IcyBiney
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So my girlfriend broke up with me around 9 days ago. I deadass need to stop getting so attached. my problem was I would show alot of affection towards her and she wasnt able to consistantly show me the same back, leading me to pointing it out and us having alot of talks about it. every time we would makeout i would put my hand somewhere not appropriate, at first she was chill about it and didnt care, but the more i started doing it she asked me to stop, i did stop, but then i would try again later in hopes she was into it again. Some days she didnt care and some days she did. This is where i fucked up because i started doing it alot. She told me over call to actually stop, and thats when i realised it was just being forced now and both of us werent really into it. So i did stop, our next hangout we went out on a walk for a couple hours, this time when we hugged i didnt grab her butt or nothing, i wasnt going to try anything anymore because i knew she genuinely didnt like it and i respected that, only i should have listened earlier and that was my fault. A couple days after our (last) hangout, we had another talk about something. We got into another argument and she didnt talk to me for a whole day, then that same night she broke up with me and she listened out all the problems, one of them she said she feels we fight more than we have fun now (i never even saw it that way) and i was too touchy (even tho i actually told her id stop) she said the reason i didnt do it is because we were outside walking, and if we were inside on her bed i would have done it, how can i even prove to her i wouldnt have done it. Other than not grabbing her butt when we were outside and hugging. After the first week of the break up we both decided we needed to stop talking for 3 weeks striaght and then after that we can become friends again and see what it grows into, what happens happens basically. I know i made mistakes and fucked up the relationship. Idk why im writing this i just needa get it off my chest. All i can do now is improve myself. (side note she liked me first over my looks and before we started dating she would find out everything about me and i was her hallway crush) how the fuck did i lose a foid that was inlove with me from first glance. If in the next 21 days i hear she tried to replace me im not even gonna try to get back with her. The only reason im stuck on her is because we go way back from grade 2 and shit and we know so much about each other and we both still love each other. Shes also not a hoe and a bitch like all the other foids ive ever met. lemme know what yall think abt this ( we both 14 btw so that def changes everything a lil)
