"my suffering will all be worth it in the end"

[Sceptical]

surely right? this sentence can make some laugh and some more depressed

 

[Outlander]

So far I've yet to see any proof that living through all the worst times of my life was worth it

 

[Resistance.]

I don’t think so usually the pain that’s endured just stays as pain.

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

I don’t think so usually the pain that’s endured just stays as pain.

Lessons

 

[Sceptical]

@Heretic you're a good example bud

 

[Heretic]

@Heretic you're a good example bud

No I agree with you

 

[mcmentalonthemic]

"my suffering will all be worth it in the end"​

 

[Sceptical]

No I agree with you

i assumed you jfl reacted cuz you found it amusing like i mentioned in my post

 

[Heretic]

i assumed you jfl reacted cuz you found it amusing like i mentioned in my post

Nah I found the ones who say it amusing

 

[javier-varela]

Niggas saying this typa quotes like no i dont wanna keep suffering imbecile

 

[Sceptical]

Niggas saying this typa quotes like no i dont wanna keep suffering imbecile

some people want to cope how they want
no matter how self destructive and dehumanizing it may seem

 

[JimmyDreamsOfZygos]

Maybe your suffering and the time you spent miserable was more impactful over that time period than day-to-day happiness, but the relief and self-acceptance that you gain from pulling yourself out of that hole will make you prouder than the lies of self-doubt ever could strip away from you, and you’ll feel the shame and hatred wash away from you, and that anger will seem like a distant memory. That’s growth.

 

[javier-varela]

some people want to cope how they want
no matter how self destructive and dehumanizing it may seem

Tbh,only reason i keep going its cuz i havent brought the rope

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Lessons

Reassurements of being a subhuman

 

[Aox Ofwar]

surely right? this sentence can make some laugh and some more depressed

I've come to realize that's there's genuinely broke 50 iq subhuman junkies injecting themselves with krokodil somewhere out there and they're relatively happy with their lives because they're absolutely unbothered by any hardships

You have to feel secure in your own head because that literally makes everything in life easier. Therapy first, then looksmaxxing or whatever

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Maybe your suffering and the time you spent miserable was more impactful over that time period than day-to-day happiness, but the relief and self-acceptance that you gain from pulling yourself out of that hole will make you prouder than the lies of self-doubt ever could strip away from you, and you’ll feel the shame and hatred wash away from you, and that anger will seem like a distant memory. That’s growth.

This will never happen to me. I will never make progress. I won’t achieve anything of significance. Nothing ever happens.

 

[Sceptical]

Reassurements of being a subhuman

its a way to feel like you've earned a compensation for your suffering even though you didn't ask any of it in the first place

 

[JimmyDreamsOfZygos]

This will never happen to me. I will never make progress. I won’t achieve anything of significance. Nothing ever happens.

It won’t happen to you, you’ll be the one to do it. This cope just gives you a sense of finality that ignores how unpredictable life can be.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

surely right? this sentence can make some laugh and some more depressed

Depends on if your suffering was spent well

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

It won’t happen to you, you’ll be the one to do it. This cope just gives you a sense of finality that ignores how unpredictable life can be.

Nothing ever happens bro!

 

[CorinthianLOX]

It won’t happen to you, you’ll be the one to do it. This cope just gives you a sense of finality that ignores how unpredictable life can be.

It also saves me from potential pain.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Nothing ever happens bro!

Well, nothing literally does happen

 

[Sceptical]

Well, nothing literally does happen

maybe nothing ever happening is also part of your predetermined life. there's no escape from this paradox

 

[JimmyDreamsOfZygos]

It also saves me from potential pain.

Valid fr, but you were strong enough to take it then, you’re not weak and reliving the past hurts the same as new experiences would. You’re giving those past experiences too much weight, you internalized them and tried to turn it into lessons when it’s just randomness, chaos.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

You’re giving those past experiences too much weight, you internalized them and tried to turn it into lessons when it’s just randomness, chaos.

How and why would I not do this? This is the most reasonable thing one can do if they’ve been treated like shit mostly by other people.

 

[Don Alejo Garza]

 

[JimmyDreamsOfZygos]

How and why would I not do this? This is the most reasonable thing one can do if they’ve been treated like shit mostly by other people.

I’m not telling you to ignore reality, but rather that those bad experiences aren’t fully a reflection of your value or worth. Bullies don’t just pull insults out of nowhere, but that doesn’t mean they don’t exaggerate a lot, and all it takes it being around nicer people to realize that. You think you’d still be cynical if you are happy, but the truth is once you have good people around you you’ll realize you couldn’t give less of a fuck about what the assholes of the world have to say.