My girlfriend won't let me break up, tips?

[StraightHeadJames]

She disrespected me last time, she called me “unmanly” for not wanting to pay for a movie. I blocked her and called her ungrateful.


My family’s religious and doesn’t like her because she’s Buddhist. They want me to break up with her too.


Every time I try, she cries and begs. I’m sensitive, so it’s hard. She plays the victim, and even though I know she’s manipulative, she always changes when I threaten to leave.


Lately, I’ve been more confident and getting attention from taller HTB girls. She’s short and more MTB, so I’m conflicted.


Would it be really messed up to cheat?


She’s never stopped chasing me, and part of me wonders if her obsession is worth staying, despite the disrespect in the past.

 

[StraightHeadJames]

Btw I know it's my choice im not that much of a cuck, she would eventually get it if I don't take her back for like a few days probably.

But I'm thinking that maybe it's worth it to change her? cuz the grass isn't greener on the other side? i only dated 2 other girls they were even worse than this tbh and weren't even obsessed with me.

 

[brutalpilled]

Why are you in this site if you have a girlfriend in the first place

 

[PeakIncels]

just let her go if she doesn't make you feel accepted/comfortable

 

[brutalpilled]

Just like ignore her and let her go is my tip

 

[StraightHeadJames]

just let her go if she doesn't make you feel accepted/comfortable

Just like ignore her and let her go is my tip

i get like huge cortisol spikes tho when i leave her so idk what to do

i feel like the only thing i could do is secure another girl and get together with her before i leave her? even tho that's really cruel and fucked up I mean it happened to me too.

is that a good idea?

 

[PeakIncels]

i get like huge cortisol spikes tho when i leave her so idk what to do

i feel like the only thing i could do is secure another girl and get together with her before i leave her? even tho that's really cruel and fucked up I mean it happened to me too.

is that a good idea?

leave, now, then look for another one

 

[recai iskender]

Cheat on her its a win win

 

[StraightHeadJames]

leave, now, then look for another one

but i dont like being alone and my cortisol gets spiked way too much especially i got exams soon so i wont be able to focus on them, for some reason shit like this always affects me like crazy

 

[StraightHeadJames]

Cheat on her its a win win

why is it a win win? isn't it cruel and terrible thing to do?

 

[PeakIncels]

but i dont like being alone and my cortisol gets spiked way too much especially i got exams soon so i wont be able to focus on them, for some reason shit like this always affects me like crazy

then don't leave her, your making this too deep

 

[Sonneillon]

doesn’t like her because she’s Buddhist.

is it an east or south asian?

 

[StraightHeadJames]

then don't leave her, your making this too deep

yeah but should cheat or nah? some negatives around her is she seems to materialistic even tho im broke af and she never admits to her wrongs unless i threaten to break up.

but like it's not like i'll find a perfect girl if i leave her. and i dont want a girl that is less good looking than her but with a good personality, i'd only like if the new girl would be a really sweet HTB girl

 

[StraightHeadJames]

is it an east or south asian?

nah white girl But ig she spiritual and shi

 

[PeakIncels]

yeah but should cheat or nah? some negatives around her is she seems to materialistic even tho im broke af and she never admits to her wrongs unless i threaten to break up.

but like it's not like i'll find a perfect girl if i leave her. and i dont want a girl that is less good looking than her but with a good personality, i'd only like if the new girl would be a really sweet HTB girl

don't cheat, the guilt will kill you and make your exams go to shit

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

Be a man but don't be an asshole.
Don't start something with the HTB before you leave her.
You are religious, you know what your God expects from you. Pray

 

[StraightHeadJames]

don't cheat, the guilt will kill you and make your exams go to shit

why am i such a fucking cuck bro that i have to feel guilt and sadness and empathetic and all of that bulshit. like why cant i just hurt girls and shit and be heartlesss i hate that about me

 

[recai iskender]

why is it a win win? isn't it cruel and terrible thing to do?

Why do you care if you leave its a “terrible” thing for her anyway


Give her the decision to leave

 

[PeakIncels]

why am i such a fucking cuck bro that i have to feel guilt and sadness and empathetic and all of that bulshit. like why cant i just hurt girls and shit and be heartlesss i hate that about me

because unfortunately you are a human with feelings

 

[StraightHeadJames]

Be a man but don't be an asshole.
Don't start something with the HTB before you leave her.
You are religious, you know what your God expects from you. Pray

I am religious and Love god but im also blackpilled and think a man should reach for the best he can.

Like if it's possible for me to attain a girl with better ideals, mindset and genetics than why shouldn't I? the answer i guess is my high inhibition and feeling guilty/empathetic towards her.

It seems like there's no right answer to my situation and it makes me kinda depressed.

