My counselor explained toxic masculinity to me. Shockingly, I agree with her

[BadLuck7892]

For some context of how the topic came up: I told my counselor some poster online said "A woman is biologically programmed to be repulsed by weak genes, which is why a lot of autistic men struggle to get a woman"

My counselor said "So much to unpack with that comment. First of all, it's not true. Second of all, that comment is incredibly ableist. Furthermore, that comment reeks of toxic masculinity."

She then explained what toxic masculinity is. She said toxic masculinity is the idea that men are supposed to be dominant alphas (and the idea that any man who doesn't fit the dominant alpha stereotype is inferior)

I agree with her. The idea that being a dominant alpha is the only way to be a man is incredibly toxic.

Up until yesterday, I had heard the term toxic masculinity before, yet I never knew what it meant. Somehow I thought "toxic masculinity" was just some misandrist mumbo jumbo. I'm shocked I (upon finding out what toxic masculinity means) agree with the idea that it's toxic.

 

[LancasteR]

Well women are repulsed by autistic men.
The stats support this

 

[BadLuck7892]

Well women are repulsed by autistic men.
The stats support this

My counselor said a lot of her clients through the years have been autistic married men.

And she said stats on how many autistic men are single are misleading because a lot of autists don't even know they're autistic until later in life.

 

[LancasteR]

My counselor said a lot of her clients through the years have been autistic married men.

And she said stats on how many autistic men are single are misleading because a lot of autists don't even know they're autistic until later in life.

That's cope.
NT and extroversion is the most important if your MTN+
Also these autistic married men are most likely boomers, gen x or millennials and dated + married in a time where social media, dating apps, promiscuity and the (un)naturally following oversocialization weren't as rampant as now.
Society's and women's standards and visions of the "ideal" man were different.
Even just like 10-15 years ago.

 

[subltn]

For some context of how the topic came up: I told my counselor some poster online said "A woman is biologically programmed to be repulsed by weak genes, which is why a lot of autistic men struggle to get a woman"

My counselor said "So much to unpack with that comment. First of all, it's not true. Second of all, that comment is incredibly ableist. Furthermore, that comment reeks of toxic masculinity."

She then explained what toxic masculinity is. She said toxic masculinity is the idea that men are supposed to be dominant alphas (and the idea that any man who doesn't fit the dominant alpha stereotype is inferior)

I agree with her. The idea that being a dominant alpha is the only way to be a man is incredibly toxic.

Up until yesterday, I had heard the term toxic masculinity before, yet I never knew what it meant. Somehow I thought "toxic masculinity" was just some misandrist mumbo jumbo. I'm shocked I (upon finding out what toxic masculinity means) agree with the idea that it's toxic.

soyest faggest account on org and goes to some fake therapist

 

[Klasik616]

My counselor said a lot of her clients through the years have been autistic married men.

And she said stats on how many autistic men are single are misleading because a lot of autists don't even know they're autistic until later in life.

Atleast 70% of aspie men never had girlfriends

 

[New Poster]

Still can’t get over the ai generated cuck avi

 

[BadLuck7892]

That's cope.
NT and extroversion is the most important if your MTN+
Also these autistic married men are most likely boomers, gen x or millennials and dated + married in a time where social media, dating apps, promiscuity and the (un)naturally following oversocialization weren't as rampant as now.
Society's and women's standards and visions of the "ideal" man were different.
Even just like 10-15 years ago.

I'm a Millennial, yet never managed to find a long-term partner (longest relationship was 8 months)

 

[BadLuck7892]

Still can’t get over the ai generated cuck avi

I asked AI to generate a picture of me. The result is pretty realistic.

 

[BadLuck7892]

I went to a speed dating event this weekend (and had a mild victory)

My counselor is evidently doing a good job with me.

 

[imabetanumale]

she hates her hypermasculine ex bf

 

[BadLuck7892]

she hates her hypermasculine ex bf

Certainly a possibility.

I don't know much about her dating history. All I know is she's an obese White woman married to a Latino man.

 

[snowbunnypolice]

Certainly a possibility.

I don't know much about her dating history. All I know is she's an obese White woman married to a Latino man.

