ElySioNs
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So my wife and I have been married for a year. We're still relatively young.
Two weeks ago, we were relaxing in bed together naked. I don't want to sound like a creep, but she is my naked wife, so I'll admit I was admiring her body.
She was staring at me closely so I asked her if she was admiring something, gesturing to my dick. My wife laughed and said 'yeah right'. Of course I asked her what she meant, and she replied with 'that thing is ugly as hell' and made a face.
That was a total mood killer so of course I backed off. She tried to backtrack and told me she was talking about all penises, not just mine. She says that 'no woman thinks a penis is sexy, even if they like what it does'. I'm not sure that's true because she used to really enjoy dick pics.
This has really hurt my confidence, especially in the bedroom. Every time she has tried to make an advance on me in the last two weeks, I've heard her voice in my head saying 'that thing is ugly as hell' and it's been enough to make me go soft.
I've tried explaining to my wife how much she hurt me with this one, and she's told me that 'it was just one comment' and that I need to get over myself. Are there any tips anyone has for fixing this?
Two weeks ago, we were relaxing in bed together naked. I don't want to sound like a creep, but she is my naked wife, so I'll admit I was admiring her body.
She was staring at me closely so I asked her if she was admiring something, gesturing to my dick. My wife laughed and said 'yeah right'. Of course I asked her what she meant, and she replied with 'that thing is ugly as hell' and made a face.
That was a total mood killer so of course I backed off. She tried to backtrack and told me she was talking about all penises, not just mine. She says that 'no woman thinks a penis is sexy, even if they like what it does'. I'm not sure that's true because she used to really enjoy dick pics.
This has really hurt my confidence, especially in the bedroom. Every time she has tried to make an advance on me in the last two weeks, I've heard her voice in my head saying 'that thing is ugly as hell' and it's been enough to make me go soft.
I've tried explaining to my wife how much she hurt me with this one, and she's told me that 'it was just one comment' and that I need to get over myself. Are there any tips anyone has for fixing this?