and inactivity are the reasons most responsible for relapsing. Boredom and doing nothing gives you time to think and that leads back to old habits.
The way I have managed to quit has been staying away from it for a few days, I have had a chance to see how I feel without it and having a clear mind helps to realize it's not doing good for you.
For me it helped that my actual opinion on it changed. I looked at all what the porn stars looked like without makeup, It's bloody embarrassing and some of them are downright ugly. Most look like real normal people, some are attractive but you have to remember some people in real life are aswell. The lighting can make a huge difference, The same scene where someones skin has that healthy orangy pinkish tan to it looks pale and sickly on another lower budget camera. But the thing that helped me the most was acknowledging that you are just one of hundreds of thousands of other men beating themself into a mess over the same hoe, even the obscure lesser known ones still have a league of hundreds of die hard devoted fans. I don't want the thought of being just another cuck beating it to a girl i'l never get. Thats the same with the instagram hoes, A girl on there who actually is a point or 2 below you in real life you would have practically no chance with on there because they have so many options and followers. I even saw a chubby girl with about a million followers, someone who in real life would get lost in the crowd and mogged by other girls. Once I realized that it's practically hopeless to go after these hoes who have hundreds of options online and fake their beauty I decided I wouldnt waste any more time looking at them, I dont want to be another simp and would rather pursue someone in real life who I'd do better with. That was the turning point for me when I gave up looking at all that crap.

Trust me, that stuff will make you lonelier in the long run
your physical stuff will help you beat the depression and add motivation aswell if you keep at practice so keep up your boxing. Mike tyson also used to do a nofap nofuck for weeks leading up to his fights because he could keep a clear head and get motivation.


I know you've probably heard it a lot but you are only young, You might think 18 is the most important time of your life, then 20, 21, etc.. but these years are important and setting yourself up will help you in the later years, trust me you dont want to get to late 20s and have studied nothing, if you get into some good training and everything you could have it done by 22 or sooner, and if you think thats old when you get there you will probably appreciate life more than you do now.

In time you will find other reasons to live, to appreciate life, you just have to find them.

When I was 16 17 I used to play games alot and didnt have ANY goals in life or any cares or meaning for it.. All I cared about was my games, music etc and females.

You don't need to find your passions in life at your age but I would strongly recommend you work at your school still and pick a career path, if you don't know what one appeals to you then have a look around, go to places to find out more about different options
Living in the moment gets old and youl be wishing you invested these ''useless'' teenage years into securing a job.
When I was a teenager I hung out with idiots, around town, got into fights, got into shit..
If you get into a gang you are more than likely throwing away all the good you can have in your future for criminal charges, people who will not care about you in the long run, not only will it ruin your life in terms of finding decent work and jobs, but it will ruin your personal life.
Invest this precious disposable time into securing a job, a decent one, and that can be your motivation and purpose to live. Especially if you find one you are passionate about. The other hobbies and reasons to live will develop over time as you get older and grow as a person.

I'll say a few of my own ones that have developed..
16-17 I played games, hung around with idiots who went NOWHERE in life, and chased poor quality snatch that flaked. Had some crappy relationships. (i was 17 when i had my first kiss) and that was it. If i was around the worse people I might of gone done a worse road.
But either way I didnt really know myself that well and had piss poor interests (besides games which i still like)

Now I have found some things in life that help me..
Right now it's my wanting to live but besides that I am trying to saving up for a minor facial surgery and some filler. Thats a big drive of mine because I want to travel more after that.

I am back to drawing and practicing tattoo, because I want to become an actual tattooist.
into heaps of music, now practice electric and acoustic guitar.
Owned 3 different motorbikes and finally bought a small harley.
trying to learn another language for when I travel.