Many such cases

 

[valentine]

yes ive been saying this but retards on org are so low iq theyre just gonna jfl react

 

[dnrwarrior11]

dnr toxic masculinity doesnt flippin exist

 

[BadLuck7892]

Even if autistic men are single at a higher rate than neurotypical men, that doesn't necessarily mean the typical foid is repulsed by autistic men.

There are a number of other explanations to explain a higher singlehood rate in autistic men vs neurotypical men.

For one, autistic men are less likely to make a move than NT men are.

Additionally, when we make a move, we're more likely than a neurotypical man to make a move on the "wrong" woman (because we have a hard time reading a foid's clues). On a related note, there are probably instances where a foid really wants us to make a move on her, yet we fail to read her hints (so we never make a move on her)

Lastly, since normal daily life exhausts autists to a degree neurotypicals could never fathom, a lot of autistic men simply lack the energy for a relationship (in other words, many autistic single men are probably single by choice)

 

[hopecel]

For some context of how the topic came up: I told my counselor some poster online said "A woman is biologically programmed to be repulsed by weak genes, which is why a lot of autistic men struggle to get a woman"

My counselor said "So much to unpack with that comment. First of all, it's not true. Second of all, that comment is incredibly ableist. Furthermore, that comment reeks of toxic masculinity."

She then explained what toxic masculinity is. She said toxic masculinity is the idea that men are supposed to be dominant alphas (and the idea that any man who doesn't fit the dominant alpha stereotype is inferior)

I agree with her. The idea that being a dominant alpha is the only way to be a man is incredibly toxic.

Up until yesterday, I had heard the term toxic masculinity before, yet I never knew what it meant. Somehow I thought "toxic masculinity" was just some misandrist mumbo jumbo. I'm shocked I (upon finding out what toxic masculinity means) agree with the idea that it's toxic.

spoiler alert: she lied to you and just repeated to you what she as a NPC had been taught about

 

[looksmaxxed]

toxic masculiity describes traits which allow men to have power over wymxn and weak men. this is why low t male feminists and femoids want to eradicated this from societ

 

[BadLuck7892]

toxic masculiity describes traits which allow men to have power over wymxn and weak men. this is why low t male feminists and femoids want to eradicated this from societ

What about me: A beta male who hates feminism

 

[Deleted member 6305]

I hate men who act in an over masculine way just so they feel bettet with themselves, the worst part is that they like to project their insecurities into others...

 

[KingCell]

For some context of how the topic came up: I told my counselor some poster online said "A woman is biologically programmed to be repulsed by weak genes, which is why a lot of autistic men struggle to get a woman"

My counselor said "So much to unpack with that comment. First of all, it's not true. Second of all, that comment is incredibly ableist. Furthermore, that comment reeks of toxic masculinity."

She then explained what toxic masculinity is. She said toxic masculinity is the idea that men are supposed to be dominant alphas (and the idea that any man who doesn't fit the dominant alpha stereotype is inferior)

I agree with her. The idea that being a dominant alpha is the only way to be a man is incredibly toxic.

Up until yesterday, I had heard the term toxic masculinity before, yet I never knew what it meant. Somehow I thought "toxic masculinity" was just some misandrist mumbo jumbo. I'm shocked I (upon finding out what toxic masculinity means) agree with the idea that it's toxic.

First mistake is thinking a foid especially counselor would be honest.

 

[Primalsplit]

It is true though. Only dominant alpha men are considered to be men. This is the real perception by women themselves.

Any man who is not dominant are literally inferior men. This is literally what dominant/weak is.

Nature doesn't care about your feelings. This is how it has always been.

 

[Godera]

Its a toxic world

 

[AlexAP]

Well women are repulsed by autistic men.
The stats support this

Yeah as they should, autism is disgusting.

 

[BadLuck7892]

It is true though. Only dominant alpha men are considered to be men. This is the real perception by women themselves.

Any man who is not dominant are literally inferior men. This is literally what dominant/weak is.

Nature doesn't care about your feelings. This is how it has always been.

Then how come my married female counselor said otherwise?

 

[Primalsplit]

Then how come my married female counselor said otherwise?

You said yourself why.

 

[BadLuck7892]

Yeah as they should, autism is disgusting.

Umm, if autism is a crippling disability (which it is), then autism is an excuse for being a dorky loser.