my first day at uni tommorow. any advice?

[оrg]

just finished hs and going into college. im not gonna be staying here tho cause ill be switching colleges next year. i need advice from oldcels that have been in college so if yk them tag them

 

[оrg]

bump of doom

 

[оrg]

b

 

[User28823]

studying what

 

[widdi]

Go to clubs, talk to people on your dorm floor

You have to get a mixed social circle somehow. It’s a big failo if your entire friend group is male. If that happens you basically have to restart, change schools, maybe fake your own death idk

 

[Deleted member 176586]

Bro stuck in the matrix

 

[оrg]

studying what

buisness managment

 

[оrg]

Go to clubs, talk to people on your dorm floor

You have to get a mixed social circle somehow. It’s a big failo if your entire friend group is male. If that happens you basically have to restart, change schools, maybe fake your own death idk

oh wow why does it have to be mixed?

 

[VrillFatNoob24]

just finished hs and going into college. im not gonna be staying here tho cause ill be switching colleges next year. i need advice from oldcels that have been in college so if yk them tag them

go naked and scream for Finance.org

 

[pfl]

Bro stuck in the matrix

 

[User28823]

buisness managment

focus on getting internships asap

 

[widdi]

oh wow why does it have to be mixed?

Because then you can’t really date based on social circle so you have to go to bars, clubs, OLD which are all dogshit.

 

[Deleted member 176586]

Just sit in the corner alone like a sigma alpha male

 

[Daddy's Home]

just finished hs and going into college. im not gonna be staying here tho cause ill be switching colleges next year. i need advice from oldcels that have been in college so if yk them tag them

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Top 10 Things To Do And Not To Do If You Just Started University! (As a INCEL)

Tbh, if i knew this shit 6 years ago i guess i wouldn't be here now, and i'd be in a much better position, but.. No matter what country you're from, what you look like or what your goals are from university or the dating market out there, here are 10 things you should try to do, and 10 things...

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[оrg]

Because then you can’t really date based on social circle so you have to go to bars, clubs, OLD which are all dogshit.

ill take pheni tmrw 3 hrs before i go there so it'll be easier for me to socialize

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

talk about anime daily

 

[оrg]

talk about anime daily

which one

 

[оrg]

Must read..

Top 10 Things To Do And Not To Do If You Just Started University! (As a INCEL)

Tbh, if i knew this shit 6 years ago i guess i wouldn't be here now, and i'd be in a much better position, but.. No matter what country you're from, what you look like or what your goals are from university or the dating market out there, here are 10 things you should try to do, and 10 things...

looksmax.org

gonna bingread that in a sec ty bhai

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Go to clubs, talk to people on your dorm floor

You have to get a mixed social circle somehow. It’s a big failo if your entire friend group is male. If that happens you basically have to restart, change schools, maybe fake your own death idk

Even more importantly in uni. Don't be a lone wolf sigma like me a social group asap and stick with it. It becomes a lot harder to break into one after the junior year. That way you'll have people to hang out with, maybe even a chance at a girlfriend and overall a more balanced life. I had 0 social circle in uni and that was a big reason I was always lonely. I had friends but only give and take friends not people I could hang out with. If I wasnt getting drunk every other night in my 2nd year I am sure I would still be an Incel rn.

 

[laworg]

just finished hs and going into college. im not gonna be staying here tho cause ill be switching colleges next year. i need advice from oldcels that have been in college so if yk them tag them

Go shirtless and slide around campus

 

[arge]

be a narcissist and u will be fine

 

[оrg]

be a narcissist and u will be fine

elaborate blou

 

[arge]

elaborate blou

narcissist = big ego
big ego = you will be feared
fear = respect from others.

with big ego u will be desired more, and people will try to win ur approval, treat every one like shit (not always) + try having a low inhibition.
and don't let shi slide, any type of disrespect or any behavior that u don't appreciate, if u "let it slide" u are giving them the green flag to do it again, if u stopped them once, they will never do it again.

in summary: don't be a cuck

 

[оrg]

narcissist = big ego
big ego = you will be feared
fear = respect from others.

with big ego u will be desired more, and people will try to win ur approval, treat every one like shit (not always) + try having a low inhibition.
and don't let shi slide, any type of disrespect or any behavior that u don't appreciate, if u "let it slide" u are giving them the green flag to do it again, if u stopped them once, they will never do it again.

in summary: don't be a cuck

lowkey this will js make me alone bro

 

[оrg]

narcissist = big ego
big ego = you will be feared
fear = respect from others.

with big ego u will be desired more, and people will try to win ur approval, treat every one like shit (not always) + try having a low inhibition.
and don't let shi slide, any type of disrespect or any behavior that u don't appreciate, if u "let it slide" u are giving them the green flag to do it again, if u stopped them once, they will never do it again.

in summary: don't be a cuck

@Daddy's Home thoughts?

 

[Daddy's Home]

@Daddy's Home thoughts?

Neh, just beeing nonchalant and act cool and chill it's enough..

 

[arge]

lowkey this will js make me alone bro

quite the opposite, people will try to win u over

 

[оrg]

Neh, just beeing nonchalant and act cool and chill it's enough..

yea but wouldn't that prohibit me from going up to people? i feel like if i take everything to heart and i act like a true narcissist nobody will really like me or try to hangout with me

 

[оrg]

quite the opposite, people will try to win u over

did you experience this yourself?

 

[оrg]

quite the opposite, people will try to win u over

i feel like you're right and this definitely works but not from the start. i think if i did this from day 1 it would fail. this would work better if i used the law of absence and gradually started to change my behaviour. wdyt

 

[arge]

did you experience this yourself?

I was at the other side, I used to try to win people's approval (the people who acted like this ) until I realized that it was sum cuck behavior, then noticed what they all have in common...big ego

 

[оrg]

I was at the other side, I used to try to win people's approval (the people who acted like this ) until I realized that it was sum cuck behavior, then noticed what they all have in common...big ego

how did they behave? like they left you on seen, wouldn't laugh at your jokes (when you're laughing at theirs), would sometimes ignore you mid convo, would randomly give attention and dissapear? i think im understanding what you mean.

 

[arge]

how did they behave? like they left you on seen, wouldn't laugh at your jokes (when you're laughing at theirs), would sometimes ignore you mid convo, would randomly give attention and dissapear? i think im understanding what you mean.

in my situation, it was textbook bullying, he used to make fun of me, ignore me/don't give me value etc...then I tried to win his approval to show him that I am "valid".

 

[оrg]

in my situation, it was textbook bullying, he used to make fun of me, ignore me/don't give me value etc...then I tried to win his approval to show him that I am "valid".

i get what you mean, god i hate those people man. but you don't have to be like him. genuine friendships are made from honesty and companionship. and you know not everyone's the same and there are so many people out there that are way better than that gay retarded dickhead mirroring the way other people treat you is the best.

 

[Zenis]

just finished hs and going into college. im not gonna be staying here tho cause ill be switching colleges next year. i need advice from oldcels that have been in college so if yk them tag them

Sit in the corner and mean mug everyone