my mom really worries about me not going out and having friends

[fluxx]

its cuz ive always been a loner with no friends and no social circle
mom worries about it so much i just wish to have more friends to make her feel better…

 

[StraightHeadJames]

we are friends bud

 

[not__cel]

Yeah, what should I do?

 

[fluxx]

we are friends bud

r-really?

 

[uksucks]

Same
She says I should spend time with young people jfl

 

[ToryToad]

Mine doesn't ,guess they accepted that I am a loser

 

[fluxx]

Same
She says I should spend time with young people jfl

she thought for a while that i just love spending time alone jfl
but she realized i hate it and now she forces me even more to go out
like i would like to if i had many friends and a gf but that simply isnt the case

 

[uksucks]

she thought for a while that i just love spending time alone jfl
but she realized i hate it and now she forces me even more to go out
like i would like to if i had many friends and a gf but that simply isnt the case

It's insane how delusional my mum is

Legit thinks I don't care about women whatsoever

 

[brownmutt42]

It’s natural, imagine your child being a loner, must feel brutal

 

[spongebob]

Just go solo clubbing and meet friends there. Sometimes you'll meet people who are also solo, they're more eager. Sometimes you'll meet a group.
Start talking about other events to go together and eventually you'll meet more. Its a snowballeffect.

 

[fluxx]

Just go solo clubbing and meet friends there. Sometimes you'll meet people who are also solo, they're more eager. Sometimes you'll meet a group.
Start talking about other events to go together and eventually you'll meet more. Its a snowballeffect.

thats how my mom thinks it works
but it doesnt really work like that

 

[uksucks]

thats how my mom thinks it works
but it doesnt really work like that

Exactly no social circle makes you look like weirdo

Even on my best most popular clubbing nights, they asked where my friends are

 

[Alias!]

its cuz ive always been a loner with no friends and no social circle
mom worries about it so much i just wish to have more friends to make her feel better…

I would be worried 2 if my kid was on . Org

 

[Alias!]

Just go solo clubbing and meet friends there. Sometimes you'll meet people who are also solo, they're more eager. Sometimes you'll meet a group.
Start talking about other events to go together and eventually you'll meet more. Its a snowballeffect.

Going to the club to meet friends

 

[SchizoParanoid_]

why dont you have friends tho? it is actually quite easy, just talk to people

 

[spongebob]

thats how my mom thinks it works
but it doesnt really work like that

Of course it works. But you should go to a party or evenement. A club is a bit less NT.

Going to the club to meet friends

Idk bro. It's the easiest way to meet people. Most often people go with their friends but end up splitting and often even go alone.
You could always say that you lost your friends.

 

[Sub5 & Celibate]

its cuz ive always been a loner with no friends and no social circle
mom worries about it so much i just wish to have more friends to make her feel better…

I can’t socialize anymore cause i quit drinking and lost all will to talk to people

 

[Alias!]

Of course it works. But you should go to a party or evenement. A club is a bit less NT.


Idk bro. It's the easiest way to meet people. Most often people go with their friends but end up splitting and often even go alone.
You could always say that you lost your friends.

I would say a concert and festivals are better for meeting new friends

 

[ascension]

This is a real contentious issue in my household and it gets worse every year.

I try my best to be nice and make friends irl, but it's literally always me asking others questions about themselves, initiating and carrying the conversation, and no one ever seems interested.

Not everyone was meant to be socially successful, just how it is.

 

[fluxx]

Not everyone was meant to be socially successful, just how it is.

u either have it or u dont

 

[averagenormie]

why dont you have friends tho? it is actually quite easy, just talk to people

When I do they either angry, try to make fun of me or try to impress the huzz by comparing

 

[fluxx]

why dont you have friends tho? it is actually quite easy, just talk to people

i have 3 close friends and pretty much no one else i regularly hang out with
but those 3 friends very rarely go out
maybe once a week

 

[SchizoParanoid_]

When I do they either angry, try to make fun of me or try to impress the huzz by comparing

well that must suck, are you sub5 or unintimidating? if thats the case then it will be harder for you, but not impossible

 

[SchizoParanoid_]

i have 3 close friends and pretty much no one else i regularly hang out with
but those 3 friends very rarely go out
maybe once a week

i relate somewhat, i usually just hang with the same 5 people because its my "comfort" group, im too lazy to hang around other people even when i get invited, just dont be lazy theory is unironically legit

 

[TiktokUser]

Exactly no social circle makes you look like weirdo

Even on my best most popular clubbing nights, they asked where my friends are

Why do you and @fluxx not have friends?

Aspie?

 

[uksucks]

Why do you and @fluxx not have friends?

Aspie?

I do but they rarely want to go to clubs

 

[charliewillascend]

its cuz ive always been a loner with no friends and no social circle
mom worries about it so much i just wish to have more friends to make her feel better…

most relatable thread I’ve ever read

 

[neurosis]

take her aside and explain to her that she actually doesn't worry nor care. all she subconsciously cares about is her son climbing social dominance hierarchies and that if she was more of a hypergamous queen and less of a dysgenic whore and gave her son good genes, then she wouldn't be having these worries in the first place

 

[averagenormie]

well that must suck, are you sub5 or unintimidating? if thats the case then it will be harder for you, but not impossible

I'm mtn facially and highly dimorphic