When you get a bit older try travelling, i find it to be the best thing inb life really and it can help open your mind and give you a reason to live.
And I can say you've never lived until you drive a convertible on a sunny day blasting your favourite music, found someone you really like spending time with, going drunk shopping in a foreign town, seeing bands you like live.. Riding a motorcycle on a full tank of gas and nowhere you need to go.. buying a new suit and watch and feeling good about yourself having money... learning to cook properly
Life as a teenager with no money can lead you down a dark road and at the time you dont appreaciate all the things in life that can be great because you havnt had a taste for them..
At the time its hard to value but its all out there waiting...
Dont throw it away and sacrifice your potential for something that could end your life or put you in jail...
Watch some of wes watsons videos, it might help. Jail won't just take away your freedom, you lose everything and get forced to be around people have a good chance of trying to violate you. And it goes on for weeks, months, sometimes years.. day after day...

You are lucky, you have your parent/s and family still alive. And youre young, a lot of time to build up foundations. You dont want to get to 20s, meet a hoe and not even have the money to go out to tea or a movie or a roadtrip with her, and if your face is an issue the job money could help if theres any improvement you could get done.

Keep at the schooling and boxing, distraction is the cure to depression if it comes from emptiness.
pick up new hobbies if you have spare time left after your others
Further your life and don't join something that could take it all away.. They will not be there when you are old like knowledge career and money will. You have youth and parents and a lot of opportunity, and live in US, things I'd kill for.

Don't take it for granted and take some time to think. Steer clear of gangs. If your own people don't bleed you, the rivals or cops could.
All that tough shit doesn't matter when it all goes down. Everybody bleeds the same.

You probably didnt read all that but I give you credit if you did


Also, START BLOODY MEWING, constantly. Youre young and could potentially mould your facial structure like astro did

 

[Deleted member 6186]

They still have higher SMV than us though

 

[Weed]

 

[Richard Fitzwell]

this guy was 1 out of millions who happened to get recognised for having a model face. He doesn't represent the common man who gets locked away for years and rots in a living hell. beaten and broken

 

[HumidVent]

They are definitely not lonely and they are on the masculine side of looks. So they look like ogres to men but are still sexually appealing to women.

 

[Deleted member 6305]

 

[Deleted member 4464]

an extreme outlier
if you've watched documentaries on gangs most of the members are always subhuman

 

[Deleted member 6164]

I don't know about whats what in american school systems but at least you are born in a better country than me (besides the medical care price) .. Anyway...

It's probably good you got off those meds, plenty of younger people have alot of energy and they tend to try and drug kids up to make them more mellow which isnt really good for their mind or mental health overall.

My first bit of advice will be the hardest, and probably one of the toughest things you will ever do, If you succeed at it. And that is to QUIT PORN. Before you call me a prude or say i'm stating the obvious I'l try and explain why you should and how I have.
Porn will only make loneliness and sexual frustration worse. It doesn't fill a void it makes one bigger
A lot of guys use it more when they can't get anyone but it will only make the cravings worse. I compare it to a starving homeless man watching the cooking channel on an empty stomach. Porn tends to create anxiety in guys that can lead to difficulty dealing with females in the real word. Building false expectations of how things are meant to be and can lead to disappointment and frustration when you encounter real life relationships and partners. It's a virtual world that glorified and exaggerates to the point the real life females can lose their value.
There are a number of studies and people who have spoke about no longer having an interest in their partner due to getting all their fulfillment from porn, some find it leads to erectile dysfunction as well, but those arent really your concern at the moment as you don't have a partner but if you are someone who is willing to care about things down the track, then you might want to consider the effects it might have after years of it.
Besides the frustration it can cause It can also kill motivation and energy. People are likely to be less confident in real life. Now this part I can't confirm, but most guys these days watch porn, excessively. Guys I know watch it because they've admitted it.. And I can tell you out of all the 20 something year old guys I know none have the BALLS to actually approach girls in public or pubs. Regardless of whether they would fail or not, they don't even try. I have been out with them and even when they see girls they like the look of they wont approach. I don't know about porn being a factor here but i know not watching it can help.

