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Hello!
So... Im (25ftm, 2 years on T) in a 14 month relationship with a self identified straight guy...basically everything is amazing, we have an amazing connection and I feel extremely happy with him. But this Saturday he misgendered me, it was small, he apologized, but I felt really upset after it happened, I cried a lot and it made my mind a mess basically, it really made me question how he perceives me but I did not tell him, I was planning to, but I decided that it was just a mistake and I should probably stop thinking about it, but now I cant. So I decided that I am going to talk to him (I texted him about it) and he seems quite serious since I told him. but now I am really questioning what to say to him. I know that he absolutely loves me and he wants to be with me, because he has. I am scared that he will take it as if i'd think that he does not want to be with me or he does not respects me, because I know that he does.
any advice?
So... Im (25ftm, 2 years on T) in a 14 month relationship with a self identified straight guy...basically everything is amazing, we have an amazing connection and I feel extremely happy with him. But this Saturday he misgendered me, it was small, he apologized, but I felt really upset after it happened, I cried a lot and it made my mind a mess basically, it really made me question how he perceives me but I did not tell him, I was planning to, but I decided that it was just a mistake and I should probably stop thinking about it, but now I cant. So I decided that I am going to talk to him (I texted him about it) and he seems quite serious since I told him. but now I am really questioning what to say to him. I know that he absolutely loves me and he wants to be with me, because he has. I am scared that he will take it as if i'd think that he does not want to be with me or he does not respects me, because I know that he does.
any advice?
