My beliefs on dating/relationships

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What the BP gets right:
- The oofy doofy theory describes an observable phenomenon we see throughout society, in which less attractive males are able to get into relationships through the financial security, and emotional support they provide to the women.
- Your looks play a crucial rule in your social development. The better looking you are (tall, broader shoulders, chiseled jaw), the better you’ll be treated by your peers.
- White people are the most attractive race, everything being equal. That’s why White women and White males are the group with the most broad appeal.
- Humans are not inherently monogamous creatures. While we may genuinely love our spouses and wives, we’ll still have some level of attraction towards other human beings. That’s why you sometimes see girls in relationships, reposting videos about tall Chad.

What the BP gets wrong:
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Socioeconomic status can yield genuine physical attraction. By society portraying you as some powerful important figure, you can alter women’s psyche into being more physically attracted to you, albeit it doesn’t always work. The point is that genuine physical attraction can arise from wealth and socioeconomic status, the extent to which this phenomenon exists though is highly debatable.
- People mostly marry those in the same or similar social classes as them. For example, white trash women will usually marry white trash men. This socioeconomic factor that plays into marriage, can transcend looks.
- Most men are not in oofy doofy relationships. The percentage of men in dead bed room relationships is quite low around 5-10% according to surveys (albeit it’s probably a bit higher), but still doesn’t constitute most relationships. Therefore, it’s still possible and plausible that unattractive males can find women that generally like them.
- While the JBWpill is somewhat correct, most women still prefer men of their own racial group. We’re human beings born with in-group preferences, and most of us are socialized in homogenous racial and cultural communities, so it’s only natural for most women to still date and marry those in their own race group. Asian and Latino women are the least likely to be racially loyal statistically, but most still prefer men of their own racial group.
- There are a lot of relationships in which both parties (the male and the female) have similar looks. For example, I’ve seen a lot of Asian couples in which both parties have a nerdy phenotype. This sorta disproves the notion that people are inherently Chad or Stacysexual, given that both men and women do have types. It empathizes that people tend to be attracted to those that are likeminded, whether that be similar personality, interests, or looks, which can transcend natural hypergamy.
- Neurodivergence is a death sentence when it comes to dating. The slight bit of neurodivergence whether that be even in the form of slight social passiveness, can be detected. These weird behaviors of neurodivergent individuals can decrease their social market value. Not even HTNs can get away with it sometime.

Other thoughts:
- Chad is the male with the most broad appeal. They tend to be taller, White, have broad shoulders, symmetrical face, hinged eyes, chiseled chin, etc. However, this doesn’t guarantee that every woman is gonna find Chad attractive, given that women do have types.
- Facial attractiveness is objectively quantifiable, although easier between the extreme high or low ranges of facial attractiveness.
 
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- Your looks play a crucial rule in your social development. The better looking you are (tall, broader shoulders, chiseled jaw), the better you’ll be treated by your peers.
absolutely over for abused dogs.
 
- Chad is the male with the most broad appeal. They tend to be taller, White, have broad shoulders, symmetrical face, hinged eyes, chiseled chin, etc. However, this doesn’t guarantee that every woman is gonna find Chad attractive, given that women do have types.
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Not a fucking space
 
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Neurodivergent take is incredibly based, being slightly autistic causes me to get cucked by men less attractive than me multiple times
 
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Neurodivergent take is incredibly based, being slightly autistic causes me to get cucked by men less attractive than me multiple times
Yeah. Not being to be socially fluent and being unable to talk properly has like zero sexual appeal to women. Women do like guys that are funny and confident unironically. People say it’s cope because it’s looks that only matters, but why are MTN ethnic guys the biggest slayers then.
 
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Yeah. Not being to be socially fluent and talk properly has like zero sexual appeal to women. Women do like guys that are funny and confident unironically. People say it’s cope because it’s looks that only matters, but why are MTN ethnic guys the biggest slayers then.
This is 100% real, + having an early puberty which happens more to ethnic people allows them to experience being seen as attractive to women for longer which allows them to socially mog the late bloomer white moggers
 
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This is 100% real, + having an early puberty which happens more to ethnic people allows them to experience being seen as attractive to women for longer which allows them to socially mog the late bloomer white moggers
Whites and Asians are too intelligent and introspective to be completely neurotypical. Latinos, Blacks in America have an easier time going with the flow and being neurotypical because they’re less introspective and prone to worrying
 
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Whites and Asians are too intelligent and introspective to be completely neurotypical. Latinos, Blacks in America have an easier time going with the flow and being neurotypical because they’re less introspective and prone to worrying
Just go with the flow pill / anti uniqueness pill is the most tragic pill of all, smart and unique individuals get the least love despite deserving the most
 
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What the BP gets right:
- The oofy doofy theory describes an observable phenomenon we see throughout society, in which less attractive males are able to get into relationships through the financial security, and emotional support they provide to the women.
- Your looks play a crucial rule in your social development. The better looking you are (tall, broader shoulders, chiseled jaw), the better you’ll be treated by your peers.
- White people are the most attractive race, everything being equal. That’s why White women and White males are the group with the most broad appeal.
- Humans are not inherently monogamous creatures. While we may genuinely love our spouses and wives, we’ll still have some level of attraction towards other human beings. That’s why you sometimes see girls in relationships, reposting videos about tall Chad.

