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ShowerMaxxing
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I (22M) have been dating my girlfriend (24F) for about a year now, and she recently told me that she doesn't find me physically attractive; she likes me, but she doesn't find me physically or sexually attractive. She said she was always trying to date a handsome man, but she couldn't. And she said she didn't want to be alone forever, so she "lowered her standards."
And "settled" for me, she wanted a boyfriend, so she decided to go out with me even though she doesn't think I'm handsome or good-looking. I find her very attractive, and I am aware that I'm not handsome on a scale of 1–10.
I'm like a 4 or a 5, which isn't that attractive. I'm aware of that, but it did hurt when she told me she didn't find me attractive. I told her I knew I was not handsome, and she said, "I know, and it's okay." I'm not sure what to do.
And "settled" for me, she wanted a boyfriend, so she decided to go out with me even though she doesn't think I'm handsome or good-looking. I find her very attractive, and I am aware that I'm not handsome on a scale of 1–10.
I'm like a 4 or a 5, which isn't that attractive. I'm aware of that, but it did hurt when she told me she didn't find me attractive. I told her I knew I was not handsome, and she said, "I know, and it's okay." I'm not sure what to do.