Vantablack
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I just found this sub, didn't know it was a thing on reddit so I just posted this r/sex, but I'd like to share with you guys as well:
We met 'Kyle' 1,5 years ago when originally he was our bull, but he and my wife hit it off pretty fast, they had a lot in common and there was clearly a lot of chemistry between the two. She really liked him a lot, and after us three started hanging out I liked him too. He's a fantastic guy, he really is a great person. Kyle is handsome, in good shape, healthy, has a large penis, good stamina and sexual energy, fucks really good, fun in bed, but this is about more than just sex at this point. He's intelligent, funny, kind, caring, socially aware, aware of people's feelings, motivated, ambitious (he's working towards becoming a high school teacher). Nine months ago, he officially became her boyfriend and he is monogamous to her.
Last month, he moved in with us. We're still getting used to having another person living with us and I suspect it'll take a few more months before he feels fully settled in, but so far it's great. Me and my wife split bills 50/50, so when Kyle came in we agreed it's fair to split everything between the three of us. We've made a few changes around the house, the biggest of which was getting a new, much larger bed for the three of us to sleep in. This took a fair bit of communication between me and my wife. At first I had second thoughts, but after talking it out to the death, I agreed that we have enjoyed our marital bed together for a long time, so it's ok to try something new. Remember, these arrangements don't work without exceptional communication.
Bringing in a third person into our marriage has definitely made things much better with everyone. We were lucky in finding Kyle in that he is not someone looking to take anything away from me/us, but rather adding to the relationship and making things enjoyable for everyone involved. I'm pretty sure my wife is in love with him, she hasn't spoken to me about it (yet) but I know she will. He has made her a lot more confident and outgoing, she pays more attention to her appearance, dress, way she does her hair etc. so it's very refreshing to see.
Remember though, when you bring a third person into your relationship you need to treat them like a human being, not a sexual object. Don't ignore your own feelings either, communicate with your partner. Occasionally I do feel a bit of jealous, but then I remember that us three are a team. Kyle provides my wife with things I cannot do for her, and I provide her with things Kyle can't. She is equally receptive to both of our emotional needs. Polyamory isn't a solution to a broken marriage, it's a way of further strengthening a really good one.
We met 'Kyle' 1,5 years ago when originally he was our bull, but he and my wife hit it off pretty fast, they had a lot in common and there was clearly a lot of chemistry between the two. She really liked him a lot, and after us three started hanging out I liked him too. He's a fantastic guy, he really is a great person. Kyle is handsome, in good shape, healthy, has a large penis, good stamina and sexual energy, fucks really good, fun in bed, but this is about more than just sex at this point. He's intelligent, funny, kind, caring, socially aware, aware of people's feelings, motivated, ambitious (he's working towards becoming a high school teacher). Nine months ago, he officially became her boyfriend and he is monogamous to her.
Last month, he moved in with us. We're still getting used to having another person living with us and I suspect it'll take a few more months before he feels fully settled in, but so far it's great. Me and my wife split bills 50/50, so when Kyle came in we agreed it's fair to split everything between the three of us. We've made a few changes around the house, the biggest of which was getting a new, much larger bed for the three of us to sleep in. This took a fair bit of communication between me and my wife. At first I had second thoughts, but after talking it out to the death, I agreed that we have enjoyed our marital bed together for a long time, so it's ok to try something new. Remember, these arrangements don't work without exceptional communication.
Bringing in a third person into our marriage has definitely made things much better with everyone. We were lucky in finding Kyle in that he is not someone looking to take anything away from me/us, but rather adding to the relationship and making things enjoyable for everyone involved. I'm pretty sure my wife is in love with him, she hasn't spoken to me about it (yet) but I know she will. He has made her a lot more confident and outgoing, she pays more attention to her appearance, dress, way she does her hair etc. so it's very refreshing to see.
Remember though, when you bring a third person into your relationship you need to treat them like a human being, not a sexual object. Don't ignore your own feelings either, communicate with your partner. Occasionally I do feel a bit of jealous, but then I remember that us three are a team. Kyle provides my wife with things I cannot do for her, and I provide her with things Kyle can't. She is equally receptive to both of our emotional needs. Polyamory isn't a solution to a broken marriage, it's a way of further strengthening a really good one.
