My friend gave me the most RETARDED bluepill advice

[Genio]

DNR users GTFO

So it started off with us talking about Girls we have recently been talking to (or girls we have liked for a long time), I told him That I liked a girl who we will call Stacy, And I said I am wayy out of Stacies league, and he starts telling me that I dont look that bad and I have a pretty good chance.

I messed up here, telling him that I am planning soon to go on Steroids and might get Surgery when I grow older, and he tells me that im going too far with this looksmaxxing thing and the most I can do is skincare and fashion sense (as if Fashion can change your bone structure), and that Personality matters more than looks and getting surgery is very risky

He tells me by the time I get my Surgeries, Stacy would have moved on and ive done all this for nothing, and that I am risking death and Body Dismorphia for nothing.

It ends with me telling him that "hes right" just because I couldnt stand to hear any more of this Bluepilled bs.

 

[Genio]

bump

 

[Rizzinator]

He's right in the fact that you shouldn't wait with asking her out. Do It ASAP.
Realistically speaking, when were you planning to get those surgeries anyway?

 

[Divineincel]

DNR users GTFO

So it started off with us talking about Girls we have recently been talking to (or girls we have liked for a long time), I told him That I liked a girl who we will call Stacy, And I said I am wayy out of Stacies league, and he starts telling me that I dont look that bad and I have a pretty good chance.

I messed up here, telling him that I am planning soon to go on Steroids and might get Surgery when I grow older, and he tells me that im going too far with this looksmaxxing thing and the most I can do is skincare and fashion sense (as if Fashion can change your bone structure), and that Personality matters more than looks and getting surgery is very risky

He tells me by the time I get my Surgeries, Stacy would have moved on and ive done all this for nothing, and that I am risking death and Body Dismorphia for nothing.

It ends with me telling him that "hes right" just because I couldnt stand to hear any more of this Bluepilled bs.

I mean you can try, it won’t hurt. On usual stacies are not mean. The most mean women are ltbs and sub4s

 

[rawr]

Pretty good advice. Stacy clearly doesn't like you because of that blue shirt you're wearing, just switch to a black one and slay.

 

[Genio]

He's right in the fact that you shouldn't wait with asking her out. Do It ASAP.
Realistically speaking, when were you planning to get those surgeries anyway?

Really soon, realistically 2 years; I have a year gap between my First uni year and my School grad, So i was planing Rhinoplasty + Braces in this year, and inbetween uni years I will get surgeries seperately.

 

[Genio]

I mean you can try, it won’t hurt. On usual stacies are not mean. The most mean women are ltbs and sub4s

I mean, shes stacy in my eyes + closest name i could think of. on a subjective measure she would be a MTB.

 

[Rizzinator]

Really soon, realistically 2 years; I have a year gap between my First uni year and my School grad, So i was planing Rhinoplasty + Braces in this year, and inbetween uni years I will get surgeries seperately.

Exactly. So do you really wanna wait 2 years until you know if you actually stood a chance or not?

 

[Genio]

Exactly. So do you really wanna wait 2 years until you know if you actually stood a chance or not?

well im not really doing it for her + we are in a friendgroup, If i actually confess my feelings and she tells everyone its wraps for me

 

[Rizzinator]

well im not really doing it for her + we are in a friendgroup, If i actually confess my feelings and she tells everyone its wraps for me

Dude, stop lying. Of course you're doing it for her, or at least to get women in general. And that's okay.
And why would it wrap for you? You just ask her out, you don't have to go on your knees and tell her how much you love her

 

[zygosmasher]

all normies are bluepilled its the way of life. personality is also important dont forget just nowhere near as much as looks

 

[Genio]

all normies are bluepilled its the way of life. personality is also important dont forget just nowhere near as much as looks

Obviously personality matters, I’m not denying that. But no one is going around saying “Hello LTB shite, you have a recessed maxilla and I have a projected one, my infraorbitals are recessed and yours aren’t, wanna reproduce.”, That's Wando-Bait.

And that’s the point. I’m not some socially inert guy. I’m charismatic, funny, energetic. I can talk, I can hold a conversation, I can make people laugh. By any standard those traits should at least generate baseline attraction; But the outcomes never match that.

Across years of interacting with women, the signal has been almost flat. One girl in my friend group showed interest at one point, and even that collapsed into the usual “not compatible.” Now it mostly just turns into her laughing whenever I do something slightly out of the norm, Like being a Gentleman and opening the door letting her walk first, or stand up and greet her Mother when she comes to say hello to me (In comparison to my other "friends" who stay sitting and "dap" up her)

Looks matter, and investing in your looks before your 20's is the greatest investment anyone can make, Both in Time, Finance, and Sociality. Anyone who disagrees with this is a flat-out autist and i'm not going to entertain such ideology.

 

[zygosmasher]

Obviously personality matters, I’m not denying that. But no one is going around saying “Hello LTB shite, you have a recessed maxilla and I have a projected one, my infraorbitals are recessed and yours aren’t, wanna reproduce.”, That's Wando-Bait.

And that’s the point. I’m not some socially inert guy. I’m charismatic, funny, energetic. I can talk, I can hold a conversation, I can make people laugh. By any standard those traits should at least generate baseline attraction; But the outcomes never match that.

Across years of interacting with women, the signal has been almost flat. One girl in my friend group showed interest at one point, and even that collapsed into the usual “not compatible.” Now it mostly just turns into her laughing whenever I do something slightly out of the norm, Like being a Gentleman and opening the door letting her walk first, or stand up and greet her Mother when she comes to say hello to me (In comparison to my other "friends" who stay sitting and "dap" up her)

Looks matter, and investing in your looks before your 20's is the greatest investment anyone can make, Both in Time, Finance, and Sociality. Anyone who disagrees with this is a flat-out autist and i'm not going to entertain such ideology.

looks matter more

 

[Genio]

looks matter more

Fully agree

 

[FearOfFoids]

DNR users GTFO

So it started off with us talking about Girls we have recently been talking to (or girls we have liked for a long time), I told him That I liked a girl who we will call Stacy, And I said I am wayy out of Stacies league, and he starts telling me that I dont look that bad and I have a pretty good chance.

I messed up here, telling him that I am planning soon to go on Steroids and might get Surgery when I grow older, and he tells me that im going too far with this looksmaxxing thing and the most I can do is skincare and fashion sense (as if Fashion can change your bone structure), and that Personality matters more than looks and getting surgery is very risky

He tells me by the time I get my Surgeries, Stacy would have moved on and ive done all this for nothing, and that I am risking death and Body Dismorphia for nothing.

It ends with me telling him that "hes right" just because I couldnt stand to hear any more of this Bluepilled bs.

Bro let’s be honest it’s always the most genetic gifted people saying looks don’t matter. They just understand