 

[StraightHeadJames]

because unfortunately you are a human with feelings

yeah of course everyone is but there's plently of guys who dgaf, or like all the other girls i dated they didn't give a fuck when they replaced me with guys 3 inches taller or more handsome or some shit I wish i could be like that instead of romanticizing life a lot and caring about others a lot

Why do you care if you leave its a “terrible” thing for her anyway


Give her the decision to leave

so like cheat on her and if she finds out just give her the option to leave? I mean that could bring me a lot of cortisol and stuff like that which might descend me temporarily because of the intense guilt, and it's true i often feel guilt for even small things sometimes.

I feel like if i ever wanna be the slayer i invisioned in my MTN skull, i gotta become an asshole like that. But maybe it's not worth it?

 

[PeakIncels]

yeah of course everyone is but there's plently of guys who dgaf, or like all the other girls i dated they didn't give a fuck when they replaced me with guys 3 inches taller or more handsome or some shit I wish i could be like that instead of romanticizing life a lot and caring about others a lot

so like cheat on her and if she finds out just give her the option to leave? I mean that could bring me a lot of cortisol and stuff like that which might descend me temporarily because of the intense guilt, and it's true i often feel guilt for even small things sometimes.

I feel like if i ever wanna be the slayer i invisioned in my MTN skull, i gotta become an asshole like that. But maybe it's not worth it?

so you want to be a jerk to everyone, got it

 

[StraightHeadJames]

so you want to be a jerk to everyone, got it

yeah, that brings you the best things in life (as long as you got some genetics to back it up). those type of guys end up with the skinny HTB+ girls, and with the best jobs/careers.

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

I am religious and Love god but im also blackpilled and think a man should reach for the best he can.

Like if it's possible for me to attain a girl with better ideals, mindset and genetics than why shouldn't I? the answer i guess is my high inhibition and feeling guilty/empathetic towards her.

It seems like there's no right answer to my situation and it makes me kinda depressed.

You should strive for a good wife. You can leave your gf. Be firm tho. Tell her it's non negociable. Be sure to do it and accept that you might end up being celibate for some time untill you find a good woman. You should do it only if you're sure you won't match long term. How long have you been together, how old are you ?

 

[StraightHeadJames]

You should strive for a good wife. You can leave your gf. Be firm tho. Tell her it's non negociable. Be sure to do it and accept that you might end up being celibate for some time untill you find a good woman. You should do it only if you're sure you won't match long term. How long have you been together, how old are you ?

im 20 she's 18 been together 2 years.

i mean we agree on a lot of things but she just acts ungrateful at times, she already changed a lot of things about her behaviour because of me. I'm sure that if I lock in and "manipulate" her i can change her attitude i guess a lot and make her closer to my "ideal" wife.

but the thing is I guess I really am feeling like i would like to slay before i settle down. cuz i ascended after rhinoplasty and intantly started getting cold approached by girls and took the first one that came and "wifed" her up. so i never got to live out my slay potential

 

[Lefty Rankin]

She disrespected me last time, she called me “unmanly” for not wanting to pay for a movie. I blocked her and called her ungrateful.


My family’s religious and doesn’t like her because she’s Buddhist. They want me to break up with her too.


Every time I try, she cries and begs. I’m sensitive, so it’s hard. She plays the victim, and even though I know she’s manipulative, she always changes when I threaten to leave.


Lately, I’ve been more confident and getting attention from taller HTB girls. She’s short and more MTB, so I’m conflicted.


Would it be really messed up to cheat?


She’s never stopped chasing me, and part of me wonders if her obsession is worth staying, despite the disrespect in the past.

You don't like her so don't stay just because she's obsessed.

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

yeah, that brings you the best things in life (as long as you got some genetics to back it up). those type of guys end up with the skinny HTB+ girls, and with the best jobs/careers.

and go to hell if you do that sadly which is much longer and harsher than life with a loving but not a model gf. If you're genuinely repulsed or at least not attrected to her, then yeah you should leave her because you won't be able to love her long term. But don't ever cheat

 

[StraightHeadJames]

You don't like her so don't stay just because she's obsessed.

but the chances of finding another girl that's obsessed and also is HTB ( cuz i wouldn't leave her for another MTB...) and good mindset and behaviour is really really fucking low.

so i might never get this chance again

 

[StraightHeadJames]

and go to hell if you do that sadly which is much longer and harsher than life with a loving but not a model gf. If you're genuinely repulsed or at least not attrected to her, then yeah you should leave her because you won't be able to love her long term. But don't ever cheat

why don't ever cheat? u didn't really say why u just said to not do it.

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

why don't ever cheat? u didn't really say why u just said to not do it.

Do I really need to justify this ?

Exodus 20 - NIV - And God spoke all these words:...

Exodus 20 And God spoke all these words: “I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery. “You shall have no other gods before me. “You shall not make for yourself an image in the form of anything in heaven above or on the ear... Read verse in New International...

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exodus 20:14
assuming you're christian
You should only date to marry. Ideally you should marry as ealry as possible in a relationship but hard to do it in this time and age.

