My dad passed away

[TylerDurden2]

My dad passed away last thursday. The pain is unbereable. I don't know what to do, I have plenty of friends and family to talk to but I feel I can't get out everything that I feel rn. Can someone who has gone throught something similar give me some kind of advice? I'm thinking that therapy might be helpful. Idk rn I feel like I'm stuck and that life will never get better, like I won't be able to get over it. I'm 20 years old btw and he was 55, he died from a cardiac arrest, so it was unexpected. Please help

 

[Deleted member 55437]

I am sorry for your loss

 

[cobicado901]

 

[Vincent Freeman]

 

[Deleted member 115987]

My dad passed away last thursday. The pain is unbereable. I don't know what to do, I have plenty of friends and family to talk to but I feel I can't get out everything that I feel rn. Can someone who has gone throught something similar give me some kind of advice? I'm thinking that therapy might be helpful. Idk rn I feel like I'm stuck and that life will never get better, like I won't be able to get over it. I'm 20 years old btw and he was 55, he died from a cardiac arrest, so it was unexpected. Please help

RIP.go to therapy.dont stay in home all day.Good luck

 

[autistic_tendencies]

I’m sorry bro it will get better I promise but learn from this lesson and don’t take an random vaccines promised to save you going forward

 

[Deleted member 118189]

Hope u feel better.

 

[lurking truecel]

Hope he rests in peace

 

[kazama]

R.I.P. My condolences, hope everything gets better

 

[KT-34]

Try to talk about it with family members, it's okay to not feel at 100% specially after this happened but you shouldn't let that stop you, your dad wouldn't you to stop your life to mourn him, you gotta have to learn how to live with that

Wishing you the best of luck Bro

 

[R@m@]

Ashwagandha

 

[TylerDurden2]

I am sorry for your loss

RIP.go to therapy.dont stay in home all day.Good luck

I’m sorry bro it will get better I promise but learn from this lesson and don’t take an random vaccines promised to save you going forward

Hope u feel better.

Hope he rests in peace

R.I.P. My condolences, hope everything gets better

Thank you all so much for the words. I will take on the advice and go to therapy. I will do my best, wishing he's watching over me from above

 

[mortis]

He died because he saw your avi.

 

[TylerDurden2]

Try to talk about it with family members, it's okay to not feel at 100% specially after this happened but you shouldn't let that stop you, your dad wouldn't you to stop your life to mourn him, you gotta have to learn how to live with that

Wishing you the best of luck Bro

Thank you so much for the words and the advice, it really helps

 

[Deleted member 48352]

spirituality and learn to communicate with the dead

 

[Deleted member 91099]

He died because he saw your avi.

not the best moment to joke about that

 

[Deleted member 91099]

R.I.P @TylerDurden2 dad

 

[Kroker]

Hope you and your fam find solace

 

[bizzzz]

Honestly just try to be not alone rn
I've never experienced anything like this, but it's my biggest fear, and I overthink it a lot. So I can kinda relate, maybe if it's just 5 percent. You need to distract yourself somehow. Please take care of yourself dude, you're needed.

 

[Deleted member 90909]

I am really sorry for your loss.

No shame in talking to a professional about this. I know it's rough, dude, but you will get through this and thrive.

I wish you good health.

 

[TylerDurden2]

R.I.P @TylerDurden2 dad

Hope you and your fam find solace

Thank you so much for your words

 

[TylerDurden2]

I am really sorry for your loss.

No shame in talking to a professional about this. I know it's rough, dude, but you will get through this and thrive.

I wish you good health.

Thank you for your kind words. It helps a lot

 

[bizzzz]

You should actually start working now to make him proud. Try to fulfill all the wishes he had for you and his dreams. This would distract you from your loss somehow, but it will also give you mental peace knowing that you're doing what your dad wanted for you. He will be happy.

 

[cobicado901]

sorry for your loss btw.
hope you get therapy.
writing threads on org won’t help and you still have a long life to live.

