My social anxiety is so bad that I can't even talk in Online Games.

[Deleted member 39]

I've always had social anxiety and as I'm getting older my anxiety is decreasing bit by bit, but it's still at an extreme level.
When I want to make an doctors appointment, it usually takes three weeks until I finally have the courage to call, and when I do, I'm obviously nervous as hell and end the call as soon as possible.
I recently started playing Fortnite because of my little brother but started to enjoy it myself.
Yesterday I was in a few rounds, every person was sympathetic and chill, but I couldn't manage to get one word out even though they tried to make me part of their conversation and team play.

Social anxiety is #1 reason for inceldom when it's that extreme. I'm ugly too, but that's probably not even the reason I'm a virgin as I've been on awkward dates and rejected date offers because of anxiety.

And there's no cure for social anxiety. I never really learned how to talk without sounding boring and Uncharismatic. Drugs like phenibut may take away some anxiety, but they don't give me the capability of being talkative and talking like a normie.

 

[Deleted member 10949]

ok

 

[Deleted member 2403]

JoinedAug 12, 2018

 

[Deleted member 39]

JoinedAug 12, 2018

Over, right

 

[.👽.]

No bro being NT is cope its just looks. This forum said so

 

[Deleted member 39]

No bro being NT is cope its just looks. This forum said so

A good looking dude doesn't have to be super NT, but he cannot have severe social anxiety

 

[Jason Voorhees]

How old are u? Ur probably one of the oldest members on this forum by join date who still posts on this forum

 

[Deleted member 39]

How old are u? Ur probably one of the oldest members on this forum by join date who still posts on this forum

Turning 21

 

[Deleted member 10949]

I am going outside being drunk all day messing with random people meanwhile ur nervous to talk to people online??

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Turning 21

Still khhv? What's ur psl? Have u considered surgery?

 

[Deleted member 39]

I am going outside being drunk all day messing with random people meanwhile ur nervous to talk to people online??

I'm mirin you

 

[Deleted member 10949]

I'm mirin you

Bro you should just stop giving a fuck man we are all gonna die anyways

 

[Deleted member 9274]

Are you insecure about your voice or the way you talk?

 

[Deleted member 39]

Still khhv? What's ur psl? Have u considered surgery?

Khv. Bit below average for my age range, not super ugly but I have no harmony. I was really autistic about surgery but I gave most of them up because they wouldn't change much.

Are you insecure about your voice or the way you talk?

I'm not insecure about my voice, but people have a hard time understanding me because of mumbling. I'm just afraid of being roasted I guess, of being a boring weirdo, afraid of being judged.

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

21 and u have the mindset of a 15yo worried about judgement over a mic to a rand you'll never meet. I was only insecure on games at like 12 and that's cus voice, lil niggas always get flamed. But even still I talked to people through a fukn xbox 360 kinect jfl. Grow up nigga, practice exposure theory.

Alternatively get customer facing role so ur forced to practice socializing and small talk. Helped me immensely, didn't even wanna do the service component at 1st job cus I was afraid I'd fuck up. But just tried it and can small talk etc subconsciously now

 

[Deleted member 9274]

I'm not insecure about my voice, but people have a hard time understanding me because of mumbling. I'm just afraid of being roasted I guess, of being a boring weirdo, afraid of being judged.

Being dominant and interesting are two key factors. If you neither of these then its over

 

[Deleted member 39]

21 and u have the mindset of a 15yo worried about judgement over a mic to a rand you'll never meet. I was only insecure on games at like 12 and that's cus voice, lil niggas always get flamed. But even still I talked to people through a fukn xbox 360 kinect jfl. Grow up nigga, practice exposure theory.

Alternatively get customer facing role so ur forced to practice socializing and small talk. Helped me immensely, didn't even wanna do the service component at 1st job cus I was afraid I'd fuck up. But just tried it and can small talk etc subconsciously now

I only feel comfy when people are at their jobs so they have to be friendly. With everyone else who can freely decide to hate or like me, I get anxious at. Being shy and weird puts all people away, it's a vicious cycle. I was never drunk in my life and don't plan to but maybe I should take a hggher dose of phenibut and try exposure therapy again. I exposed myself to some difficult situations: job interview, dates with girls etc. but in the end it doesn't change shit ngl. Every day your progress is resetted and you have to get "warm" again every single day

 

[Uglybrazilian]

How is this even possible tbh, I believe its possible for you to get better but you'll need guts