 

[recai iskender]

yeah of course everyone is but there's plently of guys who dgaf, or like all the other girls i dated they didn't give a fuck when they replaced me with guys 3 inches taller or more handsome or some shit I wish i could be like that instead of romanticizing life a lot and caring about others a lot

so like cheat on her and if she finds out just give her the option to leave? I mean that could bring me a lot of cortisol and stuff like that which might descend me temporarily because of the intense guilt, and it's true i often feel guilt for even small things sometimes.

I feel like if i ever wanna be the slayer i invisioned in my MTN skull, i gotta become an asshole like that. But maybe it's not worth it?

Fuck you nigger

 

[StraightHeadJames]

Do I really need to justify this ?

Exodus 20 - NIV - And God spoke all these words:...

Exodus 20 And God spoke all these words: “I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery. “You shall have no other gods before me. “You shall not make for yourself an image in the form of anything in heaven above or on the ear... Read verse in New International...

www.biblestudytools.com

exodus 20:14
assuming you're christian
You should only date to marry. Ideally you should marry as ealry as possible in a relationship but hard to do it in this time and age.

nigga she not even virgin why should i listen to that and she didn't ???

 

[StraightHeadJames]

Fuck you nigger

why, cuz im being honest

 

[p0lishsubhuman]

you should cheat for your own self-worth, to prove to yourself that you can replace her at any given moment

you'll feel better afterwards, it’s like you feel you have control over her

 

[StraightHeadJames]

you should cheat for your own self-worth, to prove to yourself that you can replace her at any given moment

but won't i regret it when the girl i cheat on her with ghosts me and then im alone af?

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

nigga she not even virgin why should i listen to that and she didn't ???

she cheated on you ?
You should not judge her for that if she didn't have the mentality of a whore but was used by a guy she really liked, but if she hooked up with someone just like that of for short term then I would advice you to leave her now

 

[StraightHeadJames]

she cheated on you ?
You should not judge her for that if she didn't have the mentality of a whore but was used by a guy she really liked, but if she hooked up with someone just like that of for short term then I would advice you to leave her now

yeah she tired to have another relationship and thats when she lost her virginity i guess

she didn't ever hook up with anothr guy from what i know, but u cant know dude. these girls are all whores in the end tbh. but im still empathetic towards em.

only had a virgin gf once but didnt smash her cuz she was very religious

 

[p0lishsubhuman]

but won't i regret it when the girl i cheat on her with ghosts me and then im alone af?

if anything you'll make your gf even more obsessed with you since she'll have proof you have that power of replacing her

ofc dont tell her that you cheated but if she finds out it should happen

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Why are you in this site if you have a girlfriend in the first place

What's a shitposting forum got to do with that?

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

yeah she tired to have another relationship and thats when she lost her virginity i guess

if this was before you its a mistake. You don't seem to be a virgin either. You shoud not hold her accountable for it.
if you meant yeah she cheated on you, then you need to leave her. be firm don't be a cuck bcuz you're empathetic, unless she did real work to repent and genuinely regret it and repented, then you can consider staying with her.
If you don't love her (dyor on what this means please), leave her.

she didn't ever hook up with anothr guy from what i know, but u cant know dude. these girls are all whores in the end tbh. but im still empathetic towards em.

if she's rly obsessed with you as you describe, it's unprobable she is cheating

only had a virgin gf once but didnt smash her cuz she was very religious

should've stayed with her, this looks perfect

 

[StraightHeadJames]

if this was before you its a mistake. You don't seem to be a virgin either. You shoud not hold her accountable for it.
if you meant yeah she cheated on you, then you need to leave her. be firm don't be a cuck bcuz you're empathetic, unless she did real work to repent and genuinely regret it and repented, then you can consider staying with her.
If you don't love her (dyor on what this means please), leave her.

if she's rly obsessed with you as you describe, it's unprobable she is cheating

should've stayed with her, this looks perfect

yes it was before me, and the virgin girl was really talented singer, she was HTB no joke. it was just be first theory but i was only with her for a couple of months cuz her mom hated me, prolly cuz her family was so much better off.


and anyways ik my current girlfriend isn't cheating but im just saying that i dont know what type of freaky shit she did in the past and i dont even wanna know.

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

yes it was before me, and the virgin girl was really talented singer, she was HTB no joke. it was just be first theory but i was only with her for a couple of months cuz her mom hated me, prolly cuz her family was so much better off.


and anyways ik my current girlfriend isn't cheating but im just saying that i dont know what type of freaky shit she did in the past and i dont even wanna know.

in the past jfl she was 16. If her past bothers you, you need to talk. Think long term.
Good luck figuring things out. Don't forget what really matters to you

 

[Lefty Rankin]

but the chances of finding another girl that's obsessed and also is HTB ( cuz i wouldn't leave her for another MTB...) and good mindset and behaviour is really really fucking low.

so i might never get this chance again

Every man's been there. Other obsessed ones, ones that you really like, will come too. It's only a matter of time. Only marry one you know you want to marry. Trust me, life won't be happy otherwise.