my family judges so much

[PeakIncels]

LONG THREAD:dnr accepted


and it's not only my parents, it's my whole
fucking family, aunt's, uncle's, shit they make me feel like I'm the fucking black sheep of the family

actually my parents r chill with me, they respect my decisions blah blah

it's Christmas, I didn't go eat with them because whenever it's holidays and eat with them whole, they always be judging me

"You barely ate and barely eat, your a stick" "it seems like you want to avoid us" "you gotta go out more and get proper friends" "spend more time with your grandparents and respect them!"

AND they keep antagonizing me, saying stuff like they want to tease me, I never give in the ragebait, I'm not dumb, but it got lame, they always say the same shit same everything and I can't stand it

look, I understand maybe they worry(they don't) but this shit has been going on FOR years, only recently I decided to just fuck this all and I'm going to spend holidays alone and HOLY FUCK if that was liberating

they all hate me now but idgaf, I'm actually enjoying holidays for once

so j decided ts time I'll be at my house all cool w my homies, infact, it was a very positive experience, compared to the usual 24-25-31 December with the Anubis dick raters

what infuriates me the most tho? is that they are wealthy

holy fuck, one is a sergeant, the wife is I don't Fucking know, makes money somehow

and that's how they make me feel inferior, they have money, their kids are tall, athletic, all that muh perfect family shit

they just gave me 30€ and it feels more like it was out of pity

 

[PeakIncels]

Long thread, dnr accepted

 

[PeakIncels]

@BimaxLaser @chudlite @ey88 @raleqtambrobret @imthesupremecel @Kaari @dark.max @gookcelriceR

Long thread, dnr accepted

 

[aladdinmaxxer]

Dnrd you deserve it nigga

 

[BimaxLaser]

The post, "My Family Hates Me," describes the writer’s strained relationship with their extended family, who make them feel like the "black sheep." While their parents are supportive, family gatherings, especially during holidays, are toxic due to constant judgment and teasing.

The family criticizes them for their eating habits, lack of social interactions, and perceived disrespect for grandparents. Despite these remarks being repetitive and seemingly intended to provoke a reaction, the writer has stopped engaging and recently chose to spend holidays alone.

This decision was liberating and allowed them to enjoy the holidays for the first time. However, they feel resentment toward their wealthy relatives, who appear to flaunt their status and make them feel inferior. Even a €30 gift felt more like an act of pity. Ultimately, the writer has found peace distancing themselves from their family.

 

[PeakIncels]

The post, "My Family Hates Me," describes the writer’s strained relationship with their extended family, who make them feel like the "black sheep." While their parents are supportive, family gatherings, especially during holidays, are toxic due to constant judgment and teasing.

The family criticizes them for their eating habits, lack of social interactions, and perceived disrespect for grandparents. Despite these remarks being repetitive and seemingly intended to provoke a reaction, the writer has stopped engaging and recently chose to spend holidays alone.

This decision was liberating and allowed them to enjoy the holidays for the first time. However, they feel resentment toward their wealthy relatives, who appear to flaunt their status and make them feel inferior. Even a €30 gift felt more like an act of pity. Ultimately, the writer has found peace distancing themselves from their family.

yo wtf chat gpt???

 

[BimaxLaser]

yo wtf chat gpt???

Yes

 

[PeakIncels]

Yes

what did u ask it

 

[BimaxLaser]

what did u ask it

I asked it to summarize the post mane

 

[ascending birdcel]

LONG THREAD:dnr accepted


and it's not only my parents, it's my whole
fucking family, aunt's, uncle's, shit they make me feel like I'm the fucking black sheep of the family

actually my parents r chill with me, they respect my decisions blah blah

it's Christmas, I didn't go eat with them because whenever it's holidays and eat with them whole, they always be judging me

"You barely ate and barely eat, your a stick" "it seems like you want to avoid us" "you gotta go out more and get proper friends" "spend more time with your grandparents and respect them!"

AND they keep antagonizing me, saying stuff like they want to tease me, I never give in the ragebait, I'm not dumb, but it got lame, they always say the same shit same everything and I can't stand it

look, I understand maybe they worry(they don't) but this shit has been going on FOR years, only recently I decided to just fuck this all and I'm going to spend holidays alone and HOLY FUCK if that was liberating

they all hate me now but idgaf, I'm actually enjoying holidays for once

so j decided ts time I'll be at my house all cool w my homies, infact, it was a very positive experience, compared to the usual 24-25-31 December with the Anubis dick raters

what infuriates me the most tho? is that they are wealthy

holy fuck, one is a sergeant, the wife is I don't Fucking know, makes money somehow

and that's how they make me feel inferior, they have money, their kids are tall, athletic, all that muh perfect family shit

they just gave me 30€ and it feels more like it was out of pity

I have the same issue with my family they are jealous because they are disgusting obese meatballs and cant lose weight everytime i have to listen this shit too "you are too thin" " you have to eat more" lmao no retard i wont get your bait to looksmin my self so that you dont feel like shit when you get teramogged