My own negative experiences with it.
Because of porn I have never been satisfied with any females I've been with, I'm always comparing her to the hoe's I've seen in picture or video on the internet.
I have an extremely negative view of sex, when I was 18 I thought of it as just a private thing in a relationship between couples, after years of porn I now think of it as dirty, vile and I think of females as just holes who love getting abused sexually and need it that way to satisfy them and myself.
When you don't have many positive experiences with girls and combine this with how you see them in porn it becomes hard to think of them as people worthy of any respect.
I became for more of a shy awkward idiot who wouldn't put as much effort into pursuing real world relationships.
And the worst part of it is if you go too far with it it can start to interfere with your school, job or regular schedule due to late nights etc.
These wernt problems I had at 18, when I started watching, these developed over time and became worse and I wish I had never seen it. I know I would be better off.

If you want help getting away from that then try going on NOFAP It's not just a meme it has actual benefits and can help avoid porn.
Obviously being young it will be almost impossible to ignore your sexdrive, but trying this out for long enough could help rewire your brain to not rely on the instant dopamine hits you get from porn that are also proven to reduce motivation.
There is a whole community on youtube and online that support this so theres a lot of information on it. I recommend taking a look.
This could definitely help you as a base to start dealing with your other problems and getting your life back on track and keeping it there...

My personal experiences of 20 days on it so far have been limited due to not exercising and corona lockdown, but what I have noticed is that I feel a lot more self worth, which is rare for me, I now have motivation to go out and pursue a change in my life and I feel more confident and motivated to talk to people, or more to talk about with people I know.
My actual love for wanting to live has come back.

Alot of people have noticed a big change in drive and motivation doing this.
But ignoring your instincts isn't easy and porn is like a drug, and like any other drug the hardest part is staying clean. The easiest way to try and get over an addiction is to find other things to fullfill your life to put effort into and concentrate on. Lazyness and inactivity are the reasons most responsible for relapsing. Boredom and doing nothing gives you time to think and that leads back to old habits.
The way I have managed to quit has been staying away from it for a few days, I have had a chance to see how I feel without it and having a clear mind helps to realize it's not doing good for you.
For me it helped that my actual opinion on it changed. I looked at all what the porn stars looked like without makeup, It's bloody embarrassing and some of them are downright ugly. Most look like real normal people, some are attractive but you have to remember some people in real life are aswell. The lighting can make a huge difference, The same scene where someones skin has that healthy orangy pinkish tan to it looks pale and sickly on another lower budget camera. But the thing that helped me the most was acknowledging that you are just one of hundreds of thousands of other men beating themself into a mess over the same hoe, even the obscure lesser known ones still have a league of hundreds of die hard devoted fans. I don't want the thought of being just another cuck beating it to a girl i'l never get. Thats the same with the instagram hoes, A girl on there who actually is a point or 2 below you in real life you would have practically no chance with on there because they have so many options and followers. I even saw a chubby girl with about a million followers, someone who in real life would get lost in the crowd and mogged by other girls. Once I realized that it's practically hopeless to go after these hoes who have hundreds of options online and fake their beauty I decided I wouldnt waste any more time looking at them, I dont want to be another simp and would rather pursue someone in real life who I'd do better with. That was the turning point for me when I gave up looking at all that crap.

Trust me, that stuff will make you lonelier in the long run
your physical stuff will help you beat the depression and add motivation aswell if you keep at practice so keep up your boxing. Mike tyson also used to do a nofap nofuck for weeks leading up to his fights because he could keep a clear head and get motivation.


I know you've probably heard it a lot but you are only young, You might think 18 is the most important time of your life, then 20, 21, etc.. but these years are important and setting yourself up will help you in the later years, trust me you dont want to get to late 20s and have studied nothing, if you get into some good training and everything you could have it done by 22 or sooner, and if you think thats old when you get there you will probably appreciate life more than you do now.

In time you will find other reasons to live, to appreciate life, you just have to find them.

