My brother is a NEET

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He graduated from high school in 2024. He hasn't gotten a job, he isn't in school, nothing. I know the job market isn't good, but I can tell he isn't trying. He can't even get a part-time job somewhere.

He is greasy, he smells, I dont even know the last time he showered, his breath is so bad I can smell it from 6+ feet away. All he does is sit in the basement and play video games. Im in school and I babysit for money. Over the summer, I was able to get a part-time retail job with no experience, and I can't?

I feel like my mom enables him, too; she pays for everything. Buys him whatever food he wants, gave him $50 for running errands (he had to text her ~10 times because he can't grocery shop on his own). I sold her my old iPad because I bought myself a new one with the money I earned from my job over the summer. She turned around and gave it to him because "she felt bad for her baby." It pisses me off.

The worst part was when I was making cookies. I was in the kitchen making the dough when he came in. My mom told him to make dinner. She didn't realise I was in the kitchen when she told him to do that. Instead of his taking 20 minutes for me to be done, he had to come into the kitchen.

At this point, he could tell I was angry, even though I didn't say anything. The oven goes off, and I don't immediately run to it, and he yells at me. I yell back! He starts to insult me, and we get into an argument. I call him out for refusing to get a job. He isPISSED. He runs at me and attacks me. He grabs my shirt and smacks me. I yell at him and yell for my dad. My dadoesn'tnt come, so I keep yelling. My mom finally comes down, and then my brother backs off.

My mom tried to get us to "talk it out". Fuck no. I was still pissed, he attacked me, and you want me to "talk it out?!" WTF NO!!! Im still not even sure my mom talked to him about him attacking me, in her eyes, he could do nothing wrong. Im so sick of all of this BS. I even turned on "heySirii" on my phone just so I would call the cops if he does that again. Im not tolerating that.

Is there anything I could do? I'm so sick of this omg.
 
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Sounds fun
 
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He graduated from high school in 2024. He hasn't gotten a job, he isn't in school, nothing. I know the job market isn't good, but I can tell he isn't trying. He can't even get a part-time job somewhere.

He is greasy, he smells, I dont even know the last time he showered, his breath is so bad I can smell it from 6+ feet away. All he does is sit in the basement and play video games. Im in school and I babysit for money. Over the summer, I was able to get a part-time retail job with no experience, and I can't?

I feel like my mom enables him, too; she pays for everything. Buys him whatever food he wants, gave him $50 for running errands (he had to text her ~10 times because he can't grocery shop on his own). I sold her my old iPad because I bought myself a new one with the money I earned from my job over the summer. She turned around and gave it to him because "she felt bad for her baby." It pisses me off.

The worst part was when I was making cookies. I was in the kitchen making the dough when he came in. My mom told him to make dinner. She didn't realise I was in the kitchen when she told him to do that. Instead of his taking 20 minutes for me to be done, he had to come into the kitchen.

At this point, he could tell I was angry, even though I didn't say anything. The oven goes off, and I don't immediately run to it, and he yells at me. I yell back! He starts to insult me, and we get into an argument. I call him out for refusing to get a job. He isPISSED. He runs at me and attacks me. He grabs my shirt and smacks me. I yell at him and yell for my dad. My dadoesn'tnt come, so I keep yelling. My mom finally comes down, and then my brother backs off.

My mom tried to get us to "talk it out". Fuck no. I was still pissed, he attacked me, and you want me to "talk it out?!" WTF NO!!! Im still not even sure my mom talked to him about him attacking me, in her eyes, he could do nothing wrong. Im so sick of all of this BS. I even turned on "heySirii" on my phone just so I would call the cops if he does that again. Im not tolerating that.

Is there anything I could do? I'm so sick of this omg.
If you think that's not your future, you're fooling yourself.
Either move to a different city as soon as youre able to or watch yourself become him. Speaking from experience and observing the same thing happen to a lot of people.
 
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Introduce him to .org

Maybe even .is
 
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I even turned on "heySirii" on my phone just so I would call the cops if he does that again. Im not tolerating that.

That's so beta.
 
Post the reddit link
 
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Detrimental to his future
Having years of unemployment is a death sentence for getting a decent job in the future
 
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He graduated from high school in 2024. He hasn't gotten a job, he isn't in school, nothing. I know the job market isn't good, but I can tell he isn't trying. He can't even get a part-time job somewhere.

He is greasy, he smells, I dont even know the last time he showered, his breath is so bad I can smell it from 6+ feet away. All he does is sit in the basement and play video games. Im in school and I babysit for money. Over the summer, I was able to get a part-time retail job with no experience, and I can't?

I feel like my mom enables him, too; she pays for everything. Buys him whatever food he wants, gave him $50 for running errands (he had to text her ~10 times because he can't grocery shop on his own). I sold her my old iPad because I bought myself a new one with the money I earned from my job over the summer. She turned around and gave it to him because "she felt bad for her baby." It pisses me off.

The worst part was when I was making cookies. I was in the kitchen making the dough when he came in. My mom told him to make dinner. She didn't realise I was in the kitchen when she told him to do that. Instead of his taking 20 minutes for me to be done, he had to come into the kitchen.

