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I just woke up trying to recover from a hangover. Slight headache. Definitely more mentally clear a little.
First thoughts cringing super hard at the simping I did for a girl when I was drunk. Very cringe.
Second thoughts I seriously need to learn to not be autistic with women. Never show jealousy. Get to the point immediately if you like them or not to avoid drama about shit later. If they reject you in the beginning there’s no drama and it’s straight to the point. Never get jealous about a girls male friends, the massive amount of attention she gets, don’t acknowledge it, don’t stare at it, act like you are completely and utterly oblivious to its existence and completely happy with yourself regardless.
Avoid arguing with women. I say this because I did it and realized women are literally adult children. They don’t argue like normal logical men. They never admit defeat, don’t want to come to a conclusion where they have to sacrifice ANYTHING, they have a victim complex so even if they did you wrong they try and manipulate it to where you are somehow hurting them. They are stuck up insecure bitches who will insult you but can’t handle an insult back even if it’s a joke. They are fragile as fuck. Don’t argue with them.
Don’t sperg out EVER and explain your psychology or any redpill shit or anything to do with social dynamics from a based point of view. Women are virtue signallers and have the most blue pulled retarded world views that their own actions completely contradict. Never ever fucking explain how shit works to girls they don’t get it.
For me personally, don’t act like some slayer eventually by girls will find out you aren’t via your inability to answer sexual questions and they literally will treat you like shit.
Military girls seem to suck ass maybe it’s just low quality women that join and that’s why I don’t like them, maybe it’s a mixture of my inexperience and low quality women, or maybe it’s entirely my autism and inexperience solely that got me where I’m at.
Stay the fuck out of the friendzone. Girls will bait you with interest to get you to be cool with them again, only to shove you right back into the friendzone. By then you are like a dog that has taken a fresh bone and she has you in her full control. There’s no way out of the friendzone. She wants to use you for your time, money, and entertainment.
It seems like low quality women have nothing to offer other than their existence. They just accompany you, act as a main character, and sap your resources even as a friend. You gain nothing in return.
Keeping a woman’s interest is extremely difficult. They are mental children. They are hard to please. They lie and play games and are amazing actors. Know this but never ever ever hint that you know this because with these low quality women showing them you know what they are doing literally doesn’t help for shit. Just avoid them I guess. Don’t even make friends with garbage women they just use you.
Never oneitis a girl or start simping. It’s easy as fuck because you want shit to go well and you want to really vibe with a girl. Thing is they have so many options and they know it you start simping then you just look like a pathetic beta and they ignore you. It happened to me. I objectively mog the girl according to a shit ton of people as well.
If you look but are still a virgin people don’t expect it. Don’t act like you know everything about relationships in front of normies. Your credibility goes out the window when they find out you are a virgin then they think you are retarded. Happened to me.
Don’t be afraid of rejection. Think of everything as a learning process. Experience social shit, learn the dynamics, avoid the mistakes you made before, and keep making progress.
Whatever happens, it’s all good, whether good or bad, I’m learning from it and as cringe as the shit I did with the girl drunk, it’s alright, now I’ve drunk for the first time, now I know what it does, now I’ve been low inhib, now I know next time that I’ll start simping if I’m not careful.
take fucking care of yourself. Hit the gym, don’t be an idiot, focus on yourself first, and stop fucking focusing on women and getting attached to them so much. Don’t think apologizing to a woman will get her attention back. If she isn’t simping over you there’s almost NOTHING you can physically do or say to get that sweet validation back. There ain’t shit. Either cut her off until it comes back or dip completely.
workout, practice some sort of mental health improving like meditation, daily reflecting, or if you are religious pray. Eat correctly for your goals, and do your goals, save money and have a healthy mindset for yourself.
again, I can’t stop fucking cringing at how retarded I was drunk but I’m hoping I’ll be able to start looking at it as a learning process and embrace the cringe to keep moving forward. I want to reach PUA levels of iron mindset (not giving a fuck about rejection, being able to openly put yourself out there, being low inhib etc).
