My mom asking me why I don't hang out with anyone from college

[HeavyMetalcel]

Fucking ragefuel, then she tries to give me normie advice like "oh just engage random people" or "just sit by yourself in the cafeteria, someone will sit with you eventually"

Worst part is when she compares herself to me, like you're a woman, of course you had both male and female attention even without doing much back when you were in college

Or when she compares me to my chad brother and says "look at how he's hanging out with both guys and girls" jeez I wonder why

I'm gonna go ER (in minecraft)

To be fair I know like two guys which I used to hang out with quite a lot but we kinda stopped communicating after I fucked up some of my exams and got left behind a semester

 

[Charisma]

Fucking ragefuel, then she tries to give me normie advice like "oh just engage random people" or "just sit by yourself in the cafeteria, someone will sit with you eventually"

Worst part is when she compares herself to me, like you're a woman, of course you had both male and female attention even without doing much back when you were in college

Or when she compares me to my chad brother and says "look at how he's hanging out with both guys and girls" jeez I wonder why

I'm gonna go ER (in minecraft)

To be fair I know like two guys which I used to hang out with quite a lot but we kinda stopped communicating after I fucked up some of my exams and got left behind a semester

Your mom is giving you a valid advice

All you have to do is dress clean, borderline old money and act NT and people will engage
Don’t wear your headphones everywhere like a retard

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

Your mom is giving you a valid advice

All you have to do is dress clean, borderline old money and act NT and people will engage
Don’t wear your headphones everywhere like a retard

I'm not sure if that's just me but isn't going up to random people gonna make them annoyed? I personally don't mind if anyone approaches me but idk

 

[Mediterranean]

You just have to find other autistic people to be friends with

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

You just have to find other autistic people to be friends with

I did find and autistic 4chan dwelling chud but I don't talk to him much anymore, chill guy tho

 

[Pikabro]

Tbh being friendless is a self defense
mechanism. I am too self deprecating and easy target so I end up as the pity loser/comedic relief of the group.

 

[Pikabro]

Your mom is giving you a valid advice

All you have to do is dress clean, borderline old money and act NT and people will engage
Don’t wear your headphones everywhere like a retard

Just act NT bro

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

Tbh being friendless is a self defense mechanism.

Yeah it is tbf, I don't trust many people so maybe that's why.

I am too self deprecating and easy target so I end up as the pity loser/comedic relief of the group.

Yeah I am also self deprecating but luckily I do have friends outside of college and we treat eachother normally

 

[romanstock]

I performed both of her suggestions and succeeded with none of them.

 

[Pikabro]

Yeah it is tbf, I don't trust many people so maybe that's why.


Yeah I am also self deprecating but luckily I do have friends outside of college and we treat eachother normally

Yeah better to keep ur circle small

I performed both of her suggestions and succeeded with none of them.

Exactly

 

[Underdog9494]

If your brother is a chad you are too (unless you're or he's adopted)

 

[byvw]

My dad used to ask why i didnt have a gf when i was in college. JFL

 

[PRIEST Sv3rige]

Being alone in school mogs. Just tell your mom you have friends, no reason for her to know.

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

If your brother is a chad you are too (unless you're or he's adopted)

I've been rated MTN here once, but my brother is def better looking than me, also he dresses well and has a better physique

 

[byvw]

If your brother is a chad you are too (unless you're or he's adopted)

geneticrecombinationpill

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

My dad used to ask why i didnt have a gf when i was in college. JFL

brutal, my dad told me he had been in 5 relationships by the time he was 19

 

[valentine]

Being alone in school mogs. Just tell your mom you have friends, no reason for her to know.

lmao how

 

[Esky1911]

Wouldn't say that I was in the same position as you, people engaged with me but I had this autistic thought that it's better to just Sigma my way and be alone.

I escaped this by loving myself, and realised that the problem I had was I'm insecure about myself, which @Pikabro said being friendless is a defense mechanism.

I'd suggest that you to sit down and reflect why you avoid them, don't bullshit yourself like "they're normies", but be just be honest

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

Being alone in school mogs. Just tell your mom you have friends, no reason for her to know.

