My girlfriend is refusing sex ( sex havers GTFIH )

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So basically I’m in a relationship and my girlfriend is refusing to have sex with me. We’ve been talking for 2 months and she’s basically been super close to me. But whenever I bring up anything sexual she immediately turns it down.
I’ve respected her decision but it’s really starting to get on my nerves.
I’ve given her constant reassurance and support but regardless she’s still "not ready." Meanwhile my friends are fucking like dogs with their GFs I’m stuck with my GF who refuses to even send nudes.
I haven’t brought this up with her because it’s just going to be an annoying argument.

I also read online that if your partner refuses to have sex with you it could mean they aren’t attracted to you, or even mean your partner is cheating on you.
I need your thoughts gentlemen.
What would you do if you were in my position?
 
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So basically I’m in a relationship and my girlfriend is refusing to have sex with me. We’ve been talking for 2 months and she’s basically been super close to me. But whenever I bring up anything sexual she immediately turns it down.
I’ve respected her decision but it’s really starting to get on my nerves.
I’ve given her constant reassurance and support but regardless she’s still "not ready." Meanwhile my friends are fucking like dogs with their GFs I’m stuck with my GF who refuses to even send nudes.
I haven’t brought this up with her because it’s just going to be an annoying argument.

I also read online that if your partner refuses to have sex with you it could mean they aren’t attracted to you, or even mean your partner is cheating on you.
I need your thoughts gentlemen.
What would you do if you were in my position?
id steal her panties and try to fuck her even if she says no and if she legit wont do it id dump her and take her panties w me
 
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How old are you both? Had she had a boyfriend or any sexual experience before? Is she religious?
 
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How old are you both? Had she had a boyfriend or any sexual experience before? Is she religious?
Im 18 she’s also 18, she’s had one boyfriend in the past. And no she’s not religious despite being Persian.
 
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If she's not virgin that means probably she doesn't like you.
 
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Well, when I was with my ex I wasn't really attracted to her because she was a latina LTB and I like white girls. I got tired of having sex with her after a while and tried to avoid it and eventually the relationship ended. I spent a year avoiding sex with her so yeah, your girlfriend may not be attracted to you or is bored with the sex. Perhaps she's cheating and doesn't want you to catch an std? In any case, it might be time to move on
 
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Well, when I was with my ex I wasn't really attracted to her because she was a latina LTB and I like white girls. I got tired of having sex with her after a while and tried to avoid it and eventually the relationship ended. I spent a year avoiding sex with her so yeah, your girlfriend may not be attracted to you or is bored with the sex. Perhaps she's cheating and doesn't want you to catch an std? In any case, it might be time to move on
I’m starting to suspect that she is indeed cheating, despite the fact that we starting dating 2 months ago.
She’s just outright refused it and I’m convinced she’s cheating.
 
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cant be serious
 
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Chad is pumping your GF, sorry bro :feelskek:
 
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Idk have an open conversation with her. Ask her why she's afraid of it. If she's afraid of getting pregnant, just tell her to take birth control pills
 
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I’m starting to suspect that she is indeed cheating, despite the fact that we starting dating 2 months ago.
She’s just outright refused it and I’m convinced she’s cheating.
:feelsuhh::feelsuhh::feelsuhh:

Fucking talk to her about it bro. Ask her why she doesn’t want to. Maybe she’s nervous or very self-conscious. Communicate the issue with her and try to get some more info (such as if she had sex with her last boyfriend) before jumping to conclusions.
 
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I’m starting to suspect that she is indeed cheating, despite the fact that we starting dating 2 months ago.
She’s just outright refused it and I’m convinced she’s cheating.
Perhaps she is, maybe you could try having a talk with her. "Hey, I noticed you've been avoiding being intimate with me, I don't feel close to you anymore and this isn't what I'm looking for in a relationship. I think t's best if we go our separate ways."

Either one of two things is going to happen, she is going to say ok and leave you which means she doesn't care about you, or she's gonna get scared at the thought of losing you and fuck you because you provide value to her in some way whether that be emotional, financial, or otherwise
 
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Idk have an open conversation with her. Ask her why she's afraid of it. If she's afraid of getting pregnant, just tell her to take birth control pills
Condoms, morning-after pill and period sex mogs. Birth control changes what type of men she’s attracted to.
 
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Well, when I was with my ex I wasn't really attracted to her because she was a latina LTB and I like white girls. I got tired of having sex with her after a while and tried to avoid it and eventually the relationship ended. I spent a year avoiding sex with her so yeah, your girlfriend may not be attracted to you or is bored with the sex. Perhaps she's cheating and doesn't want you to catch an std? In any case, it might be time to move on
based for manipulating a ltb whore fuck women
 
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It's because you're a hairy smelly boring muslim since that's the population here these days since BOTB Chad @averagejoe left.
 
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I'd forcefully mount her tbh.
 
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don’t worry, she’s getting her needs satisfied elsewhere :forcedsmile:
 
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So basically I’m in a relationship and my girlfriend is refusing to have sex with me. We’ve been talking for 2 months and she’s basically been super close to me. But whenever I bring up anything sexual she immediately turns it down.
I’ve respected her decision but it’s really starting to get on my nerves.
I’ve given her constant reassurance and support but regardless she’s still "not ready." Meanwhile my friends are fucking like dogs with their GFs I’m stuck with my GF who refuses to even send nudes.
I haven’t brought this up with her because it’s just going to be an annoying argument.

I also read online that if your partner refuses to have sex with you it could mean they aren’t attracted to you, or even mean your partner is cheating on you.
I need your thoughts gentlemen.
What would you do if you were in my position?
She’s either using you or you have won the lottery and found yourself a women who isnt a whore
 
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It’s very possible she’s not cheating but you have to think about a few things:

Do you know if she has any other males in her life?
Would she even have the time to cheat?
Does she seem like a whore?
Does she have self respect?

There’s a chance you secured a one in a million girl but think critically
 
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It's your friend untill you have sex with her so yes maybe time to move on. She is obv not attracted to you..maybe she got chads dick before and have become unsatisfied with anything less
 
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So basically I’m in a relationship and my girlfriend is refusing to have sex with me. We’ve been talking for 2 months and she’s basically been super close to me. But whenever I bring up anything sexual she immediately turns it down.
I’ve respected her decision but it’s really starting to get on my nerves.
I’ve given her constant reassurance and support but regardless she’s still "not ready." Meanwhile my friends are fucking like dogs with their GFs I’m stuck with my GF who refuses to even send nudes.
I haven’t brought this up with her because it’s just going to be an annoying argument.

I also read online that if your partner refuses to have sex with you it could mean they aren’t attracted to you, or even mean your partner is cheating on you.
I need your thoughts gentlemen.
What would you do if you were in my position?
grape her
 
She's "not ready" for you. She was ready for her ex.
It's over buddy boyo, your princess is probably getting anally ravaged by a chad.
 

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