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

I only feel comfy when people are at their jobs so they have to be friendly. With everyone else who can freely decide to hate or like me, I get anxious at. Being shy and weird puts all people away, it's a vicious cycle. I was never drunk in my life and don't plan to but maybe I should take a hggher dose of phenibut and try exposure therapy again. I exposed myself to some difficult situations: job interview, dates with girls etc. but in the end it doesn't change shit ngl. Every day your progress is resetted and you have to get "warm" again every single day

U didn't develop normal socially like many here, but that seems extreme. Do exposure therapy immediately ho out have small talk with workers then randoms etc. Haven been drunk yet . Try it with friends sometime or in town

 

[Deleted member 39]

U didn't develop normal socially like many here, but that seems extreme. Do exposure therapy immediately ho out have small talk with workers then randoms etc. Haven been drunk yet . Try it with friends sometime or in town

I don't even think it's development. I had a good childhood, never had any traumatic experience. I remember being super socially anxious even in kindergarden. It's my stupid brain.
Did the first challenge today, spoke with a girl in an online game in a foreign language

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

I don't even think it's development. I had a good childhood, never had any traumatic experience. I remember being super socially anxious even in kindergarden. It's my stupid brain.
Did the first challenge today, spoke with a girl in an online game in a foreign language

Mirin bro, any progress is progress

 

[No Bones Dax]

I’m the same as you for the most part, but the way I handle phone calls is I write out scripts or a general guide for how the conversations supposed to go. Say like ordering pizza or making an appointment. A single phone call takes up about a page to a page and a half. I have about 200 scripts written so far.


ie,

(type phone number)
other person: hello
Me: Hi, (inquire about services)
Etc....

Something like that, even then with these guidelines I still get panic attacks, or freeze up and just hang up, but they do help. So trying that may help you broski.

 

[Deleted member 6723]

same bro except not fortnite

 

[sorrowfulsad]

not reading a word
inject t

 

[Deleted member 39]

not reading a word
inject t

Your response is so creative and totally not expected in this forum wow

 

[CANI]

Siempre he tenido ansiedad social y, a medida que envejezco, mi ansiedad disminuye poco a poco, pero todavía está en un nivel extremo.
Cuando quiero programar una cita con el médico, por lo general se necesitan tres semanas hasta que finalmente tengo el valor de llamar, y cuando lo hago, obviamente estoy muy nervioso y finalizo la llamada lo antes posible.
Recientemente comencé a jugar Fortnite por mi hermano pequeño, pero comencé a disfrutarlo yo mismo.
Ayer estuve en algunas rondas, todos se mostraron comprensivos y tranquilos, pero no pude pronunciar una palabra a pesar de que intentaron hacerme parte de su conversación y juego en equipo.

La ansiedad social es la razón número uno para el inceldom cuando es tan extrema. Yo también soy feo, pero probablemente esa ni siquiera sea la razón por la que soy virgen, ya que he tenido citas incómodas y he rechazado ofertas de citas debido a la ansiedad.

Y no existe cura para la ansiedad social. Realmente nunca aprendí a hablar sin sonar aburrido y poco carismático. Las drogas como el phenibut pueden quitar algo de ansiedad, pero no me dan la capacidad de ser hablador y hablar como una norma.

go the gym, inyect t, dont give a fuck opinions of the people

 

[Ritalincel]

 

[Deleted member 6403]

Increase your T and decrease ur cortisol and shrink ur amygdyla with shrooms

 

[Deleted member 2968]

Having social anxiety is biggest truecel trait.I missed so many oportunities because of this shit and worst thing it always comes with being ugly.My life is such a waste,there is no happy end for my suffering

 

[Deleted member 39]

Having social anxiety is biggest truecel trait.I missed so many oportunities because of this shit and worst thing it always comes with being ugly.My life is such a waste,there is no happy end for my suffering

I would have probably lost my virginity at age 12 when a girl begged me to go on a date to the cinema with her. Now I'm here, a 21 year old kissless, friendless, wagie virgin.

 

[Deleted member 2968]

I would have probably lost my virginity at age 12 when a girl begged me to go on a date to the cinema with her. Now I'm here, a 21 year old kissless, friendless, wagie virgin.