Idk, being alone in college is pretty boring, you just sit trough lectures by yourself

Not to mention that people give you valuable information when it comes to exams, studying and such

 

[PRIEST Sv3rige]

lmao how

If nobody is alike you in your class, there's no point really. It will just be disingenuous and draining.

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

Wouldn't say that I'm was in the same position as you, people engaged with me but I had this autistic thought that it's better to just Sigma my way and be alone.

I escaped this by loving myself, and realised that the problem I had was I'm insecure about myself, which @Pikabro said being friendless is a defense mechanism.

I'd suggest that you to sit down and reflect why you avoid them, don't bullshit yourself like "they're normies", but be just be honest

I actually agree with you, my biggest problem is probably that I fear rejection and don't wanna be a bother to other people

 

[IOS]

You just have to find other autistic people to be friends with

its impossible to find
all are sigma skibidi mewers

 

[PRIEST Sv3rige]

Idk, being alone in college is pretty boring, you just sit trough lectures by yourself

Not to mention that people give you valuable information when it comes to exams, studying and such

Disagree. Lectures are interesting and other people will just distract you from focusing.

 

[valentine]

If nobody is alike you in your class, there's no point really. It will just be disingenuous and draining.

ur lowkey right

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

Disagree. Lectures are interesting and other people will just distract you from focusing.

depends which lectures I guess...

 

[PRIEST Sv3rige]

depends which lectures I guess...

College is useless 95% of the time either way in the modern era. So why do it if you don't find the subject interesting?

 

[Esky1911]

I actually agree with you, my biggest problem is probably that I fear rejection and don't wanna be a bother to other people

Also had the same thoughts on the "don't wanna be a bother to other people". Well, you mentioned that you don't mind people approaching you, they are probably thinking the same.

I would say slowly to build up yourself is make normal eye contact. You don't need to like hold it intensely in a non-natural way. Like when you walk pass another, it's normal to do so.

And probably give a little smile or nod, and work your way slowly from there

 

[Underdog9494]

I've been rated MTN here once, but my brother is def better looking than me, also he dresses well and has a better physique

So dress better and have a better physique ur 3 softmaxxes away from ascending

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

College is useless 95% of the time either way in the modern era. So why do it if you don't find the subject interesting?

I do it because I have to pass those boring lectures to eventually do the lectures I like. For example, I have to pass math, which I find boring, to be able to go to lectures like engine engineering in later semesters. Different lectures later on require you to pass some other lectures before those etc.

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

Also had the same thoughts on the "don't wanna be a bother to other people". Well, you mentioned that you don't mind people approaching you, they are probably thinking the same.

I would say slowly to build up yourself is make normal eye contact. You don't need to like hold it intensely in a non-natural way. Like when you walk pass another, it's normal to do so.

And probably give a little smile or nod, and work your way slowly from there

Alright, thanks man, I usually have no problem talking to people that have same interests as me for example, but meeting new people that I know nothing about is my biggest problem

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

So dress better and have a better physique ur 3 softmaxxes away from ascending

I've been told I can potentially looksmax my way up to chadlite, I thankfully have the height for it

 

[Nick.Harte]

All you have to do is dress clean, borderline old money and act NT and people will engage

Wrong
If you’re below HTN, you’re cooked
Dressing nice if you’re LTN- mtn will get people to copy your looks only instead of approaching you.

 

[Pikabro]

Idk, being alone in college is pretty boring, you just sit trough lectures by yourself

Not to mention that people give you valuable information when it comes to exams, studying and such

bottom point true lowkey

 

[Nick.Harte]

Being alone in school mogs. Just tell your mom you have friends, no reason for her to know.

No
It doesn’t mog shit

 

[Nick.Harte]

but meeting new people that I know nothing about

Ask them about their interests and their life

 

[PRIEST Sv3rige]

No
It doesn’t mog shit

How come?

 

[Nick.Harte]

How come?

Alone = school shooter vibes

 

[PRIEST Sv3rige]

Alone = school shooter vibes

Not if ur tall or GL. Also there's a difference in being an outcast, and being alone by choice, people can sense the difference. School shooter keeps his head down, doesn't hold eye contact, doesn't say hi.

I still keep my head high, hold eye contact with people I walk past, and I say hi when prompted.