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Thought I (East Asian, femme non-binary, they/ them) had the perfect hairdresser. Affordable, friendly, and most importantly, cuts my hair in the exact way I want without hassle. This is until she learned I have a white boyfriend.
"Chinese girls are all dating white boys, who shall Chinese boys date?"
Look, I'm sorry about the struggle of East Asian men in the heterosexual dating scene, but that doesn't mean they are entitled to my time and my body. And subtly hinting I'm dating my boyfriend because of racism is just so unprofessional and hateful.
Needless to say, I'm switching to a new hairdresser after this incident. Hopefully, the next one is better at keeping their mouth shut!
*Edit to include my pronoun.
"Chinese girls are all dating white boys, who shall Chinese boys date?"
Look, I'm sorry about the struggle of East Asian men in the heterosexual dating scene, but that doesn't mean they are entitled to my time and my body. And subtly hinting I'm dating my boyfriend because of racism is just so unprofessional and hateful.
Needless to say, I'm switching to a new hairdresser after this incident. Hopefully, the next one is better at keeping their mouth shut!
*Edit to include my pronoun.