 

[PeakIncels]

I have the same issue with my family they are jealous because they are disgusting obese meatballs and cant lose weight everytime i have to listen this shit too "you are too thin" " you have to eat more" lmao no retard i wont get your bait to looksmin my self so that you dont feel like shit when you get teramogged

in my case, they tell me that stuff, because I have an eating disorder, but I think it's just out of ragebait, also same, they are obese meatballs, only my parents r decently fit

 

[n9wiff]

Yeah I experience this too best to just tune it out. They don't understand your problems nor the difficulties it places on you, to them it's just something simple that can be fixed with swift general action.

They lack self awareness, true empathy and critical thinking.

 

[ascending birdcel]

in my case, they tell me that stuff, because I have an eating disorder, but I think it's just out of ragebait, also same, they are obese meatballs, only my parents r decently fit

They wouldnt make any affirmation towards your eating habits or weight if they were at a decent body fat % too , take it as a compliment each time they do or you did well avoiding them its what i do too

 

[PeakIncels]

Yeah I experience this too best to just tune it out. They don't understand your problems nor the difficulties it places on you, to them it's just something simple that can be fixed with swift general action.

They lack self awareness, true empathy and critical thinking.

exactly, I just despise them all, all my life, every second I spent with them, I didn't once, feel comfortable or even entertained, I just wanted to get away from them asap

Now they are hating me even harder, because I don't spend holidays, so I cut contacts off completely, instead I'm with my homies, and I'm enjoying my time, for once, Christmas feels "normal"

 

[PeakIncels]

Yeah I experience this too best to just tune it out. They don't understand your problems nor the difficulties it places on you, to them it's just something simple that can be fixed with swift general action.

They lack self awareness, true empathy and critical thinking.

it's just awful that I look around and ppl have normal relationship with their uncle's, aunt's, but me? fuck im like a hobo to them, separated completely, just a stranger, I'm happy about it tho, ig

 

[ascending birdcel]

Yeah I experience this too best to just tune it out. They don't understand your problems nor the difficulties it places on you, to them it's just something simple that can be fixed with swift general action.

They lack self awareness, true empathy and critical thinking.

Its not that imo they are just insanely jealous of your goals and they try to gaslight you into failure works like this for other stuff too like uni , work etc...

 

[DeadmansWonderland]

I mean, yeah, I would say you made the right call. Shit can be annoying, and since my graduation it has been a constant annoyance. Luckily, I have been able to keep it at a minimum.

"Oh, have you found a job yet?" "They haven't responded?" Etc.

You can tell from the tone they are judging, as if I am sabotaging myself in some way. Recently was accepted into a job for Zog, and I am debating whether it's the right call. Now the word is "you tried so hard for it" and "what are you not happy about it?"

Like no, not partially lmao. I wanted to avoid it cause it seems like an easy way out. Although the benefits are good for sure. But being a slave to Uncle Sam for 4 years is going to suck. With no agency and travel all over the place. Of course, all this happens when I finally find a gf that wants to go long term and seems ideal.

Also, all I did was wait. Five months of waiting and applying for random jobs. Adjusted my resume and got a couple more acceptances, but nothing for certain. Trying to stay hopeful though since either way I get benies and government job. Just whether I am a civie vs military is the big point of issue.

 

[PeakIncels]

I mean, yeah, I would say you made the right call. Shit can be annoying, and since my graduation it has been a constant annoyance. Luckily, I have been able to keep it at a minimum.

"Oh, have you found a job yet?" "They haven't responded?" Etc.

You can tell from the tone they are judging, as if I am sabotaging myself in some way. Recently was accepted into a job for Zog, and I am debating whether it's the right call. Now the word is "you tried so hard for it" and "what are you not happy about it?"

Like no, not partially lmao. I wanted to avoid it cause it seems like an easy way out. Although the benefits are good for sure. But being a slave to Uncle Sam for 4 years is going to suck. With no agency and travel all over the place. Of course, all this happens when I finally find a gf that wants to go long term and seems ideal.