When I was 16 17 I used to play games alot and didnt have ANY goals in life or any cares or meaning for it.. All I cared about was my games, music etc and females.

You don't need to find your passions in life at your age but I would strongly recommend you work at your school still and pick a career path, if you don't know what one appeals to you then have a look around, go to places to find out more about different options
Living in the moment gets old and youl be wishing you invested these ''useless'' teenage years into securing a job.
When I was a teenager I hung out with idiots, around town, got into fights, got into shit..
If you get into a gang you are more than likely throwing away all the good you can have in your future for criminal charges, people who will not care about you in the long run, not only will it ruin your life in terms of finding decent work and jobs, but it will ruin your personal life.
Invest this precious disposable time into securing a job, a decent one, and that can be your motivation and purpose to live. Especially if you find one you are passionate about. The other hobbies and reasons to live will develop over time as you get older and grow as a person.

I'll say a few of my own ones that have developed..
16-17 I played games, hung around with idiots who went NOWHERE in life, and chased poor quality snatch that flaked. Had some crappy relationships. (i was 17 when i had my first kiss) and that was it. If i was around the worse people I might of gone done a worse road.
But either way I didnt really know myself that well and had piss poor interests (besides games which i still like)

Now I have found some things in life that help me..
Right now it's my wanting to live but besides that I am trying to saving up for a minor facial surgery and some filler. Thats a big drive of mine because I want to travel more after that.

I am back to drawing and practicing tattoo, because I want to become an actual tattooist.
into heaps of music, now practice electric and acoustic guitar.
Owned 3 different motorbikes and finally bought a small harley.
trying to learn another language for when I travel.

When you get a bit older try travelling, i find it to be the best thing inb life really and it can help open your mind and give you a reason to live.
And I can say you've never lived until you drive a convertible on a sunny day blasting your favourite music, found someone you really like spending time with, going drunk shopping in a foreign town, seeing bands you like live.. Riding a motorcycle on a full tank of gas and nowhere you need to go.. buying a new suit and watch and feeling good about yourself having money... learning to cook properly
Life as a teenager with no money can lead you down a dark road and at the time you dont appreaciate all the things in life that can be great because you havnt had a taste for them..
At the time its hard to value but its all out there waiting...
Dont throw it away and sacrifice your potential for something that could end your life or put you in jail...
Watch some of wes watsons videos, it might help. Jail won't just take away your freedom, you lose everything and get forced to be around people have a good chance of trying to violate you. And it goes on for weeks, months, sometimes years.. day after day...

You are lucky, you have your parent/s and family still alive. And youre young, a lot of time to build up foundations. You dont want to get to 20s, meet a hoe and not even have the money to go out to tea or a movie or a roadtrip with her, and if your face is an issue the job money could help if theres any improvement you could get done.

Keep at the schooling and boxing, distraction is the cure to depression if it comes from emptiness.
pick up new hobbies if you have spare time left after your others
Further your life and don't join something that could take it all away.. They will not be there when you are old like knowledge career and money will. You have youth and parents and a lot of opportunity, and live in US, things I'd kill for.

Don't take it for granted and take some time to think. Steer clear of gangs. If your own people don't bleed you, the rivals or cops could.
All that tough shit doesn't matter when it all goes down. Everybody bleeds the same.

You probably didnt read all that but I give you credit if you did


Also, START BLOODY MEWING, constantly. Youre young and could potentially mould your facial structure like astro did

I can’t really formulate a good response back but this was some LifeFuel reading this thank you bro. My only question is tho for nofap will my testerone go down and if should do I take testerone meds then?

 

[lookismfugee]

They commit crimes to cope with their loneliness

indeed son

 

[Richard Fitzwell]

I can’t really formulate a good response back but this was some LifeFuel reading this thank you bro. My only question is tho for nofap will my testerone go down and if should do I take testerone meds then?

