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Every person who believes women will regret being promiscuous in their youth and never be happily married should read this threads.
"I'm posting this question because I'm an older woman (52) who was very promiscuous when I was young (probably upwards of 100 lovers). And I'm here to tell you that the man I married fully accepts and loves me for who I am - and it has never been an issue in our relationship. I wanted to bring this up, because I am dismayed by all the "slut shaming" that is still going on today, especially as my daughters enter their teens. I was hoping that the old double standard would be history by now, but apparently it's not. I am trying to raise my daughters to believe that sexuality is natural and beautiful and fun."
"Absolutely no regrets. I had many partners before I met my husband. My experiences with other men taught me what I liked and what I didn't like both sexually and otherwise. When I met him, I knew what I was looking for and I could see clearly that he met the bill in many different ways. We've been together nearly 30 years now. Our relationship is healthy and strong and I don't think my previous experiences with other men has had any negative impact on it."
"I am very happy that I have had multiple partners. I think it has made my current relationship healthier than it would have otherwise been."
"No regrets at all. My 20s were amazing and wild and free. Now married and have an amazing daughter. Do what you want. Just be safe."
"I sowed plenty of wild oats in my early 20's. I met my husband at 25, married him at 30, turning 34 next month and we have a happy marriage, a wonderful 2 year old and a baby due in 11.5 weeks.
I'm glad I got to have the wild times and now I'm a happy (if more boring) mom.
Do whatever you're comfortable with and practice safe sex. Don't let anyone push you to do anything you don't want to do."
"I don't regret anything. I feel like I got a lot "out of my system" in my late teens and 20's and learned what I like and what I don't. Then I was in a long relationship mid 20s to early 30s and and now I'm single again. I suppose I have the opportunity to act that way again, but I'm all about quality over quantity. So, if I can give any advice, it's that!"
"It didn't really affect me at all. I had lots of sex with lots of people, especially around the age 18-22 range. I'm 40 now and it's not any big deal - other than being surprised that not everyone else was sleeping around as much as I was (I had totally assumed that they were, at the time)."
"I'm posting this question because I'm an older woman (52) who was very promiscuous when I was young (probably upwards of 100 lovers). And I'm here to tell you that the man I married fully accepts and loves me for who I am - and it has never been an issue in our relationship. I wanted to bring this up, because I am dismayed by all the "slut shaming" that is still going on today, especially as my daughters enter their teens. I was hoping that the old double standard would be history by now, but apparently it's not. I am trying to raise my daughters to believe that sexuality is natural and beautiful and fun."
"Absolutely no regrets. I had many partners before I met my husband. My experiences with other men taught me what I liked and what I didn't like both sexually and otherwise. When I met him, I knew what I was looking for and I could see clearly that he met the bill in many different ways. We've been together nearly 30 years now. Our relationship is healthy and strong and I don't think my previous experiences with other men has had any negative impact on it."
"I am very happy that I have had multiple partners. I think it has made my current relationship healthier than it would have otherwise been."
"No regrets at all. My 20s were amazing and wild and free. Now married and have an amazing daughter. Do what you want. Just be safe."
"I sowed plenty of wild oats in my early 20's. I met my husband at 25, married him at 30, turning 34 next month and we have a happy marriage, a wonderful 2 year old and a baby due in 11.5 weeks.
I'm glad I got to have the wild times and now I'm a happy (if more boring) mom.
Do whatever you're comfortable with and practice safe sex. Don't let anyone push you to do anything you don't want to do."
"I don't regret anything. I feel like I got a lot "out of my system" in my late teens and 20's and learned what I like and what I don't. Then I was in a long relationship mid 20s to early 30s and and now I'm single again. I suppose I have the opportunity to act that way again, but I'm all about quality over quantity. So, if I can give any advice, it's that!"
"It didn't really affect me at all. I had lots of sex with lots of people, especially around the age 18-22 range. I'm 40 now and it's not any big deal - other than being surprised that not everyone else was sleeping around as much as I was (I had totally assumed that they were, at the time)."