need advice, friends crush might like me

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title speaks for itself, basically to understand you need a bit of context.
So im an ultra extrovert, I talk to basically everyone and have a good relationship with most people i know, im talkative and very open to everyone.
My friend is a pretty big introvert, he doesn’t talk to people he doesn’t know often, and is pretty quiet around people he doesn’t know.

Now the problem is that he likes a girl in my class, nothing inherently wrong with that but the thing is that she has a pretty high chance of having a crush on me.

Basic info bout her is that she’s super shy, doesn’t talk to many people and is a really quiet person, she is also pretty.

Now me and her started becoming friend really easily just cuz we’re in the same class, and im actually the only guy in our class she routinely talks to a lot expect for the few she went to school with before this one, and they don’t even talk often.
She’s stalked my snap, ik this cuz we were talking about our drivers license and when i mentioned my birthday, cuz im not 18 yet, she just said ”yea i know” like I’ve never mentioned it to her and he said that she checked out my snap multiple times.
There’s a bunch of other stuff as well but idc enough to put all of them in the post.

Now my friend has developed a crush on her, and the problem is that she might like me, and he doesn’t know. I haven’t mentioned it nor will cuz i don’t wanna shatter his dreams. Like he really likes her.

Honestly i just wanna know what i should do, cuz like i also said, she’s super shy and my friend is a lil introverted. So yea it’s a bit hard to have them in a convo.


Anyways yea if you have any advice drop it.
 
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No need to stress buddy, your friendship is safe.
 
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ignore the foid, ignore the friend and embrace inner inceldom
 
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title speaks for itself, basically to understand you need a bit of context.
So im an ultra extrovert, I talk to basically everyone and have a good relationship with most people i know, im talkative and very open to everyone.
My friend is a pretty big introvert, he doesn’t talk to people he doesn’t know often, and is pretty quiet around people he doesn’t know.

Now the problem is that he likes a girl in my class, nothing inherently wrong with that but the thing is that she has a pretty high chance of having a crush on me.

Basic info bout her is that she’s super shy, doesn’t talk to many people and is a really quiet person, she is also pretty.

Now me and her started becoming friend really easily just cuz we’re in the same class, and im actually the only guy in our class she routinely talks to a lot expect for the few she went to school with before this one, and they don’t even talk often.
She’s stalked my snap, ik this cuz we were talking about our drivers license and when i mentioned my birthday, cuz im not 18 yet, she just said ”yea i know” like I’ve never mentioned it to her and he said that she checked out my snap multiple times.
There’s a bunch of other stuff as well but idc enough to put all of them in the post.

Now my friend has developed a crush on her, and the problem is that she might like me, and he doesn’t know. I haven’t mentioned it nor will cuz i don’t wanna shatter his dreams. Like he really likes her.

Honestly i just wanna know what i should do, cuz like i also said, she’s super shy and my friend is a lil introverted. So yea it’s a bit hard to have them in a convo.


Anyways yea if you have any advice drop it.
so because she talks to you and looked at your snap profile = she might have a crush on you ? please put the other stuff you didn't mention because i feel like both of you are delusional
 
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so because she talks to you and looked at your snap profile = she might have a crush on you ? please put the other stuff you didn't mention because i feel like both of you are delusional
ight, so first of all, it’s just a chance, but a chance i dont rlly like, nothing is like fully set in stone.
anyways, other smaller stuff is, she laughs at all my jokes, even the shitty ones i do on purpose (this can mostly be to js be nice)
in class, multiple times has she moved to sit next to me, we don’t have assigned seats so if we sit on the same row its not unusual that she’ll move to sit next to me, ditching her own female friends
we also have that she talks to me but the thing about that is that some context is needed. she’s from a small school in the country, and now in the school we’re in now, there’s like 5 people from that school in our class now, and those are the people she talks to mostly, execpt me, im basically the only exception to that rule, and yea ik this last one is a bit of a cop out.

that’s it, too tried to think way too much rn
 
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ight, so first of all, it’s just a chance, but a chance i dont rlly like, nothing is like fully set in stone.
anyways, other smaller stuff is, she laughs at all my jokes, even the shitty ones i do on purpose (this can mostly be to js be nice)
in class, multiple times has she moved to sit next to me, we don’t have assigned seats so if we sit on the same row its not unusual that she’ll move to sit next to me, ditching her own female friends
we also have that she talks to me but the thing about that is that some context is needed. she’s from a small school in the country, and now in the school we’re in now, there’s like 5 people from that school in our class now, and those are the people she talks to mostly, execpt me, im basically the only exception to that rule, and yea ik this last one is a bit of a cop out.

that’s it, too tried to think way too much rn
oh ye and btw Future is goated
 
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ight, so first of all, it’s just a chance, but a chance i dont rlly like, nothing is like fully set in stone.
anyways, other smaller stuff is, she laughs at all my jokes, even the shitty ones i do on purpose (this can mostly be to js be nice)
in class, multiple times has she moved to sit next to me, we don’t have assigned seats so if we sit on the same row its not unusual that she’ll move to sit next to me, ditching her own female friends
we also have that she talks to me but the thing about that is that some context is needed. she’s from a small school in the country, and now in the school we’re in now, there’s like 5 people from that school in our class now, and those are the people she talks to mostly, execpt me, im basically the only exception to that rule, and yea ik this last one is a bit of a cop out.

that’s it, too tried to think way too much rn
yeah seems like she's friendly with you , but i think unless she clearly shows interest in you by complimenting your appearance or clearly hinting at wanting more than friendship with you , her liking you is not something to think about honestly , you probably just make her feel comfortable . let your friend shoot his shot and find out himself honestly
 
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yeah seems like she's friendly with you , but i think unless she clearly shows interest in you by complimenting your appearance or clearly hinting at wanting more than friendship with you , her liking you is not something to think about honestly , you probably just make her feel comfortable . let your friend shoot his shot and find out himself honestly
Thx bro, I’ll do that

Appreciate it
 

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