
eternalcoper
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we call it “discipline” or “becoming our best self” but let’s be real most self improvement starts with the same thought.
the gym, skincare, new clothes, better posture, voice training, surgery it’s not growth.
its damage control it’s disguise.
its a desperate attempt to become someone people might finally fucking tolerate.
You’re not building a better version of yourself.
You’re just patching over the parts you think make you unlovable.
The real difference between a “confident” man and a self improving one?
The confident guy already feels like he fucking belongs.
The other is just clawing at the walls, begging for permission to exist in a world that never wanted him in the first place.
“I’m not fucking enough.”
the gym, skincare, new clothes, better posture, voice training, surgery it’s not growth.
its damage control it’s disguise.
its a desperate attempt to become someone people might finally fucking tolerate.
You’re not building a better version of yourself.
You’re just patching over the parts you think make you unlovable.
The real difference between a “confident” man and a self improving one?
The confident guy already feels like he fucking belongs.
The other is just clawing at the walls, begging for permission to exist in a world that never wanted him in the first place.