Phenibut should be free,fuck this clownworld and fuck my parents for raising me as asocial subhuman
There must be some cure for this shit cmon i have tried xanax and zoloft,none of these helped me even in highest doses,fuck i want to watch this world burn in pieces,i am so full of hate and angery

 

[Deleted member 39]

Phenibut should be free,fuck this clownworld and fuck my parents for raising me as asocial subhuman
There must be some cure for this shit cmon i have tried xanax and zoloft,none of these helped me even in highest doses,fuck i want to watch this world burn in pieces,i am so full of hate and angery

Phenibut takes away the anxiety for the most part but it doesn't give me social skills, I'm still quiet and weird when I'm on it

 

[Deleted member 2968]

Phenibut takes away the anxiety for the most part but it doesn't give me social skills, I'm still quiet and weird when I'm on it

It's important that you don't feel awkward and stressed all the time.Being shy isn't that bad since you probably don't like hanging out in groups by nature,it's important that you can respond normally or talk anything without moving your hand or shaking

 

[Deleted member 2968]

I’m the same as you for the most part, but the way I handle phone calls is I write out scripts or a general guide for how the conversations supposed to go. Say like ordering pizza or making an appointment. A single phone call takes up about a page to a page and a half. I have about 200 scripts written so far.


ie,

(type phone number)
other person: hello
Me: Hi, (inquire about services)
Etc....

Something like that, even then with these guidelines I still get panic attacks, or freeze up and just hang up, but they do help. So trying that may help you broski.

I avoid calls,just type messages instead.I would rather play russian roulette than actually call someone

 

[Deleted member 39]

I avoid calls,just type messages instead.I would rather play russian roulette than actually call someone

Same. I've procrastinated calling my doctor for laser therapy for over a year now, eventually got my mother to call. Sometimes when I have to call the dentist my voice shakes, I breathe heavily and I have a script of what to say in front of me. It's hell.
People with social anxiety have a higher chance of being an incel than merely ugly people imo.

 

[Deleted member 2968]

Same. I've procrastinated calling my doctor for laser therapy for over a year now, eventually got my mother to call. Sometimes when I have to call the dentist my voice shakes, I breathe heavily and I have a script of what to say in front of me. It's hell.
People with social anxiety have a higher chance of being an incel than merely ugly people imo.

Ugly people are usually socially awkward since bad genetics lead to being bully victim.Ugliness=low t=bullying victim=more mental problems=neverending circle.What i used to do is just let myself talk and dont think about consequences.Sometimes i sound normal without stuttering but most of a time i sound very suicidal and weak.I lose focus too very fast and i just want to end up call as soon as possible.But i would always rather choose to be normal and healthy person than good looking person,sadly i am both mentally unhealthy and ugly

 

[Deleted member 39]

Ugly people are usually socially awkward since bad genetics lead to being bully victim.Ugliness=low t=bullying victim=more mental problems=neverending circle.What i used to do is just let myself talk and dont think about consequences.Sometimes i sound normal without stuttering but most of a time i sound very suicidal and weak.I lose focus too very fast and i just want to end up call as soon as possible.But i would always rather choose to be normal and healthy person than good looking person,sadly i am both mentally unhealthy and ugly

I had social anxiety even as a little child but I guess if I grew into a manly body I would be less anxious now. knowing that even women could beat the shit out of me doesn't help with social anxiety. consequences of a conflict would result in me being humiliated so social anxiety isn't even senseless completely. it protects inferior men from being fucked up by Chads

 

[Gonthar]

How and why do you talk in online games, I play mostly single player games, why do you need to talk in multiplayer games?

 

[dogapm123]

I've always had social anxiety and as I'm getting older my anxiety is decreasing bit by bit, but it's still at an extreme level.
When I want to make an doctors appointment, it usually takes three weeks until I finally have the courage to call, and when I do, I'm obviously nervous as hell and end the call as soon as possible.
I recently started playing Fortnite because of my little brother but started to enjoy it myself.
Yesterday I was in a few rounds, every person was sympathetic and chill, but I couldn't manage to get one word out even though they tried to make me part of their conversation and team play.

Social anxiety is #1 reason for inceldom when it's that extreme. I'm ugly too, but that's probably not even the reason I'm a virgin as I've been on awkward dates and rejected date offers because of anxiety.

And there's no cure for social anxiety. I never really learned how to talk without sounding boring and Uncharismatic. Drugs like phenibut may take away some anxiety, but they don't give me the capability of being talkative and talking like a normie.

