My friend is going to get cheated on and I don’t know how to warn him

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When i came out with my friends, one of my friends brought his gf and she was asking some questions about me because the last time we were all out i drank too much and got sick.
This time she was asking too many questions, and kept looking at me and smiling. Even when he left she kept staring at me and smiling at me.
I wouldnt do anything because she isnt attractive but i can tell she will cheat on him. Brutal
 
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if he cant figure that out on his own hes a retard which makes the fact he will hate the messenger even more severe

my advice dont
 
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if he cant figure that out on his own hes a retard which makes the fact he will hate the messenger even more severe

my advice dont
I feel bad because his first gf already cheatead on him. This is his second one and he found her from a fucking club. It’s just over
 
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I feel bad because his first gf already cheatead on him. This is his second one and he found her from a fucking club. It’s just over
lmao what a dumb cunt
 
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Listen both fuck her and then leave
 
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When i came out with my friends, one of my friends brought his gf and she was asking some questions about me because the last time we were all out i drank too much and got sick.
This time she was asking too many questions, and kept looking at me and smiling. Even when he left she kept staring at me and smiling at me.
I wouldnt do anything because she isnt attractive but i can tell she will cheat on him. Brutal
If she was attractive, you would have?
 
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If she was attractive, you would have?
I probably couldnt resist the temptations. Also he is not a very good friend so that might lower the remorse i’d feel
 
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When i came out with my friends, one of my friends brought his gf and she was asking some questions about me because the last time we were all out i drank too much and got sick.
This time she was asking too many questions, and kept looking at me and smiling. Even when he left she kept staring at me and smiling at me.
I wouldnt do anything because she isnt attractive but i can tell she will cheat on him. Brutal
Tell him, like a man, face to face or drop him a msg candidly telling him it.
 
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Nah but first be sure that she was looking at you and have some proof otherwise u gonna look like a fool
 
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I probably couldnt resist the temptations. Also he is not a very good friend so that might lower the remorse i’d feel
If you’re hanging around people who’s trust you’d betray/ vice versa, then you’re wasting your life
I’m wondering why you care so much to tell him, if he matters so little to you, that you’d sleep with his girl if she was attractive

You’re likely doing it to feel like the good guy
But you’re just a shitty friend
 
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If you’re hanging around people who’s trust you’d betray/ vice versa, then you’re wasting your life
I don’t have access to a better group right now and i cant go out alone. My trust has been betrayed multiple times by them
I’m wondering why you care so much to tell him, if he matters so little to you, that you’d sleep with his girl if she was attractive
tbh don’t want him to get cheated on twice
 
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what a retard JFL
 
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I feel bad because his first gf already cheatead on him. This is his second one and he found her from a fucking club. It’s just over
if his first girl cheated on him and he isnt able to tell if his new girl is cheating

thats his own problem
 
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if his first girl cheated on him and he isnt able to tell if his new girl is cheating

thats his own problem
he’s already been arguing with her and suspected that she might cheat on him but they resolved that issue apparently
 
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he’s already been arguing with her and suspected that she might cheat on him but they resolved that issue apparently
:feelskek:
 
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I feel bad because his first gf already cheatead on him. This is his second one and he found her from a fucking club. It’s just over
Why dont you tell him your observations ?
 
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Why dont you tell him your observations ?
He sees her with rose tinted glasses and also i can tell he doesnt think very highly of me because of some things so i’d probably just sound like a hater/delusional retard to him
 
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He sees her with rose tinted glasses and also i can tell he doesnt think very highly of me because of some things so i’d probably just sound like a hater/delusional retard to him
You need new friends.
 
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I don’t have access to a better group right now and i cant go out alone. My trust has been betrayed multiple times by them

tbh don’t want him to get cheated on twice
Listen man I’m going to tell you something important

You either are a friend to the person who deserves your friendship. And with this guy you need to be willing to go to the moon and back..
Or you are not a friend, in which case you don’t hold any animosity but you distance yourself from said person.

Don’t hang around with somebody who’s betrayed your trust.
He falls in the second category.
Don’t try to help him. He doesn’t need your help. He will have to find out for himself. You aren’t not helping him as a form of revenge, but rather if he wants to better himself he needs to know how to treat the people around him, so that in the future they are willing to look out for him
You’re restoring order

Ideally, he shouldn’t have anybody look out for him, and should know how to pick the right girl himself.
If I were you, I wouldn’t respond to this guy and I’d just part ways
 
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I wish for that everyday. Would make my life so much easier but it’s literally impossible to find good ones for some reason.
I'd rather be a loner than be with people who think of me as inferior, but thats just me
 
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Listen man I’m going to tell you something important

You either are a friend to the person who deserves your friendship. And with this guy you need to be willing to go to the moon and back..
Or you are not a friend, in which case you don’t hold any animosity but you distance yourself from said person.
Trust me, if I found a friend that is similar to me and that is genuinely a good person i’d have his back forever and would actually feel comfortable hanging around with said person. It would make my life so much better and i would hope i would make said friends life better too. But friends like that are rare as fuck. Literally so rare.
Don’t hang around with somebody who’s betrayed your trust.
I have a pretty bad fear of missing out but im too anxious and awkward to go clubbing and shit alone. Thats why i hang out with him and that group in general. Life gets stressful, lonely and shit and going out with whomever helps get my mind off of shit at times.
Don’t try to help him. He doesn’t need your help. He will have to find out for himself. You aren’t not helping him as a form of revenge, but rather if he wants to better himself he needs to know how to treat the people around him, so that in the future they are willing to look out for him
You’re restoring order

Ideally, he shouldn’t have anybody look out for him, and should know how to pick the right girl himself.
If I were you, I wouldn’t respond to this guy and I’d just part ways
Yeah this is true
 
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I'd rather be a loner than be with people who think of me as inferior, but thats just me
I used to feel like this but i managed to cope with different things such as video games etc..
As that lost my interest and i started enjoying going out more i had to find a group. I dont feel comfortable with them but i often manage to find other people or girls to talk to when we do get to the club and that makes the night worth it. The social aspect just drowns out all other thoughts, problems and the stress of life just for a night at least
 
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I used to feel like this but i managed to cope with different things such as video games etc..
As that lost my interest and i started enjoying going out more i had to find a group. I dont feel comfortable with them but i often manage to find other people or girls to talk to when we do get to the club and that makes the night worth it. The social aspect just drowns out all other thoughts, problems and the stress of life just for a night at least
We are in different stages of life ig
 
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We are in different stages of life ig
Probably. I often feel anxiety and the only way to cope is keeping myself preoccupied. If i could just enjoy being a loner and shit i definitely would
 
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