My dad is body shaming my sister

[diditeverbegin]

I know a lot of you won’t give a fuck or think she deserves it and that body shame is a faggot term, but it’s actually fucked up. Idk how to deal with it man. My mom is on a trip right now so I have to be the mediator now.

Yeah my sister is chubby and she would benefit from losing weight but she is younger than me and a girl so she can’t really take the harshness. It’s probably her biggest insecurity so it hurts me to see someone I care about a lot get hurt like that.

Making fun of people doesn’t really help them change and if it does, a lot of the time it’s for revenge or it leads to them executing the change poorly.

I look up to my dad, but sometimes is hard asf especially in situations like this or when he undermines my accomplishments and insinuates all I’m good for is getting good grades in school.
@davidlaidisme67 @superpsycho @hax @lastredeemer

 

[diditeverbegin]

I already feel like everyone will think I am a faggot for this/caring about it but this place is somewhere I can vent anonymously

 

[superpsycho]

good, being fat is subhuman

i wish i listened to the body shaming more when i was younger

 

[hax]

your dad is retarded, i'm sorry

 

[diditeverbegin]

good, being fat is subhuman

i wish i listened to the body shaming more when i was younger

I already knew this would happen. I know it is, but I feel bad bruh especially since she isn’t even in high school yet

 

[hax]

there's many other ways to tell you child to lose weight instead of bullying him

 

[Swarthy Knight]

Thought this was a sarcastic Reddit pasta for a second stop being soft nigga. Tell ur fatazz sister to follow a diet and exercise. It's for her own good

 

[diditeverbegin]

your dad is retarded, i'm sorry

He has two masters degrees but he is not that good socially

 

[superpsycho]

I already knew this would happen. I know it is, but I feel bad bruh especially since she isn’t even in high school yet

tbh it doesnt really matter if she loses weight or not because shes a girl and will end up living a normal life with or without the weight anyway

 

[hax]

He has two masters degrees but he is not that good socially

i was talking about socially from what i could read
wasn't questioning his overall intellect in other subjects

 

[diditeverbegin]

Thought this was a sarcastic Reddit pasta for a second stop being soft nigga. Tell ur fatazz sister to follow a diet and exercise. It's for her own good

I do tell her. I alr knew I should have posted this shit, that’s why I put some type of disclaimer at the start. I’m not advocating for some muh body positivity everybody is perfect. And the main point is I don’t know what to do. I’m the one who has to be the mediator and calm everyone down

 

[Shrek2OnDvD]

People on this site tend to be harsh and cruel. It’s just part of how the wider user base behaves. Don’t take it to heart

But yeah, what your dad is doing is messed up. As a parent he has an obligation to guide and teach his children with respect, dignity and empathy

He thinks he’s doing something good, but really he’s just riddling her little mind with insecurities and self image issues that could last for the rest of her life. They don’t realise how seriously their words can mess you up

Support your sister and be kind to her. She’s probably going through some stuff right now. If you can, speak honestly to your dad about his behaviour

 

[diditeverbegin]

People on this site tend to be harsh and cruel. It’s just part of how the wider user base behaves. Don’t take it to heart

But yeah, what your dad is doing is messed up. As a parent he has an obligation to guide and teach his children with respect, dignity and empathy

He thinks he’s doing something good, but really he’s just riddling her little mind with insecurities and self image issues that could last for the rest of her life. They don’t realise how seriously their words can mess you up

Support your sister and be kind to her. She’s probably going through some stuff right now. If you can, speak honestly to your dad about his behaviour

This shit is probably ai but thanks for at least acknowledging the struggle idrk how to navigate this shit

 

[fwhr glazer]

I know a lot of you won’t give a fuck or think she deserves it and that body shame is a faggot term, but it’s actually fucked up. Idk how to deal with it man. My mom is on a trip right now so I have to be the mediator now.

Yeah my sister is chubby and she would benefit from losing weight but she is younger than me and a girl so she can’t really take the harshness. It’s probably her biggest insecurity so it hurts me to see someone I care about a lot get hurt like that.

Making fun of people doesn’t really help them change and if it does, a lot of the time it’s for revenge or it leads to them executing the change poorly.