I vented the shit out of this thread, thanks for reading.
First thoughts cringing super hard at the simping I did for a girl when I was drunk. Very cringe.
Second thoughts I seriously need to learn to not be autistic with women. Never show jealousy. Get to the point immediately if you like them or not to avoid drama about shit later. If they reject you in the beginning there’s no drama and it’s straight to the point. Never get jealous about a girls male friends, the massive amount of attention she gets, don’t acknowledge it, don’t stare at it, act like you are completely and utterly oblivious to its existence and completely happy with yourself regardless.
Avoid arguing with women. I say this because I did it and realized women are literally adult children. They don’t argue like normal logical men. They never admit defeat, don’t want to come to a conclusion where they have to sacrifice ANYTHING, they have a victim complex so even if they did you wrong they try and manipulate it to where you are somehow hurting them. They are stuck up insecure bitches who will insult you but can’t handle an insult back even if it’s a joke. They are fragile as fuck. Don’t argue with them.
Don’t sperg out EVER and explain your psychology or any redpill shit or anything to do with social dynamics from a based point of view. Women are virtue signallers and have the most blue pulled retarded world views that their own actions completely contradict. Never ever fucking explain how shit works to girls they don’t get it.
For me personally, don’t act like some slayer eventually by girls will find out you aren’t via your inability to answer sexual questions and they literally will treat you like shit.
Military girls seem to suck ass maybe it’s just low quality women that join and that’s why I don’t like them, maybe it’s a mixture of my inexperience and low quality women, or maybe it’s entirely my autism and inexperience solely that got me where I’m at.
Stay the fuck out of the friendzone. Girls will bait you with interest to get you to be cool with them again, only to shove you right back into the friendzone. By then you are like a dog that has taken a fresh bone and she has you in her full control. There’s no way out of the friendzone. She wants to use you for your time, money, and entertainment.
It seems like low quality women have nothing to offer other than their existence. They just accompany you, act as a main character, and sap your resources even as a friend. You gain nothing in return.
Keeping a woman’s interest is extremely difficult. They are mental children. They are hard to please. They lie and play games and are amazing actors. Know this but never ever ever hint that you know this because with these low quality women showing them you know what they are doing literally doesn’t help for shit. Just avoid them I guess. Don’t even make friends with garbage women they just use you.
Never oneitis a girl or start simping. It’s easy as fuck because you want shit to go well and you want to really vibe with a girl. Thing is they have so many options and they know it you start simping then you just look like a pathetic beta and they ignore you. It happened to me. I objectively mog the girl according to a shit ton of people as well.
If you look but are still a virgin people don’t expect it. Don’t act like you know everything about relationships in front of normies. Your credibility goes out the window when they find out you are a virgin then they think you are retarded. Happened to me.
Don’t be afraid of rejection. Think of everything as a learning process. Experience social shit, learn the dynamics, avoid the mistakes you made before, and keep making progress.
Whatever happens, it’s all good, whether good or bad, I’m learning from it and as cringe as the shit I did with the girl drunk, it’s alright, now I’ve drunk for the first time, now I know what it does, now I’ve been low inhib, now I know next time that I’ll start simping if I’m not careful.
take fucking care of yourself. Hit the gym, don’t be an idiot, focus on yourself first, and stop fucking focusing on women and getting attached to them so much. Don’t think apologizing to a woman will get her attention back. If she isn’t simping over you there’s almost NOTHING you can physically do or say to get that sweet validation back. There ain’t shit. Either cut her off until it comes back or dip completely.
workout, practice some sort of mental health improving like meditation, daily reflecting, or if you are religious pray. Eat correctly for your goals, and do your goals, save money and have a healthy mindset for yourself.
again, I can’t stop fucking cringing at how retarded I was drunk but I’m hoping I’ll be able to start looking at it as a learning process and embrace the cringe to keep moving forward. I want to reach PUA levels of iron mindset (not giving a fuck about rejection, being able to openly put yourself out there, being low inhib etc).
I vented the shit out of this thread, thanks for reading.
