My Uni report (UNI GUYS GTFIH HELP)

[Deleted member 15067]

Long read, so be prepared

So I go to a uni in the UK now (won’t ever reveal which one) and I am in a dillema

I have socialized with a ton of people through society events and stuff going out literally to any event possible and although I don’t have a strong group yet , I am starting to get more friends pretty decently so far. But the one thing I didn’t do is go out clubbing at some nightclub and get drunk. This is for two reasons

1. I am still relatively religious, I am fucking scared of alcohol (it’s easy to say don’t be a pussy but I’ve been told it’s bad for my entire life)
2. I’m just not that type of person, I can’t force myself to be some club slayer drinker I hate that shit naturally I went to a concert a few times with NT friends I hated it so much

My flat is also pretty much dead so I plan to change accom soon anyway (this is brutal af)

Now the dillema is, I basically met this NT slayer and his group today (met this nigga because he held open the door for me at class it’s so easy to talk to people here). I had to larp to them that I had relationships and slays etc since they asked that shit (jfl). Essentially they think I’m like them when I’m a religious nigga who didn’t even touch alcohol or anything. They said you should join us at the club tonight because they think I’m some sort of NT club nigga cause of my larping but I’m tired as fuck and exhausted because I was faking this whole shit. Wtf do I do, I prefer a more calm experience

 

[Deleted member 6128]

OP attends University of Nottingham

 

[Deleted member 6128]

OP attends University of Nottingham

Nvm it’s Durham

 

[Deleted member 18849]

Why are you religious is the question

 

[Deleted member 4362]

Idgaf

 

[Deleted member 15067]

Why are you religious is the question

I’ve just grown up with it man

Nvm it’s Durham

Lol if you think I’m going to sfcel central

 

[Deleted member 15067]

B

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

Bee urself

 

[Deleted member 20631]

Drink a little bit and the alcohol will do the talking for you, just have a few shots don’t go overboard because I remember first time I drank I was on fucking accutane so my liver was already struggling and I got drunk from two shots

 

[Deleted member 20399]

Long read, so be prepared

So I go to a uni in the UK now (won’t ever reveal which one) and I am in a dillema

I have socialized with a ton of people through society events and stuff going out literally to any event possible and although I don’t have a strong group yet , I am starting to get more friends pretty decently so far. But the one thing I didn’t do is go out clubbing at some nightclub and get drunk. This is for two reasons

1. I am still relatively religious, I am fucking scared of alcohol (it’s easy to say don’t be a pussy but I’ve been told it’s bad for my entire life)
2. I’m just not that type of person, I can’t force myself to be some club slayer drinker I hate that shit naturally I went to a concert a few times with NT friends I hated it so much

My flat is also pretty much dead so I plan to change accom soon anyway (this is brutal af)

Now the dillema is, I basically met this NT slayer and his group today (met this nigga because he held open the door for me at class it’s so easy to talk to people here). I had to larp to them that I had relationships and slays etc since they asked that shit (jfl). Essentially they think I’m like them when I’m a religious nigga who didn’t even touch alcohol or anything. They said you should join us at the club tonight because they think I’m some sort of NT club nigga cause of my larping but I’m tired as fuck and exhausted because I was faking this whole shit. Wtf do I do, I prefer a more calm experience

I don’t know how u do uni without alcohol. It’s my only cope.

 

[BeenLMSsinceMSN]

Long read, so be prepared

So I go to a uni in the UK now (won’t ever reveal which one) and I am in a dillema

I have socialized with a ton of people through society events and stuff going out literally to any event possible and although I don’t have a strong group yet , I am starting to get more friends pretty decently so far. But the one thing I didn’t do is go out clubbing at some nightclub and get drunk. This is for two reasons

1. I am still relatively religious, I am fucking scared of alcohol (it’s easy to say don’t be a pussy but I’ve been told it’s bad for my entire life)
2. I’m just not that type of person, I can’t force myself to be some club slayer drinker I hate that shit naturally I went to a concert a few times with NT friends I hated it so much

My flat is also pretty much dead so I plan to change accom soon anyway (this is brutal af)

Now the dillema is, I basically met this NT slayer and his group today (met this nigga because he held open the door for me at class it’s so easy to talk to people here). I had to larp to them that I had relationships and slays etc since they asked that shit (jfl). Essentially they think I’m like them when I’m a religious nigga who didn’t even touch alcohol or anything. They said you should join us at the club tonight because they think I’m some sort of NT club nigga cause of my larping but I’m tired as fuck and exhausted because I was faking this whole shit. Wtf do I do, I prefer a more calm experience

What happened in the end ?

 

[ChristianChad]

What happened in the end ?

Liver failure after accidentally drinking some vodka with energy drink

 

[Deleted member 15067]

What happened in the end ?