I look up to my dad, but sometimes is hard asf especially in situations like this or when he undermines my accomplishments and insinuates all I’m good for is getting good grades in school.
@davidlaidisme67 @superpsycho @hax @lastredeemer

How dare he hes so mean and evil

 

[diditeverbegin]

tbh it doesnt really matter if she loses weight or not because shes a girl and will end up living a normal life with or without the weight anyway

I know
It is just like walking on eggshells when my dad is angry

 

[Shrek2OnDvD]

This shit is probably ai but thanks for at least acknowledging the struggle idrk how to navigate this shit

Me when I type paragraphs of text just to get told it’s AI

 

[diditeverbegin]

How dare he hes so mean and evil

Are u trolling me like everyone else, everyone thinks I am soy for this. Muh family pill but when someone writes about it everyone dgaf

 

[diditeverbegin]

Me when I type paragraphs of text just to get told it’s AI

If it’s real thanks

 

[fwhr glazer]

Are u trolling me like everyone else, everyone thinks I am soy for this. Muh family pill but when someone writes about it everyone dgaf

Im not trolling Why would you shame your daughter for having a little bit of fat like Thats good

 

[diditeverbegin]

Im not trolling Why would you shame your daughter for having a little bit of fat like Thats good

She does need to cut down but the environment overall during these situations just sucks

 

[Shrek2OnDvD]

If it’s real thanks

Yeah no I wouldn’t use AI on something serious like this. I’m not an expert or anything but I can relate to your sister

My mom mercilessly bullied me about my appearance growing up and she still does. It’s left me with severe insecurities and body image issues. I can’t even look at myself in the mirror. I’m not happy with the way I look

 

[diditeverbegin]

Everybody will dnr and not understand

 

[Gymcell&Mtn]

I know a lot of you won’t give a fuck or think she deserves it and that body shame is a faggot term, but it’s actually fucked up. Idk how to deal with it man. My mom is on a trip right now so I have to be the mediator now.

Yeah my sister is chubby and she would benefit from losing weight but she is younger than me and a girl so she can’t really take the harshness. It’s probably her biggest insecurity so it hurts me to see someone I care about a lot get hurt like that.

Making fun of people doesn’t really help them change and if it does, a lot of the time it’s for revenge or it leads to them executing the change poorly.

I look up to my dad, but sometimes is hard asf especially in situations like this or when he undermines my accomplishments and insinuates all I’m good for is getting good grades in school.
@davidlaidisme67 @superpsycho @hax @lastredeemer

Tell you dad to stop and thats Not how to Help her, explain the concept of a calorie deficit beetween to both of them, and maybe they will get it. A child shouldnt be overweight thats neglect. If you cant get her on a deficit, make Sure she moves everyday so shes healthy.
Also call your Mom and inform about whats Happening. And when a fight or a conflict starts Take her in your room or leave the House with her so your mental health gets better

 

[fwhr glazer]

She does need to cut down but the environment overall during these situations just sucks

I feel like its easier to cut down if your just helped or left alone but shaming makes it harder

 

[grilldaddy❤️]

Sad situation

 

[Swarthy Knight]

People on this site tend to be harsh and cruel. It’s just part of how the wider user base behaves. Don’t take it to heart

But yeah, what your dad is doing is messed up. As a parent he has an obligation to guide and teach his children with respect, dignity and empathy

He thinks he’s doing something good, but really he’s just riddling her little mind with insecurities and self image issues that could last for the rest of her life. They don’t realise how seriously their words can mess you up

Support your sister and be kind to her. She’s probably going through some stuff right now. If you can, speak honestly to your dad about his behaviour

I'm completely against child abuse and being a tiger parent. And I'm not sure what he meant by "body shaming". Like if his dad is calling her a fat useless cunt or something degrading like that then obviously that's a bit extreme.

But pointing out that she's fat and teaching her that it's bad to look like that is a good thing imo. You should instill the mindset of your kid needing to get into good shape from a very early age. These bad habits of eating unhealthy and not getting exercise becomes harder to unlearn in adulthood when you're constantly busy.

 

[diditeverbegin]

I'm completely against child abuse and being a tiger parent. And I'm not sure what he meant by "body shaming". Like if his dad is calling her a fat useless cunt or something degrading like that then obviously that's a bit extreme.

But pointing out that she's fat and teaching her that it's bad to look like that is a good thing imo. You should instill the mindset of your kid needing to get into good shape from a very early age. These bad habits of eating unhealthy and not getting exercise becomes harder to unlearn in adulthood when you're constantly busy.

It’s more like the former than the latter. Because my mom has talked to her about it but she reacted positively because it wasn’t as harsh ig. My dad has a short temper so I don’t have that good of a relationship with him, or not as close as I’d want, because if i talk to him and he misinterprets it, he gets ticked off fast

 

[Arzenic]

I’m sorry for your sister, and no i’m not trolling. Genuienly it’s not okay to bully your own chlid.

Hopefully it all turns out well man

 

[laworg]

I know a lot of you won’t give a fuck or think she deserves it and that body shame is a faggot term, but it’s actually fucked up. Idk how to deal with it man. My mom is on a trip right now so I have to be the mediator now.

