Nd curse

[V-Vest]

Is there anyway I can sufficiently larp nt this nd shit is genuinely destroying my life I suck at communicating with people and knowing what they need or what comforts them all of the time I ruined relationships because im "bad" at communicating, someone could be talking about them killing their own mother and id ask what knife did you use im not trying to sound corny or anything its just an example, its basically in everything I think really different, whenever my gf came to me complaining about something id think shes just being dramatic and tell her its not that deep instead of comforting her, any tips on how to larp nt?

 

[Incelforeever]

no retire

 

[halabi]

this making me cringe

 

[V-Vest]

this making me cringe

What did I do bro

 

[Prøphet]

This will sound bluepilled but you are how you are, that’s just the way it is

I relate to this a lot, from my experience this is just your equilibrium, sure you can use pharmacology to remedy it in some situations, but then it will return twice as worse afterward, you can’t outrun your nature

Put your commitment into improving the aspects of yourself that can be changed, and you won’t be held back as much

 

[V-Vest]

This will sound bluepilled but you are how you are, that’s just the way it is

I relate to this a lot, from my experience this is just your equilibrium, sure you can use pharmacology to remedy it in some situations, but then it will return twice as worse afterward, you can’t outrun your nature

Put your commitment into improving the aspects of yourself that can be changed, and you won’t be held back as much

Thank you I've tried many times to act normal to react and try to adapt but it never worked it only does for a short period of time then I become worse than before and id rather stay natural than take medicine my dad is really shitty with communication too my mom can talk to him for 20 minutes straight and he wouldn't hear a single word and then when she calls his name he says huh your talking to me? Im just afraid im gonna end up like him

 

[Prøphet]

Thank you I've tried many times to act normal to react and try to adapt but it never worked it only does for a short period of time then I become worse than before and id rather stay natural than take medicine my dad is really shitty with communication too my mom can talk to him for 20 minutes straight and he wouldn't hear a single word and then when she calls his name he says huh your talking to me? Im just afraid im gonna end up like him

Yep same it’s almost always genetic, yeah you can try and mask it but it’s so exhausting and tiring it’s unrealistic, better off trying to build a life that allows you to thrive the way you are, think around it not above it