My girlfriend of 10 years cheated on me, had affairs with two guys, got pregnant, and had an abortion, now she wants to talk, but I’m avoiding her.

[delonisliterallyme]

“My girlfriend of 10 years cheated on me, had affairs with two guys, got pregnant, and had an abortion, now she wants to talk, but I’m avoiding her. What should I do?

I never thought I’d be in a situation like this. I’ve been with my girlfriend for 10 years, we were high school sweethearts. She’s been such a huge part of my life, and I truly loved her with all my heart.

But recently, my world has completely fallen apart. I found out she’s been cheating on me. Not just with one guy, but with two guys at the same time. She even had physical relationships with both of them. To make things worse, she got pregnant with one of them and secretly had an abortion.

What hurts the most is knowing that all this was happening while I trusted her completely. She even used to take money from me while carrying on these affairs. I feel so betrayed, humiliated, and broken.

Ever since I found out, I’ve been distancing myself from her. I don’t have the courage to confront her because I don’t even know how to process all of this. I just feel numb. Now it seems like she’s feeling ashamed of her past and wants to open up to me, but I’ve been avoiding her because I don’t think I’m ready to hear what she has to say.

I’m honestly at my lowest point. I feel so depressed, and I don’t know how to move forward. I don’t even want to live anymore, it feels like my whole life has been a lie.

What should I do? Should I hear her out, or is it better to walk away from her for good? How do I even begin to recover from this?”


LMFFAOOOO IT’S OVER FOR RELATIONSHIPCELS 10 YEARS DOWN THE DRAIN FOR CHAD’S COCK HAHAHAH

 

[Klasik616]

She was "the love of his life"

 

[NEET_Emperor]

I was one of the guys she was fucking

 

[GreekGenes]

thats what you get for seriously believing in LTR in 2024 instead of just dating girls for fun

 

[FoolYoungHi]

I hate these people whining about their shitty relationship problems. A friend of mine been through this a thousand times (breakups, cheated on, etc.) and he still gets depressed and down when it happens to him in some extent.

Imagine your forefather cavemen writing this bullshido down.

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

I hate these people whining about their shitty relationship problems. A friend of mine been through this a thousand times (breakups, cheated on, etc.) and he still gets depressed and down when it happens to him in some extent.

Imagine your forefather cavemen writing this bullshido down.

Ofc people are gonna get upset when the person they love and trusted the most betrays them, wtf are u talking about

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

The issue is he didn’t have children with her within the 10yrs

 

[FoolYoungHi]

Ofc people are gonna get upset when the person they love and trusted the most betrays them, wtf are u talking about

True I should of been nicer. Maybe because I never had a serious relationship I cannot empathize with people who have these problems. I have had sexual relationships and never lost sleep over any of them. I just cannot understand why people keep getting hurt over a woman and act like it didn't happen before. This is the example I gave with my friend.

 

[Magnus Ironblood]

Imagine having an ltr in 2025.

Jfl.

 

[SquareChinOrDeath]

Can confirm I was the fetus

 

[FascisstChad]

Average relationship after the curse of boomers was placed on the earth.

 

[FascisstChad]

The issue is he didn’t have children with her within the 10yrs

If you don’t have kids within the first year or so, it’s going no where, she’ll make a joke out of you.