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"I'm 5’ and a wholeass adult bruh and im engaged. She’s out there just respect women, take care of your looks, and learn to be comfortable with your height. The ugliest thing about us short guys is when we’re insecure about our height. And yes, it’s a bullet dodged when we don’t land a shallow one. But also if they don’t know you at all and have nothing to base of you except your physical appearance then you’re setting yourself up for failure. Ive always had success starting as friends with light flirting for like 1-2 months before asking the girl out.
But back to believing its a bullet dodged: a lot of people are shallow, its just how many people are, ESPECIALLY the younger folk, but if she rejects you for being short, imagine you were taller and had no problems with her, right? Down the road: What if you became crippled? What if you got in an accident that disfigured you? What if you were going through a seriously tough time? If something as insignificant as height pushes her away then why wouldn’t something bigger like that make her leave/cheat? Its a bullet dodged for sure.
And I’m not calling any of us short fellas ugly, but considering we’re not what more materialistic people would find attractive, that quote from Drax in GOTG comes to mind: ugly people are lucky because when someone loves them then they can be sure its for who they are on the inside
Im only in my early 20s but have had about 7 big relationships throughout my life and I’ve been with my fiancee for 5 years already. Get therapy if you need it, but keep your personality golden and you’ll be fine"
