My father never taught me anything...

[Esteban1997]

He never taught me how to tie my shoes how to dress properly how to Talk to Girls how to socialize literally nothing..

 

[Esteban1997]

Bump

 

[Esteban1997]

I dont hate my father but he made me a complete failure

 

[whotthehell]

Allat irrelevant! Just be good looking in the face!

 

[Squirtoutmabooty]

I hear the pain in your words, and I want you to know that it’s okay to feel frustrated and hurt by the lack of guidance you feel you’ve received. It’s understandable to wish that your father had been there for you in those formative ways, teaching you life skills, confidence, and the social tools many of us take for granted. A father figure can play a crucial role in shaping how we navigate the world, and when that guidance is missing, it can leave a significant void. You’ve been left to figure out things on your own, and that can feel incredibly isolating.





That said, it’s important to acknowledge that not every father has the ability or emotional resources to teach these things. There are fathers who are simply not equipped with the skills themselves, and that lack of guidance isn’t necessarily a reflection of your worth or potential. Sometimes, fathers struggle with their own issues—whether emotional, mental, or circumstantial—that prevent them from being the kind of role model they wish they could be. It doesn’t make their absence right, but understanding that their failure might come from their own limitations can help you release the anger and frustration that’s holding you back.





The truth is, the lessons you feel you missed aren’t gone forever. There are plenty of people who can step into those roles of teaching you the skills you never got. You don’t have to be defined by what you didn’t learn from your father. There are other ways to build confidence, connect with others, and learn practical skills. You can teach yourself how to tie your shoes, learn to dress well, and figure out how to socialize. These are all things that can be learned at any stage of life. There are endless resources—books, videos, mentors, and even therapy—that can help fill in the gaps. Just because you didn’t have that knowledge handed to you as a child doesn’t mean it’s too late to learn now.





When it comes to relationships, both social and romantic, there’s no one-size-fits-all guide, but you can absolutely develop those skills. Understanding how to approach women or how to interact with friends might seem intimidating, but at its core, it comes down to being genuine and learning from trial and error. Every interaction is an opportunity to refine those skills, and over time, you’ll develop confidence. It’s not about perfection but about the willingness to learn and grow. In fact, your struggles could make you more empathetic, helping you build connections that are deeper and more meaningful because you’ve had to work harder for them.





Socializing, like any skill, gets easier the more you practice. If you didn’t learn it early on, then now’s your chance to make up for lost time, and that’s a powerful opportunity. Socializing is about being authentic and finding people who appreciate who you are, flaws and all. People who get you won’t judge you for where you’re coming from, but rather they’ll value your growth and your willingness to open up. The more you engage in different social settings, the more comfortable you’ll become with yourself and others.





Finally, it’s worth noting that healing from this kind of neglect is a process. It might not happen overnight, and it might not be easy, but you’re already showing a lot of self-awareness by recognizing the gaps you feel in your life. You don’t need to keep carrying the weight of feeling like you’ve been denied the lessons you deserved. The absence of one person doesn’t define your capacity for growth. You have the strength and ability to learn, adapt, and thrive, no matter what you were or weren’t taught. You can create your own path, with the tools you gain from others who are willing to show up and help you along the way.

 

[Suns9999]

Allat irrelevant! Just be good looking in the face!

spit your shit indeed !

 

[chad8281828]

I dont hate my father but he made me a complete failure

Same mine never thaught me anything besides how to play soccer.Ive learned myself how to tie my shoes ,how to talk to girls ,how to do basic stuff myself which makes me more prouder .He is still in my life but I still resent him bcus of it.

 

[craven]

I hear the pain in your words, and I want you to know that it’s okay to feel frustrated and hurt by the lack of guidance you feel you’ve received. It’s understandable to wish that your father had been there for you in those formative ways, teaching you life skills, confidence, and the social tools many of us take for granted. A father figure can play a crucial role in shaping how we navigate the world, and when that guidance is missing, it can leave a significant void. You’ve been left to figure out things on your own, and that can feel incredibly isolating.





That said, it’s important to acknowledge that not every father has the ability or emotional resources to teach these things. There are fathers who are simply not equipped with the skills themselves, and that lack of guidance isn’t necessarily a reflection of your worth or potential. Sometimes, fathers struggle with their own issues—whether emotional, mental, or circumstantial—that prevent them from being the kind of role model they wish they could be. It doesn’t make their absence right, but understanding that their failure might come from their own limitations can help you release the anger and frustration that’s holding you back.





The truth is, the lessons you feel you missed aren’t gone forever. There are plenty of people who can step into those roles of teaching you the skills you never got. You don’t have to be defined by what you didn’t learn from your father. There are other ways to build confidence, connect with others, and learn practical skills. You can teach yourself how to tie your shoes, learn to dress well, and figure out how to socialize. These are all things that can be learned at any stage of life. There are endless resources—books, videos, mentors, and even therapy—that can help fill in the gaps. Just because you didn’t have that knowledge handed to you as a child doesn’t mean it’s too late to learn now.





When it comes to relationships, both social and romantic, there’s no one-size-fits-all guide, but you can absolutely develop those skills. Understanding how to approach women or how to interact with friends might seem intimidating, but at its core, it comes down to being genuine and learning from trial and error. Every interaction is an opportunity to refine those skills, and over time, you’ll develop confidence. It’s not about perfection but about the willingness to learn and grow. In fact, your struggles could make you more empathetic, helping you build connections that are deeper and more meaningful because you’ve had to work harder for them.





Socializing, like any skill, gets easier the more you practice. If you didn’t learn it early on, then now’s your chance to make up for lost time, and that’s a powerful opportunity. Socializing is about being authentic and finding people who appreciate who you are, flaws and all. People who get you won’t judge you for where you’re coming from, but rather they’ll value your growth and your willingness to open up. The more you engage in different social settings, the more comfortable you’ll become with yourself and others.





Finally, it’s worth noting that healing from this kind of neglect is a process. It might not happen overnight, and it might not be easy, but you’re already showing a lot of self-awareness by recognizing the gaps you feel in your life. You don’t need to keep carrying the weight of feeling like you’ve been denied the lessons you deserved. The absence of one person doesn’t define your capacity for growth. You have the strength and ability to learn, adapt, and thrive, no matter what you were or weren’t taught. You can create your own path, with the tools you gain from others who are willing to show up and help you along the way.

HOLY DNR NIGGER NICE WALL OF TEXT GO SEND IT TO TRUMP SO HE CAN KEEP TACOS MAKERS IN THEIR LANDS
GO FUCKING KILL UR SELF

 

[Squirtoutmabooty]

 

[Atilapilled]

He never taught me how to tie my shoes how to dress properly how to Talk to Girls how to socialize literally nothing..

same

 

[The Grinch]

Same, he never gave me a single advice on anything, but he expects me to do everything right at the same time and gets mad when i do something wrong

 

[Esteban1997]

Same, he never gave me a single advice on anything, but he expects me to do everything right at the same time and gets mad when i do something wrong

Same whenever i do something wrong he expects me to be perfect at It in which he didnt even teach me i mean come on man..

 

[Vermilioncore]

buddy walking around with shoelaces all untied