Ältai.Anabolic
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Tbh from all the lessons I have learned with texting
Before 1st date(need a lot of cooking, teasing, then suggesting the idea indirectly and if she says yes then schedule the date)
After 1st date should let it sit for few days. To secure 2nd date just cook or warm up abit back and forth few texts and suggest meeting again.
By date 3 assume she is already attracted, so either she initiates or you have to but now minimal warm up text and direct short leading text to meet.
If she ever gives excuse not to see or sick, just agree whatever with her and said it's a good idea. She will appreciate and like you more for not being needy.
Never trying to ask for a date in 2 conditions. When she ghosting and when she's testing, only schedule when there's chemistry or banter or teasing between you two.
On date
Try to create vibes of a fun hangout between long lost friends instead of trying to secure romance, comfort and trust is possibly collerated with attraction on her side.
Good easy normal topics especially her interests, her life, her circles, her family. Again not creepy questions etcs.
Escalate should be as naturally and seems unintended as possible. Accidentally touching, proximity in body and comfort, not too direct like.
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