MorningNorwood
Burning Time
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Hello all and sorry for the long post. I've been lurking for a few weeks. I am older and married with two children and here's my story. I realize it's anecdotal and my wife has never said anything derogatory about my cock size...but then again...why would she?
I haven't had sex with my wife in over 3 years and haven't had a blow job from her in 16. I finally got fed up with initiating and getting turned down. When we did have a sex life it wasn't but maybe 4 or 5 times a year. She has never had a PIV orgasm from me. She would cum by having me grind against her clit with my pelvic area. She has all the toys in the world that I bought her. She's never liked getting her pussy licked but sure likes her big dildo. Looking back she's even asked if it was ok if she used it after I had climaxed. It kinda bothered me but for some reason I just never really thought TOO much about it. I think I appealed to her 1.) because I am very succesful, 2.) pretty attractive, 3.) funny and personable, and 4.) well...sex just isn't a priority for her.
I dated a girl in college that when I asked about my size she simply said "you are just right". I took it as a compliment. Hell I even dated this girl once where I thought it was her pussy that was too big...fucking hell!..lol.
So i started hanging around on reddit to work out some of my sexual frustrations. I ended up meeting someone virtually that I chatted with for a while. We "fooled" around online and I even sent her dick pics. She said she liked my cock? Then one day we were sexting. I told her I was really hard and she asked for a pic. Man i was sporting the hardest cock I've pretty much ever had so was really excited to send it. Well...I sent it and she then asked "would he like it if i said he was cute?". I paused and then said..."no...I don't think he would like that." It kinda ruined the moment and I then just advised her that going forward...that's just not a good word to describe a man's cock...lol. We don't chat anymore and that's not why.
So then I go to the "rate my cock" subreddit. If you haven't been there; don't go there...nothing but big dicks and lots of ladies swooning. Then "measuredpenis" where I learned how to measure. I'm close to 5" with a double dose of viagra and I don't even have problems getting an erection...but it does add a little size. I hated taking it though because of the side effects. Oh and then "realitydick" where most look above average to me...there may be a few about my size. I never even really thought I had a smaller than average cock. I mean I always wished I was bigger but what guy doesn't right? I guess I am Just now really reflecting and wondering about my size. I've never had a great sex life...with any woman...but I sure would love to have one.
Anyhoo...I then found this place. I see a lot of comments here from some men but mostly women that there are "other qualities" that some women find more important. I guess I have a lot of those "other qualities" the ladies like other than a big cock. All I would say is that I think I'd be a lot happier if I were a good bit poorer, a little uglier but married to a woman that loved getting railed by my 8" cock.
I haven't had sex with my wife in over 3 years and haven't had a blow job from her in 16. I finally got fed up with initiating and getting turned down. When we did have a sex life it wasn't but maybe 4 or 5 times a year. She has never had a PIV orgasm from me. She would cum by having me grind against her clit with my pelvic area. She has all the toys in the world that I bought her. She's never liked getting her pussy licked but sure likes her big dildo. Looking back she's even asked if it was ok if she used it after I had climaxed. It kinda bothered me but for some reason I just never really thought TOO much about it. I think I appealed to her 1.) because I am very succesful, 2.) pretty attractive, 3.) funny and personable, and 4.) well...sex just isn't a priority for her.
I dated a girl in college that when I asked about my size she simply said "you are just right". I took it as a compliment. Hell I even dated this girl once where I thought it was her pussy that was too big...fucking hell!..lol.
So i started hanging around on reddit to work out some of my sexual frustrations. I ended up meeting someone virtually that I chatted with for a while. We "fooled" around online and I even sent her dick pics. She said she liked my cock? Then one day we were sexting. I told her I was really hard and she asked for a pic. Man i was sporting the hardest cock I've pretty much ever had so was really excited to send it. Well...I sent it and she then asked "would he like it if i said he was cute?". I paused and then said..."no...I don't think he would like that." It kinda ruined the moment and I then just advised her that going forward...that's just not a good word to describe a man's cock...lol. We don't chat anymore and that's not why.
So then I go to the "rate my cock" subreddit. If you haven't been there; don't go there...nothing but big dicks and lots of ladies swooning. Then "measuredpenis" where I learned how to measure. I'm close to 5" with a double dose of viagra and I don't even have problems getting an erection...but it does add a little size. I hated taking it though because of the side effects. Oh and then "realitydick" where most look above average to me...there may be a few about my size. I never even really thought I had a smaller than average cock. I mean I always wished I was bigger but what guy doesn't right? I guess I am Just now really reflecting and wondering about my size. I've never had a great sex life...with any woman...but I sure would love to have one.
Anyhoo...I then found this place. I see a lot of comments here from some men but mostly women that there are "other qualities" that some women find more important. I guess I have a lot of those "other qualities" the ladies like other than a big cock. All I would say is that I think I'd be a lot happier if I were a good bit poorer, a little uglier but married to a woman that loved getting railed by my 8" cock.
