My inhibition levels are all over the place

[BadLuck7892]

I've invited total strangers in public to come to my place for sex. When I say total stranger, I seriously mean I didn't know her one bit, I had never crossed paths with her before, and I had never even spoken to her before propositioning her.

I had no reason whatsoever to think these total stranger foids were into me.

Yet if a woman I already know has given me IOIs, I'm terrified to ask her out on a simple date.

 

[Frame is Law]

mirin tbh

 

[HeresJohnny]

Sigma graycel thinks he’s cool or some shit the fuck

Good story ig man idek what to tell you fr

 

[BadLuck7892]

mirin tbh

My extremely low inhibition levels in asking total strangers for sex are admirable.

If only I wasn't so high inhibition about asking a woman who's given me IOIs on a simple date.

I shoot myself in the foot by focusing on the foids I have no chance with, while refusing to make a move on foids I might have a chance with.

 

[Deleted member 117431]

I've invited total strangers in public to come to my place for sex. When I say total stranger, I seriously mean I didn't know her one bit, I had never crossed paths with her before, and I had never even spoken to her before propositioning her.

I had no reason whatsoever to think these total stranger foids were into me.

Yet if a woman I already know has given me IOIs, I'm terrified to ask her out on a simple date.

just like the mood of a human ur inhibition levels depend on ur state of mind

 

[BadLuck7892]

just like the mood of a human ur inhibition levels depend on ur state of mind

I know exactly why I'm low inhibition with total strangers, yet high inhibition with a woman I already know (no matter how many IOIs she's given me)

For one, I'm highly unlikely to run into the total stranger post-rejection. On the other hand, if I already know a woman, I'm obviously going to run into her again after asking her out. In the event the foid I already know rejects me, it will be awkward to run into her from that point on.

Secondly, since I have no reason to think the total stranger is into me, I have no reason to feel like an idiot when it turns out she's not into me. On the other hand, if I (after getting what I think are IOIs) ask out a woman I know well, yet get rejected, I'm going to feel like the world's biggest idiot for misreading the alleged IOIs (and then every time I run into her, I'm going to be reminded of what an idiot I am)

 

[Deleted member 117431]

I know exactly why I'm low inhibition with total strangers, yet high inhibition with a woman I already know (no matter how many IOIs she's given me)

For one, I'm highly unlikely to run into the total stranger post-rejection. On the other hand, if I already know a woman, I'm obviously going to run into her again after asking her out. In the event the foid I already know rejects me, it will be awkward to run into her from that point on.

Secondly, since I have no reason to think the total stranger is into me, I have no reason to feel like an idiot when it turns out she's not into me. On the other hand, if I (after getting what I think are IOIs) ask out a woman I know well, yet get rejected, I'm going to feel like the world's biggest idiot for misreading the alleged IOIs (and then every time I run into her, I'm going to be reminded of what an idiot I am)

seems like a pride thing

 

[BadLuck7892]

seems like a pride thing

Yeah.

And an ASD thing.

I'm an autist. I'm extremely self-conscious of my ASD.

As a result of my ASD, I have a harder time reading a woman's IOIs than a neurotypical man. Misreading a woman's IOIs really stings for me, as it serves as a reminder of what an autistic idiot I am.

 

[Deleted member 117431]

Yeah.

And an ASD thing.

I'm an autist. I'm extremely self-conscious of my ASD.

As a result of my ASD, I have a harder time reading a woman's IOIs than a neurotypical man. Misreading a woman's IOIs really stings for me, as it serves as a reminder of what an autistic idiot I am.

the more you talk and learn about it you will eventually be able to fraud nt

 

[BadLuck7892]

the more you talk and learn about it you will eventually be able to fraud nt

I wouldn't be so sure.

A high-functioning autist can learn a few basic social rules, yeah.

Being able to read countless cues on a whim, however, is one thing we'll never be able to do.

 

[Deleted member 117431]

I wouldn't be so sure.

A high-functioning autist can learn a few basic social rules, yeah.

Being able to read countless cues on a whim, however, is one thing we'll never be able to do.

brutal

 

[Frame is Law]

I wouldn't be so sure.

A high-functioning autist can learn a few basic social rules, yeah.

Being able to read countless cues on a whim, however, is one thing we'll never be able to do.

you dont need to read anything,what you say doesnt even matter,as long as your not shy/awkward anything you say will come of as normal,talking confidently is literally all thta matters

 

[BadLuck7892]

you dont need to read anything,what you say doesnt even matter,as long as your not shy/awkward anything you say will come of as normal,talking confidently is literally all thta matters

What about making a move on a woman based on IOIs though?

That's the area where I struggle the most. I'm terrified to act on her IOIs (because I'd be humiliated, and feel like an autistic idiot, if I turned out to be wrong about her IOIs)

 

[Frame is Law]

What about making a move on a woman based on IOIs though?

That's the area where I struggle the most. I'm terrified to act on her IOIs (because I'd be humiliated, and feel like an autistic idiot, if I turned out to be wrong about her IOIs)

no it actually makes perfect sense it makes it more awkward bc she is aware of you and where you are,similar to how its awkward seeing a girl in school that you texted the night before,

 

[BadLuck7892]

no it actually makes perfect sense it makes it more awkward bc she is aware of you and where you are,similar to how its awkward seeing a girl in school that you texted the night before,

Yeah.

This shit sucks. I don't know of any workaround.