My Gf[19] hit me[20]

[ElySioNs]

I dont know what to do or how to feel. I believe its my fault but it just hurts. My gf was going off just yelling at me for every mistake I’ve made in the past, she does this every time she gets slightly upset at me when I make a mistake. After almost two hours of her yelling at me I didn’t know what to do and this is where i made a mistake, i hugged her. She was not happy about it at all. She started yelling for me to get off, and I should have, but I didn’t and i don’t know why. After a few seconds she grabbed me by my hair and started beating me in my back. Striking me over and over until I was bruised. I couldn’t let go, I was scared. I felt as if I was frozen and i just couldn’t let go. Probably something to do with childhood trauma. I started crying and she looked at me and asked why I was crying she said she was the one who was upset and she should be crying. She called me a bitch. It was completely demasculating. I just don’t know how i should feel. Should i apologize? should i ask for an apology? What do I do?

 

[Deleted member 4430]

at least you have a GF

 

[Alt Number 3]

Ok

 

[thereallegend]

Press charges and leave her.

 

[Deleted member 16970]

How is that even possible

 

[apocalypse]

R*ddit link?

 

[ElySioNs]

R*ddit link?

its my story bro

 

[apocalypse]

R*ddit link?

its my story bro

 

[Deprived]

YTA. This is a classical case of toxic masculinity. Clearly she was hurting and you betrayed her trust by getting in her personal space

 

[Marsiere214]

I wouldve smacked her

 

[Deleted member 17611]

Exposed as fuck

 

[vindictive]

omg ur retarded

 

[frendly]

I dont know what to do or how to feel. I believe its my fault but it just hurts. My gf was going off just yelling at me for every mistake I’ve made in the past, she does this every time she gets slightly upset at me when I make a mistake. After almost two hours of her yelling at me I didn’t know what to do and this is where i made a mistake, i hugged her. She was not happy about it at all. She started yelling for me to get off, and I should have, but I didn’t and i don’t know why. After a few seconds she grabbed me by my hair and started beating me in my back. Striking me over and over until I was bruised. I couldn’t let go, I was scared. I felt as if I was frozen and i just couldn’t let go. Probably something to do with childhood trauma. I started crying and she looked at me and asked why I was crying she said she was the one who was upset and she should be crying. She called me a bitch. It was completely demasculating. I just don’t know how i should feel. Should i apologize? should i ask for an apology? What do I do?

You let her hit you? Beat her up Next time you guys argue. Use her slapping you as an excuse for the police.

 

[spark]

 

[Deleted member 16986]

Would not be happening to him

 

[Deleted member 17736]

Op why are you posting Reddit "stories"

 

[Deleted member 176]

Hit her back harder faggot.

 

[Baldingman1998]

Bro how can someone be this pathetic. Like if you're this emotionally weak you should understand that 99.9999 of women are whores and souless. What did you think was gonna happen? She will obviously use everything against you