 

[Donquixote]

Honestly sorry for your lose but don't lose hope it's life and everything will eventually become "normal"

 

[TylerDurden2]

Honestly just try to be not alone rn
I've never experienced anything like this, but it's my biggest fear, and I overthink it a lot. So I can kinda relate, maybe if it's just 5 percent. You need to distract yourself somehow. Please take care of yourself dude, you're needed.

Make sure to hug your dad and to have the best possible relationship with him, even if it takes strenght. I would do anything to hug him right now. Thank you for your words

 

[Donquixote]

You should actually start working now to make him proud. Try to fulfill all the wishes he had for you and his dreams. This would distract you from your loss somehow, but it will also give you mental peace knowing that you're doing what your dad wanted for you. He will be happy.

Are you 14 yo?

 

[Deleted member 104030]

time will heal it

in the meantime try to accept it and think about how you will meet him again in a later time. live your life to the fullest, your dad would be proud and he surely doesnt want u to grief too much

 

[TylerDurden2]

Honestly sorry for your lose but don't lose hope it's life and everything will eventually become "normal"

sorry for your loss btw.
hope you get therapy.
writing threads on org won’t help and you still have a long life to live.

Thanks for your kind words. Atp I'm just trying to find a way to cope with it, It's like im searching for answers

 

[bizzzz]

Are you 14 yo?

19

 

[TylerDurden2]

You should actually start working now to make him proud. Try to fulfill all the wishes he had for you and his dreams. This would distract you from your loss somehow, but it will also give you mental peace knowing that you're doing what your dad wanted for you. He will be happy.

time will heal it

in the meantime try to accept it and think about how you will meet him again in a later time. live your life to the fullest, your dad would be proud and he surely doesnt want u to grief too much

It's a good advice and I'll try to do my best. Right now it's very hard to put my mind into working hard, I guess it's still too early

 

[bizzzz]

Make sure to hug your dad and to have the best possible relationship with him, even if it takes strenght. I would do anything to hug him right now. Thank you for your words

"Yes, you're right. It's definitely hard for me to hug him, but your thread made me realize once again that I should just do it somehow. And yeah, take care of yourself, man.

 

[bizzzz]

It's a good advice and I'll try to do my best. Right now it's very hard to put my mind into working hard, I guess it's still too early

Yeah ofc, take your time to heal yourself and it's alr to mourn

 

[WrothEnd]

Wish you all the best. May he rest in peace.

I havent gone through anything like this so I don't have any actual advice but therapy is probably helpful. Stay safe.

 

[elfin]

"jarvis I'm low on reps"

 

[elfin]

But for real tho RIP and I hope you find your peace sooner or later.

 

[gonion wanter]

He’s looking up at you proud

 

[aDifferentPerspect]

Rip

 

[Lefor3Laser]

My dad passed away last thursday. The pain is unbereable. I don't know what to do, I have plenty of friends and family to talk to but I feel I can't get out everything that I feel rn. Can someone who has gone throught something similar give me some kind of advice? I'm thinking that therapy might be helpful. Idk rn I feel like I'm stuck and that life will never get better, like I won't be able to get over it. I'm 20 years old btw and he was 55, he died from a cardiac arrest, so it was unexpected. Please help

May he rest in peace, sorry for ur lose, can't give you any advice tbh.

 

[Poisonpunk3]

My condolences, his soul rests easier.

 

[Poisonpunk3]

 

[Deleted member 77328]

My dad passed away last thursday. The pain is unbereable. I don't know what to do, I have plenty of friends and family to talk to but I feel I can't get out everything that I feel rn. Can someone who has gone throught something similar give me some kind of advice? I'm thinking that therapy might be helpful. Idk rn I feel like I'm stuck and that life will never get better, like I won't be able to get over it. I'm 20 years old btw and he was 55, he died from a cardiac arrest, so it was unexpected. Please help

sorry for your loss

 

[vevcred]

Sorry to hear that bhai