Sorry that my reply would suggest that your post is cope. I also can not easily get an appointment through phone or just don't go to hairdresser just because of the small talks. This is not purely due to soxial anxiety or shyness per se as I think I devalue common social interactions so much that I try to avoid them and since I have been doing that since I was little now I of course get social anxiety because I have not ever done these interactions properly in my life so I am very very bad at it which kinda creates a positive feedback loop only increase my social awkwardness. But here is the kicker I got laid when I was 14 and been sexually active since (mostly long-terms relationships with lots of sex). I don't know how this would change your view about your self but you should definetly consider my point. Keep in mind that my social anxiety hugely varies with the context, you would mock me if I told you all the stuff that I have done or havent done just because of social anxiety, but also in other contexts where I feel confident such as scientific arguments or logic I would be described as a bold and talkative person.

 

[Deleted member 2968]

I had social anxiety even as a little child but I guess if I grew into a manly body I would be less anxious now. knowing that even women could beat the shit out of me doesn't help with social anxiety. consequences of a conflict would result in me being humiliated so social anxiety isn't even senseless completely. it protects inferior men from being fucked up by Chads

I had too since kindergarten,its probably low prenatal T plus social distraction since early age.Many factors could trigger social anxiety but yeah we subhumans have undeveloped bodies just like brain and thinking probably.We should just cope till death with some things we have.I was shy and subhuman even as a kid,i was bullied all the time and humiliated,even females once knocked my head over the glass in kindergarten,no wonder why we grew up to be failed misanthopes

 

[Deleted member 39]

I had too since kindergarten,its probably low prenatal T plus social distraction since early age.Many factors could trigger social anxiety but yeah we subhumans have undeveloped bodies just like brain and thinking probably.We should just cope till death with some things we have.I was shy and subhuman even as a kid,i was bullied all the time and humiliated,even females once knocked my head over the glass in kindergarten,no wonder why we grew up to be failed misanthopes

I was never bullied but everything I do to get better feels like a huge cope because I'm just genetically inferior and should be lucky to still be alive. If I was born a girl I'd be so cute, but here I am an unmasculine piece of shit. It is what it is. I hope I can maintain the wagie job in order to finance the copes such as pets.

 

[Looks234]

Subliminals unironically work for social anxiety

 

[Deleted member 2968]

Subliminals unironically work for social anxiety

tbh frequency could affect brain in positive way

 

[ChristianChad]

Increase Testosterone!

 

[Kilimanjaro]

Try phenibut

 

[lilhorizontal32]

I've always had social anxiety and as I'm getting older my anxiety is decreasing bit by bit, but it's still at an extreme level.
When I want to make an doctors appointment, it usually takes three weeks until I finally have the courage to call, and when I do, I'm obviously nervous as hell and end the call as soon as possible.
I recently started playing Fortnite because of my little brother but started to enjoy it myself.
Yesterday I was in a few rounds, every person was sympathetic and chill, but I couldn't manage to get one word out even though they tried to make me part of their conversation and team play.

Social anxiety is #1 reason for inceldom when it's that extreme. I'm ugly too, but that's probably not even the reason I'm a virgin as I've been on awkward dates and rejected date offers because of anxiety.

And there's no cure for social anxiety. I never really learned how to talk without sounding boring and Uncharismatic. Drugs like phenibut may take away some anxiety, but they don't give me the capability of being talkative and talking like a normie.

there is a cure for social anxiety. positive reinforcement and validation from the people around you

 

[Deleted member 14323]

I remember reading this. Kinda sad ngl. I hope OP is ok! jajajajajajajajajajaja

 

[lilhorizontal32]

I've always had social anxiety and as I'm getting older my anxiety is decreasing bit by bit, but it's still at an extreme level.
When I want to make an doctors appointment, it usually takes three weeks until I finally have the courage to call, and when I do, I'm obviously nervous as hell and end the call as soon as possible.
I recently started playing Fortnite because of my little brother but started to enjoy it myself.
Yesterday I was in a few rounds, every person was sympathetic and chill, but I couldn't manage to get one word out even though they tried to make me part of their conversation and team play.

Social anxiety is #1 reason for inceldom when it's that extreme. I'm ugly too, but that's probably not even the reason I'm a virgin as I've been on awkward dates and rejected date offers because of anxiety.

And there's no cure for social anxiety. I never really learned how to talk without sounding boring and Uncharismatic. Drugs like phenibut may take away some anxiety, but they don't give me the capability of being talkative and talking like a normie.

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