My mom always asks for my money

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My mom wants the $80USD that my grandma gave me for my birthday. I’ve been waiting to use it because my grandma wanted to go on vacation with me for Christmas, but apparently my mom needs the money to spend on my sister for a concert.

She hasn’t even paid me back for the $1000 she owes me yet. She doesn’t do this to any of my sisters it’s so unfair that I have to constantly give up my money just because she has bad spending habits. Thinking about moving in with my dad so I don’t have to deal with this anymore.
 
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Make her work for it
 
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My mom wants the $80USD that my grandma gave me for my birthday. I’ve been waiting to use it because my grandma wanted to go on vacation with me for Christmas, but apparently my mom needs the money to spend on my sister for a concert.

She hasn’t even paid me back for the $1000 she owes me yet. She doesn’t do this to any of my sisters it’s so unfair that I have to constantly give up my money just because she has bad spending habits. Thinking about moving in with my dad so I don’t have to deal with this anymore.
say no
 
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Bitchass mom
 
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Make her work for it
She is my mom she can go into my room and take it. She has access to my bank account and can withdraw money without even asking me.
 
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seems liek u know the problem bro
 
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what a stupid fucking bitch.

hide the money and say u spent it
 
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Bro you can’t say no to your parents
It's your grandma's right? tell her and let her argue for you. U could also just argue saying that it's your grandma's money not yours.
 
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sure you can, if she talks back and beats your ass just move in with your dad.
Most of my money is my bank account which she controls. I can hide some of my cash though I think I’ll do that. I like my dad, but I don’t really want to move in with him because he’s far away from my friends. I’ll decide later if I actually think it’s worth it
 
She is my mom she can go into my room and take it. She has access to my bank account and can withdraw money without even asking me.
start hiding ur money, stop puttign money into the bank acc and stop giving her it
 
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start hiding ur money, stop puttign money into the bank acc and stop giving her it
I get direct deposit but once my debit card gets fixed I’ll take my money out of the bank but I can’t right now because it’s broken
 
I get direct deposit but once my debit card gets fixed I’ll take my money out of the bank but I can’t right now because it’s broken
yea take out all the money or send it to another acc, u can make online debit cards im pretty sure
 
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My mom wants the $80USD that my grandma gave me for my birthday. I’ve been waiting to use it because my grandma wanted to go on vacation with me for Christmas, but apparently my mom needs the money to spend on my sister for a concert.

She hasn’t even paid me back for the $1000 she owes me yet. She doesn’t do this to any of my sisters it’s so unfair that I have to constantly give up my money just because she has bad spending habits. Thinking about moving in with my dad so I don’t have to deal with this anymore.
Tell her to kill herselr
 
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im in a similiar situation with my mum. once you get that money moved to a debit card then ditch her ass cuz it will only get worse.
 
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She is my mom she can go into my room and take it. She has access to my bank account and can withdraw money without even asking me.
tell your grandma and dad, shame her each and every time she does it with people she knows or even random people she respects and trust me she'll stop
 
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My mom wants the $80USD that my grandma gave me for my birthday. I’ve been waiting to use it because my grandma wanted to go on vacation with me for Christmas, but apparently my mom needs the money to spend on my sister for a concert.

She hasn’t even paid me back for the $1000 she owes me yet. She doesn’t do this to any of my sisters it’s so unfair that I have to constantly give up my money just because she has bad spending habits. Thinking about moving in with my dad so I don’t have to deal with this anymore.
speak to ur other family members about this situation and when you're all together speaking, mention it and embarrass her. that should give her a sign to stop this bullshit.
 
speak to ur other family members about this situation and when you're all together speaking, mention it and embarrass her. that should give her a sign to stop this bullshit.
I have before but then my family gets mad at me, and says I shouldn’t bring it up. I think it’s because my mom is kind of poor right now, but I don’t really mind giving her money, I just get mad that she takes it before asking, if she just asked I’d give it to her instead of fighting with her
 
I have before but then my family gets mad at me, and says I shouldn’t bring it up. I think it’s because my mom is kind of poor right now, but I don’t really mind giving her money, I just get mad that she takes it before asking, if she just asked I’d give it to her instead of fighting with her
is your dad around? have you spoken to him about it?
 
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is your dad around? have you spoken to him about it?
I don’t live with my dad and he’s gone for a couple weeks right now. I’ll talk to him about it when he gets back
 
I have before but then my family gets mad at me, and says I shouldn’t bring it up. I think it’s because my mom is kind of poor right now, but I don’t really mind giving her money, I just get mad that she takes it before asking, if she just asked I’d give it to her instead of fighting with her
if your mom is poor its just right that you help her but yes she should ask you
 
She is my mom she can go into my room and take it. She has access to my bank account and can withdraw money without even asking me.
Withdraw all ur money into cash and keep it at a friends house, when u turn 18 make a new bank account and make it so only you can access ur funds
 
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sell her for the money back
 
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My mom took my 500 dollar that I got last birthday it's been a year she still haven't gave it back, mom's are the biggest liars
 
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She is my mom she can go into my room and take it. She has access to my bank account and can withdraw money without even asking me.
every time u get money take it out of ur account and keep it in cash spot you only know
 
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Withdraw all ur money into cash and keep it at a friends house, when u turn 18 make a new bank account and make it so only you can access ur funds
I have a bank appointment to make it private this month so she won’t be able to take anymore soon
 
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I don’t live with my dad and he’s gone for a couple weeks right now. I’ll talk to him about it when he gets back
good good. im sorry to hear about your family's financial situation but it's not an excuse for your own mother to take your money. hide it in places she won't check and when you are a legal adult, she can't do anything anymore. obviously you should help her, like, that's your mum but she should definitely ask you. just have a good talk with your dad about the situation and tell him how it's affecting you. good luck buddy :y'all:
 
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I have a bank appointment to make it private this month so she won’t be able to take anymore soon
Good, take out all ur funds for the time being
 
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