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My [22F] boyfriend [25M] categorizes everything as Virgin vs Chad and it’s annoying
We’ve been together 3 months. Early on (and I know it’s ALL kinda early bc 3 months) he told me he loved Virgin vs Chad memes. Fine, I think they’re kinda funny. And he’s definitely not an a misogynist, he’s dated women before me too so not an incel.
So lately it seems like he might take this meme more seriously than I thought. He’s always joked about it, like when I told him I liked White Claw he said “Virgin white claw vs Chad mad dog” and it was pretty funny, but lately I’ve seen him asking me “was that a Virgin or chad thing to do?” For example he is trying to find a good place to take his new coworker (male) to lunch (they were assigned as “buddies”) and he asked me if dim sum was a Virgin or Chad move. Sometimes when getting dressed he’ll ask me if his outfit he chose was a Virgin or chad outfit. He believes sneakers are for virgins so he’ll only wear dress shoes or flip flops. It was funny as a joke but it’s starting to get annoying.
I told him that the Virgin vs Chad meme is meant to be funny and it shouldn’t actually dictate his life and he called me a “Virgin normie” contrasted with a “chad meme devotee.” I told him I don’t want to have sex with someone who’s this obsessed with a meme and he told me sex is for virgins.
At this rate it seems like we just aren’t compatible but when he’s not going crazy over this meme we actually have fun together. Is there any hope for him to figure this out in therapy? Admittedly it might be hard to get him to go because he thinks people who go to therapists are virgins and therapists are Chad
TLDR; my boyfriend has grouped literally everything into Virgin vs Chad and it’s maddening.