What the BP gets wrong:
-
Socioeconomic status can yield genuine physical attraction. By society portraying you as some powerful important figure, you can alter women’s psyche into being more physically attracted to you, albeit it doesn’t always work. The point is that genuine physical attraction can arise from wealth and socioeconomic status, the extent to which this phenomenon exists though is highly debatable.
- People mostly marry those in the same or similar social classes as them. For example, white trash women will usually marry white trash men. This socioeconomic factor that plays into marriage, can transcend looks.
- Most men are not in oofy doofy relationships. The percentage of men in dead bed room relationships is quite low around 5-10% according to surveys (albeit it’s probably a bit higher), but still doesn’t constitute most relationships. Therefore, it’s still possible and plausible that unattractive males can find women that generally like them.
- While the JBWpill is somewhat correct, most women still prefer men of their own racial group. We’re human beings born with in-group preferences, and most of us are socialized in homogenous racial and cultural communities, so it’s only natural for most women to still date and marry those in their own race group. Asian and Latino women are the least likely to be racially loyal statistically, but most still prefer men of their own racial group.
- There are a lot of relationships in which both parties (the male and the female) have similar looks. For example, I’ve seen a lot of Asian couples in which both parties have a nerdy phenotype. This sorta disproves the notion that people are inherently Chad or Stacysexual, given that both men and women do have types. It empathizes that people tend to be attracted to those that are likeminded, whether that be similar personality, interests, or looks, which can transcend natural hypergamy.
- Neurodivergence is a death sentence when it comes to dating. The slight bit of neurodivergence whether that be even in the form of slight social passiveness, can be detected. These weird behaviors of neurodivergent individuals can decrease their social market value. Not even HTNs can get away with it sometime.

Other thoughts:
- Chad is the male with the most broad appeal. They tend to be taller, White, have broad shoulders, symmetrical face, hinged eyes, chiseled chin, etc. However, this doesn’t guarantee that every woman is gonna find Chad attractive, given that women do have types.
- Facial attractiveness is objectively quantifiable, although easier between the extreme high or low ranges of facial attractiveness.
Agree with most of it. Parts I disagree on:

Oofy doofy relationships are very common among normies. The divorce rate in UK is 42%. Most men don’t realise they were just an oofy doofy until their wife divorce rapes them. I’ve experienced it first hand too. After my parents got divorced, my mum dated an oofy doofy gamer guy for a few years until she could afford plastic surgery and them she dumped him :lul:

The point of JBW is that white men will have much better dating success if they target their efforts on ethnic girls. Speaking from experience, yes it is definitely true. Most white women are chadsexual but ethnic girls actually give me a chance on dating apps. The effects become way more pronounced when you’re a white man in SEA.

Looksmatched couples are pretty rare and is mostly only possible for women who met their bfs in school and never tried online dating. Hypergamy is definitely real because dating apps give women endless options of men who are above their league
 
What the BP gets right:
- The oofy doofy theory describes an observable phenomenon we see throughout society, in which less attractive males are able to get into relationships through the financial security, and emotional support they provide to the women.
- Your looks play a crucial rule in your social development. The better looking you are (tall, broader shoulders, chiseled jaw), the better you’ll be treated by your peers.
- White people are the most attractive race, everything being equal. That’s why White women and White males are the group with the most broad appeal.
- Humans are not inherently monogamous creatures. While we may genuinely love our spouses and wives, we’ll still have some level of attraction towards other human beings. That’s why you sometimes see girls in relationships, reposting videos about tall Chad.

What the BP gets wrong:
-
Socioeconomic status can yield genuine physical attraction. By society portraying you as some powerful important figure, you can alter women’s psyche into being more physically attracted to you, albeit it doesn’t always work. The point is that genuine physical attraction can arise from wealth and socioeconomic status, the extent to which this phenomenon exists though is highly debatable.
- People mostly marry those in the same or similar social classes as them. For example, white trash women will usually marry white trash men. This socioeconomic factor that plays into marriage, can transcend looks.
- Most men are not in oofy doofy relationships. The percentage of men in dead bed room relationships is quite low around 5-10% according to surveys (albeit it’s probably a bit higher), but still doesn’t constitute most relationships. Therefore, it’s still possible and plausible that unattractive males can find women that generally like them.
- While the JBWpill is somewhat correct, most women still prefer men of their own racial group. We’re human beings born with in-group preferences, and most of us are socialized in homogenous racial and cultural communities, so it’s only natural for most women to still date and marry those in their own race group. Asian and Latino women are the least likely to be racially loyal statistically, but most still prefer men of their own racial group.
- There are a lot of relationships in which both parties (the male and the female) have similar looks. For example, I’ve seen a lot of Asian couples in which both parties have a nerdy phenotype. This sorta disproves the notion that people are inherently Chad or Stacysexual, given that both men and women do have types. It empathizes that people tend to be attracted to those that are likeminded, whether that be similar personality, interests, or looks, which can transcend natural hypergamy.
- Neurodivergence is a death sentence when it comes to dating. The slight bit of neurodivergence whether that be even in the form of slight social passiveness, can be detected. These weird behaviors of neurodivergent individuals can decrease their social market value. Not even HTNs can get away with it sometime.

Other thoughts:
- Chad is the male with the most broad appeal. They tend to be taller, White, have broad shoulders, symmetrical face, hinged eyes, chiseled chin, etc. However, this doesn’t guarantee that every woman is gonna find Chad attractive, given that women do have types.
- Facial attractiveness is objectively quantifiable, although easier between the extreme high or low ranges of facial attractiveness.
also preselection is incredibly important
 
Foid literally told me once she doesn’t like awkward guys lmfao
 

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