That's fine really.. I wrote a lot...
There's a lot of conflicting information some saying it lowers it by holding onto it, others say that it increases especially in the first 7 days. What I can see though as that a lot of people claim it gives you a noticeable boost of energy. And if you have that motivation you could try doing some work in the gym along with your training. Gym workouts are known to help boost your testosterone levels so even if it was lowered that would help balance it out. I wouldnt take any supplements for that, Some of that stuff isnt really safe but there are foods that are said to help boost aswell so that might be worth looking into.
Overall I think it most likely won't cause a negative change, especially if you are keeping active....

One other thing that has helped me aswell is each day I've been drawing a line on a piece of cardboard i see each day. In the style of the 4 lines and the 5th line strikes throught the 4.
think of the 5th line in the group as the target or something. Try for 5 days and then get to the next set. It's a good reminder that theyre days youve managed to achieve so you have something to show for it. If you fail it youl have to start over again.


Try and stay away from that guy you spoke to about the gang stuff and concentrate on your school and hobbies and family. Shit like that will drag you down.. its all in the same catagory, porn, friends who are users, gangs, depression...inactivity.. when you start reaching your goals or getting partway through them all those bad things look like a distant joke... because they are.. and all they do is cast an ugly cold shadow over the warm light we have in life.

its up to us to push through it and look towards a brighter future

Make the right moves, and I can practically guarantee you will be better off and pleased you did

You are standing at the crossroads. Don't make the wrong turn.

 

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That's fine really.. I wrote a lot...
There's a lot of conflicting information some saying it lowers it by holding onto it, others say that it increases especially in the first 7 days. What I can see though as that a lot of people claim it gives you a noticeable boost of energy. And if you have that motivation you could try doing some work in the gym along with your training. Gym workouts are known to help boost your testosterone levels so even if it was lowered that would help balance it out. I wouldnt take any supplements for that, Some of that stuff isnt really safe but there are foods that are said to help boost aswell so that might be worth looking into.
Overall I think it most likely won't cause a negative change, especially if you are keeping active....

One other thing that has helped me aswell is each day I've been drawing a line on a piece of cardboard i see each day. In the style of the 4 lines and the 5th line strikes throught the 4.
think of the 5th line in the group as the target or something. Try for 5 days and then get to the next set. It's a good reminder that theyre days youve managed to achieve so you have something to show for it. If you fail it youl have to start over again.


Try and stay away from that guy you spoke to about the gang stuff and concentrate on your school and hobbies and family. Shit like that will drag you down.. its all in the same catagory, porn, friends who are users, gangs, depression...inactivity.. when you start reaching your goals or getting partway through them all those bad things look like a distant joke... because they are.. and all they do is cast an ugly cold shadow over the warm light we have in life.

its up to us to push through it and look towards a brighter future

Make the right moves, and I can practically guarantee you will be better off and pleased you did

You are standing at the crossroads. Don't make the wrong turn.

I hear you. And that crossroads thing stands out the most to me that’s how I feel like I’m at a very decivise moment in my life. Btw this is what the gang guy said he said more i even talked to him on call but basically he said I shouldn’t do this shit and he regrets it

 

[Beetlejuice]

Over for gangcels

 

[Richard Fitzwell]

I hear you. And that crossroads thing stands out the most to me that’s how I feel like I’m at a very decivise moment in my life. Btw this is what the gang guy said he said more i even talked to him on call but basically he said I shouldn’t do this shit and he regrets it
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So I guess thats 2 29 years olds saying it now.. That's good to hear...
The wrong turn leads to a dark horizon. Trust me on that, I've experienced that wrong turn and have seen many others who have personally.
You can't get back wasted time and chances... Theres so many opportunities when you are that age and in school. Focus on getting into some kind of decent job, It will be an essential foundation. And if you find yourself in a small place with little to no opportunity then move.. It's hard but the only way sometimes is to get in the deep end.
After youve got something towards a job and somewhat substantial income When you get there it will be worth it.
Regret is forever