My card was still under the 11-17 yr old bank account so I couldn’t buy the ticket but I sorted it out and have a chance to go again today

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

My card was still under the 11-17 yr old bank account so I couldn’t buy the ticket but I sorted it out and have a chance to go again today

Honestly I thought it was your studies but now I know what it is I just feel this is youniverreacting

 

[alriodai]

Bee urself

best advice

forcing urself to do shit u don't wanna do is cagefuel

never force urself to be a slayer when u don't like it, OP shouldn't let any "chads" on this forum shame him for not being a slayer, if you're a regular dude and just wanna a GF and a few ok friends tahts ok

 

[Lonely]

@House Lannister

Ignore all of these guys. No matter what, don't drink. Don't fortnicate. Don't enjoin evil. Fear Allah and ask him to guide you. Study Islam and understand it so you can follow it better.

 

[alriodai]

@House Lannister

Ignore all of these guys. No matter what, don't drink. Don't fortnicate. Don't enjoin evil. Fear Allah and ask him to guide you. Study Islam and understand it so you can follow it better.

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No he gotta do what he WANTS, the problem is that I'ms ure OP don't want to slay in clubs and shit

@House Lannister Don't force yourself ever to slay or do shit you don't wanna do because you see other people do it, remember that shit bro

I promise you won't be able to keep up with them even if you try because they're too much socially ahead of you

 

[Lonely]

No he gotta do what he WANTS, the problem is that I'ms ure OP don't want to slay in clubs and shit

@House Lannister Don't force yourself ever to slay or do shit you don't wanna do because you see other people do it, remember that shit bro

I promise you won't be able to keep up with them even if you try because they're too much socially ahead of you

No he shouldn't do what we wants he should do what Allah wants from him. If his desires align with what Allah wants from him, good. If not, then he has to deal with it and obey Allah even if he doesn't want to or make himself like it. This is our religion.

 

[alriodai]

No he shouldn't do what we wants he should do what Allah wants from him. If his desires align with what Allah wants from him, good. If not, then he has to deal with it and obey Allah even if he doesn't want to or make himself like it. This is our religion.

i understand you brother but if he's not tuned in too much with religion he won't really obey allah tat much trust me i knew ppl like OP

like you can't force ppl to pray and shit for religion if their heart is not with allah you feel me, his heart is not with islam right now and it's ok, you need to understand him and help him more, and not give him orders

this website put so much pressure on your life IRL with the "it's over after your age 24, teen love or its over" balbla bullshit

 

[Lonely]

i understand you brother but if he's not tuned in too much with religion he won't really obey allah tat much trust me i knew ppl like OP

like you can't force ppl to pray and shit for religion if their heart is not with allah you feel me, his heart is not with islam right now and it's ok, you need to understand him and help him more, and not give him orders

this website put so much pressure on your life IRL with the "it's over after your age 24, teen love or its over" balbla bullshit

I'm not ordering him. I'm advising him. Cause if he gives in to this pressure of fitting in then he'll just fall astray from the Right Path. He'll start doing all sorts of evil deeds and may even leave the religion. If he does that he's doomed. He has to save himself. If his heart isn't open to guidance then I get that because that's pretty common but he has to ask for guidance and do good deeds and stay away from evil.

He should go to his parents tbh and ask him to help him find a spouse. But they're probably gonna say something like "BETA YOU MUST EARN 20 MILLION DOLLARS AND YOU CAN ONLY MARRY AT 36"

 

[Deleted member 15067]

best advice

forcing urself to do shit u don't wanna do is cagefuel

never force urself to be a slayer when u don't like it, OP shouldn't let any "chads" on this forum shame him for not being a slayer, if you're a regular dude and just wanna a GF and a few ok friends tahts ok

Yeah man I don’t want to be some slayer club nigga but I feel like I am missing out on shit and will look back when I’m like 26 wishing I got involved

 

[Deleted member 15067]

I'm not ordering him. I'm advising him. Cause if he gives in to this pressure of fitting in then he'll just fall astray from the Right Path. He'll start doing all sorts of evil deeds and may even leave the religion. If he does that he's doomed. He has to save himself. If his heart isn't open to guidance then I get that because that's pretty common but he has to ask for guidance and do good deeds and stay away from evil.

He should go to his parents tbh and ask him to help him find a spouse. But they're probably gonna say something like "BETA YOU MUST EARN 20 MILLION DOLLARS AND YOU CAN ONLY MARRY AT 36"

I see what you mean bro I’m definitely open to guidance because I am not into degeneracy naturally

 

[Lonely]

I see what you mean bro I’m definitely open to guidance because I am not into degeneracy naturally

That's good. You're on the Fitrah.

I would channel your energy into the gym. Try taking up a marital art like MMA too. Join your Unis Muslim club. Go to the mosque.

As for your sexual desires try to find a spouse. Ask Allah to help you. Involve your parents if you can. Try to find a match at the Mosque too. Use Islamic Matchmaking Apps too if you think they're good in the UK. In the meantime lower your gaze and fast.

You got this buddy.

 

[Deleted member 19620]

It’s over for Muslims in west.

 

[Deleted member 19620]

University is the most toxic thing a Muslim can undergo in west.
You go to a big uni, living away from parents and exposed to drugs, alcohol, girls, party/clubbing culture, bf/gf etc…

+ You have second, third generation Muslims who are comfortable doing all the above.
It’s a big test.

 

[thegoat]

how do you LARP about relationships and slays effectively? Have u got made up stories ready to go