My most important obstacle is to overcome my (social) anxiety and the resulting neurodivergentness of it

[Adonis]

Nothing lowers my ability to find women as much as my social anxiety.
I can't talk to anyone if I am not on pheni or alcohol but even they don't lower my inhibition low enough for me to feel comfortable in social situations.
I might start therapy for this problem soon but only god knows how long it will take before I see any differences if any at all.

 

[Tallooksmaxxer]

cope

 

[Adonis]

cope

Its not and you know it.

 

[Foreverbrad]

cope, if you were GL enough they would come talk to you and anything you said would be right

 

[LiteralCaucasian]

Nothing lowers my ability to find women as much as my social anxiety.
I can't talk to anyone if I am not on pheni or alcohol but even they don't lower my inhibition low enough for me to feel comfortable in social situations.
I might start therapy for this problem soon but only god knows how long it will take before I see any differences if any at all.

I personally believe that RedPill and BlackPill views should be synthesized in a 20/80 proportion respectively. Looks isn't everything, but it is very important.

 

[Adonis]

cope, if you were GL enough they would come talk to you and anything you said would be right

But I would try to escape such a situation because the better looking and more attractive the girls is, the more I would get this crippling and death like anxiety.
(I had a situation like this when I was young and puberty didn't fuck my looks up like its now)

 

[Adonis]

I personally believe that RedPill and BlackPill views should be synthesized in a 20/80 proportion respectively. Looks isn't everything, but it is very important.

Looks are very important but NT is number 1 factor of any kind of success in life not just in the sexual one.

 

[Foreverbrad]

But I would try to escape such a situation because the better looking and more attractive the girls is, the more I would get this crippling and death like anxiety.
(I had a situation like this when I was young and puberty didn't fuck my looks up like its now)

Just go on tinder and set up hookups until women no longer intimidate you... if it's really not a looks based problem

 

[Adonis]

Just go on tinder and set up hookups until women no longer intimidate you... if it's really not a looks based problem

No its looks too but my anxiety is definitly making me suffer more.