Yeah my sister is chubby and she would benefit from losing weight but she is younger than me and a girl so she can’t really take the harshness. It’s probably her biggest insecurity so it hurts me to see someone I care about a lot get hurt like that.

Making fun of people doesn’t really help them change and if it does, a lot of the time it’s for revenge or it leads to them executing the change poorly.

I look up to my dad, but sometimes is hard asf especially in situations like this or when he undermines my accomplishments and insinuates all I’m good for is getting good grades in school.
@davidlaidisme67 @superpsycho @hax @lastredeemer

China phone thats sad tho wish ir sister the best

 

[diditeverbegin]

China phone thats sad tho wish ir sister the best

Thanks, most people just read the title and probably didn’t skim and just concluded I’m a cuck because I feel bad for her

 

[Shrek2OnDvD]

I'm completely against child abuse and being a tiger parent. And I'm not sure what he meant by "body shaming". Like if his dad is calling her a fat useless cunt or something degrading like that then obviously that's a bit extreme.

But pointing out that she's fat and teaching her that it's bad to look like that is a good thing imo. You should instill the mindset of your kid needing to get into good shape from a very early age. These bad habits of eating unhealthy and not getting exercise becomes harder to unlearn in adulthood when you're constantly busy.

I agree

There’s a difference between having an honest and serious conversation with a child because you genuinely want to see them become better

A compassionate parent would provide the tools and support to help their child lose weight

Insulting them or treating them like crap isn’t gonna solve the issue. You need actual solutions and trust between you and your child

 

[FiendFiend]

I know a lot of you won’t give a fuck or think she deserves it and that body shame is a faggot term, but it’s actually fucked up. Idk how to deal with it man. My mom is on a trip right now so I have to be the mediator now.

Yeah my sister is chubby and she would benefit from losing weight but she is younger than me and a girl so she can’t really take the harshness. It’s probably her biggest insecurity so it hurts me to see someone I care about a lot get hurt like that.

Making fun of people doesn’t really help them change and if it does, a lot of the time it’s for revenge or it leads to them executing the change poorly.

I look up to my dad, but sometimes is hard asf especially in situations like this or when he undermines my accomplishments and insinuates all I’m good for is getting good grades in school.
@davidlaidisme67 @superpsycho @hax @lastredeemer

parents r faggots unless they actually love u (its quite rare)

 

[davidlaidisme67]

I know a lot of you won’t give a fuck or think she deserves it and that body shame is a faggot term, but it’s actually fucked up. Idk how to deal with it man. My mom is on a trip right now so I have to be the mediator now.

Yeah my sister is chubby and she would benefit from losing weight but she is younger than me and a girl so she can’t really take the harshness. It’s probably her biggest insecurity so it hurts me to see someone I care about a lot get hurt like that.

Making fun of people doesn’t really help them change and if it does, a lot of the time it’s for revenge or it leads to them executing the change poorly.

I look up to my dad, but sometimes is hard asf especially in situations like this or when he undermines my accomplishments and insinuates all I’m good for is getting good grades in school.
@davidlaidisme67 @superpsycho @hax @lastredeemer

my dad did the same to my older and younger sisters. Not even joking they all have eating disorders, some parents are genuinely evil

 

[diditeverbegin]

my dad did the same to my older and younger sisters. Not even joking they all have eating disorders, some parents are genuinely evil

This is why I was saying that the goal is good but the method is bad because most people will pursue the goal wrongly in response, full of anger, get a disorder, etc
It probably looks soft to care about this but with how my life has been as an inkwell, she has always been my closest friend probably

 

[diditeverbegin]

Thought this was a sarcastic Reddit pasta for a second stop being soft nigga. Tell ur fatazz sister to follow a diet and exercise. It's for her own good

I laughed when my dad beat her for sneaking out to trick or treat if you think I am ultra soft

 

[rawr]

This shit is probably ai but thanks for at least acknowledging the struggle idrk how to navigate this shit

100% ai lol

 

[160cmcurry]

I know a lot of you won’t give a fuck or think she deserves it and that body shame is a faggot term, but it’s actually fucked up. Idk how to deal with it man. My mom is on a trip right now so I have to be the mediator now.

Yeah my sister is chubby and she would benefit from losing weight but she is younger than me and a girl so she can’t really take the harshness. It’s probably her biggest insecurity so it hurts me to see someone I care about a lot get hurt like that.

Making fun of people doesn’t really help them change and if it does, a lot of the time it’s for revenge or it leads to them executing the change poorly.

I look up to my dad, but sometimes is hard asf especially in situations like this or when he undermines my accomplishments and insinuates all I’m good for is getting good grades in school.
@davidlaidisme67 @superpsycho @hax @lastredeemer

nah better to get her on ozempics or something, she won’t enjoy her youth if she’s bloated and overweight