At this point, he could tell I was angry, even though I didn't say anything. The oven goes off, and I don't immediately run to it, and he yells at me. I yell back! He starts to insult me, and we get into an argument. I call him out for refusing to get a job. He isPISSED. He runs at me and attacks me. He grabs my shirt and smacks me. I yell at him and yell for my dad. My dadoesn'tnt come, so I keep yelling. My mom finally comes down, and then my brother backs off.

My mom tried to get us to "talk it out". Fuck no. I was still pissed, he attacked me, and you want me to "talk it out?!" WTF NO!!! Im still not even sure my mom talked to him about him attacking me, in her eyes, he could do nothing wrong. Im so sick of all of this BS. I even turned on "heySirii" on my phone just so I would call the cops if he does that again. Im not tolerating that.

Is there anything I could do? I'm so sick of this omg.
Brutal
 
He graduated from high school in 2024. He hasn't gotten a job, he isn't in school, nothing. I know the job market isn't good, but I can tell he isn't trying. He can't even get a part-time job somewhere.

He is greasy, he smells, I dont even know the last time he showered, his breath is so bad I can smell it from 6+ feet away. All he does is sit in the basement and play video games. Im in school and I babysit for money. Over the summer, I was able to get a part-time retail job with no experience, and I can't?

I feel like my mom enables him, too; she pays for everything. Buys him whatever food he wants, gave him $50 for running errands (he had to text her ~10 times because he can't grocery shop on his own). I sold her my old iPad because I bought myself a new one with the money I earned from my job over the summer. She turned around and gave it to him because "she felt bad for her baby." It pisses me off.

The worst part was when I was making cookies. I was in the kitchen making the dough when he came in. My mom told him to make dinner. She didn't realise I was in the kitchen when she told him to do that. Instead of his taking 20 minutes for me to be done, he had to come into the kitchen.

At this point, he could tell I was angry, even though I didn't say anything. The oven goes off, and I don't immediately run to it, and he yells at me. I yell back! He starts to insult me, and we get into an argument. I call him out for refusing to get a job. He isPISSED. He runs at me and attacks me. He grabs my shirt and smacks me. I yell at him and yell for my dad. My dadoesn'tnt come, so I keep yelling. My mom finally comes down, and then my brother backs off.

My mom tried to get us to "talk it out". Fuck no. I was still pissed, he attacked me, and you want me to "talk it out?!" WTF NO!!! Im still not even sure my mom talked to him about him attacking me, in her eyes, he could do nothing wrong. Im so sick of all of this BS. I even turned on "heySirii" on my phone just so I would call the cops if he does that again. Im not tolerating that.

Is there anything I could do? I'm so sick of this omg.
heres exactly what you do. you start making tons of money get a great physique and just become really successful or look really successful and if he becomes jealous than he might change but if he doesnt gaf than u beat the shit out of him and while he sits there in a pile of his blood you give him a lecture about how much of a NEET he is
 
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Looksmax.me offtopic section is just reddit for me atp
 
He graduated from high school in 2024. He hasn't gotten a job, he isn't in school, nothing. I know the job market isn't good, but I can tell he isn't trying. He can't even get a part-time job somewhere.

He is greasy, he smells, I dont even know the last time he showered, his breath is so bad I can smell it from 6+ feet away. All he does is sit in the basement and play video games. Im in school and I babysit for money. Over the summer, I was able to get a part-time retail job with no experience, and I can't?

I feel like my mom enables him, too; she pays for everything. Buys him whatever food he wants, gave him $50 for running errands (he had to text her ~10 times because he can't grocery shop on his own). I sold her my old iPad because I bought myself a new one with the money I earned from my job over the summer. She turned around and gave it to him because "she felt bad for her baby." It pisses me off.

The worst part was when I was making cookies. I was in the kitchen making the dough when he came in. My mom told him to make dinner. She didn't realise I was in the kitchen when she told him to do that. Instead of his taking 20 minutes for me to be done, he had to come into the kitchen.

At this point, he could tell I was angry, even though I didn't say anything. The oven goes off, and I don't immediately run to it, and he yells at me. I yell back! He starts to insult me, and we get into an argument. I call him out for refusing to get a job. He isPISSED. He runs at me and attacks me. He grabs my shirt and smacks me. I yell at him and yell for my dad. My dadoesn'tnt come, so I keep yelling. My mom finally comes down, and then my brother backs off.

My mom tried to get us to "talk it out". Fuck no. I was still pissed, he attacked me, and you want me to "talk it out?!" WTF NO!!! Im still not even sure my mom talked to him about him attacking me, in her eyes, he could do nothing wrong. Im so sick of all of this BS. I even turned on "heySirii" on my phone just so I would call the cops if he does that again. Im not tolerating that.

Is there anything I could do? I'm so sick of this omg.
NEET would be fun in a nation like Scandi since feds pay everything for u there
But unfortunatley most of this forum isnt in scandi and even there ethnics have ruined the neet life
 
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NEET would be fun in a nation like Scandi since feds pay everything for u there
But unfortunatley most of this forum isnt in scandi and even there ethnics have ruined the neet life
Nothing is fun in scandinavia
 
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