Also, all I did was wait. Five months of waiting and applying for random jobs. Adjusted my resume and got a couple more acceptances, but nothing for certain. Trying to stay hopeful though since either way I get benies and government job. Just whether I am a civie vs military is the big point of issue.

annoyance is an understatement, imagine going everytime at a family dinner and being judged by 8 ppl Everytime, I know you feel me

Luckily they haven't gotten to the job part for me yet, they know I'm a bum, though, I couldn't care less

it's just insufferable how I can't have a peaceful, dinner with my near death grandparents, without being called out for my shit habits, that don't affect anyone

stay hopeful, you will find a good job soon, don't give up on this maybe eventually you will get lucky? I dunno, wish you luck tho

 

[raleqtambrobret]

just start wearing headphones/earbuds brocel

 

[PeakIncels]

just start wearing headphones/earbuds brocel

I can't at dinner, they would prolly grab my head and smash it with a nut cracker

 

[raleqtambrobret]

I can't at dinner, they would prolly grab my head and smash it with a nut cracker

have 1 earbud in and disassociate

 

[diditeverbegin]

Black sheep black sheep do you have any wool
Yes sir yes sir three bags full

 

[chudlite]

LONG THREAD:dnr accepted


and it's not only my parents, it's my whole
fucking family, aunt's, uncle's, shit they make me feel like I'm the fucking black sheep of the family

actually my parents r chill with me, they respect my decisions blah blah

it's Christmas, I didn't go eat with them because whenever it's holidays and eat with them whole, they always be judging me

"You barely ate and barely eat, your a stick" "it seems like you want to avoid us" "you gotta go out more and get proper friends" "spend more time with your grandparents and respect them!"

AND they keep antagonizing me, saying stuff like they want to tease me, I never give in the ragebait, I'm not dumb, but it got lame, they always say the same shit same everything and I can't stand it

look, I understand maybe they worry(they don't) but this shit has been going on FOR years, only recently I decided to just fuck this all and I'm going to spend holidays alone and HOLY FUCK if that was liberating

they all hate me now but idgaf, I'm actually enjoying holidays for once

so j decided ts time I'll be at my house all cool w my homies, infact, it was a very positive experience, compared to the usual 24-25-31 December with the Anubis dick raters

what infuriates me the most tho? is that they are wealthy

holy fuck, one is a sergeant, the wife is I don't Fucking know, makes money somehow

and that's how they make me feel inferior, they have money, their kids are tall, athletic, all that muh perfect family shit

they just gave me 30€ and it feels more like it was out of pity

moneymax and mog them

 

[imthesupremecel]

You should’ve tried telling them you don’t like it first tbh but still W for you

 

[R@m@]

Family gatherings seem to be the same everywhere

 

[maxxmaxxing-]

let me put it simple.. your a high inhibcel.. your boring to talk to, and you give them zero interest or challenge in a conversation, being they are your family they don't want to fully ignore you and come off rude, so they joke with/ at you or try and say something humorous because thats all they are able to do, clearly you aren't one for conversations.. i used to be the SAME way when i was young and felt the EXACT same about how my family (distant family) treated me.. until i realized i was the problem, being that i would try to quickly end conversations with simple short answers, or not question others in the conversation, or overall be disinterested.. no one wants to talk to a kid OR adult like that, now that i've broken free from my old severe anxiety/adhd issues i can talk with anyone about anything and hold a convo as long as i want. its all about growing up and seeing shit from a diff perspective

 

[PeakIncels]

let me put it simple.. your a high inhibcel.. your boring to talk to, and you give them zero interest or challenge in a conversation, being they are your family they don't want to fully ignore you and come off rude, so they joke with/ at you or try and say something humorous because thats all they are able to do, clearly you aren't one for conversations.. i used to be the SAME way when i was young and felt the EXACT same about how my family (distant family) treated me.. until i realized i was the problem, being that i would try to quickly end conversations with simple short answers, or not question others in the conversation, or overall be disinterested.. no one wants to talk to a kid OR adult like that, now that i've broken free from my old severe anxiety/adhd issues i can talk with anyone about anything and hold a convo as long as i want. its all about growing up and seeing shit from a diff perspective

I would say your right, but they don't try to engage in conversation, I can feel it In their tone that they are provocating me everytime, purposely speaking about sensitive stuff, no that's not tryna start a convo, that's just being a dick

 

[maxxmaxxing-]

I would say your right, but they don't try to engage in conversation, I can feel it In their tone that they are provocating me everytime, purposely speaking about sensitive stuff, no that's not tryna start a convo, that's just being a dick

yes, they may have once been at the point of simple convo but years of what i explained has conditioned them to expect that out of you and rather than have a shitty convo and waste their time they'd rather poke fun at you or, maybe then have a false feeling that you meant your shyness out of malice I've had people like this in my family that are dicks to me just because I'm quiet and don't wanna talk to them, they see it as us purposely ignoring them and being rude where in reality its usually just shyness or awkwardness inhibiting us.. but yeah, stand your ground and if you feel they are being rude talk to your parents and tell them exactly what happened and how you feel, you do need to be standing up for yourself though so if one of your family members tries doing this again just simply say "i dont enjoy what your saying, and i dont want to talk to you". firm but fair