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I lurked the old posts and there's nothing that could help. It seems nobody cares/takes it seriously? Just dye it bro lol fuck.
Don't want to make this into a venting post. But for me this issue is a life or death situation and i mean it. Maybe i wouldn't care so much if it only started now but i fucked myself over and my mother pointed my first grey hair at 22/23. I didn't mind about it until my colleagues(female) shockingly pointed at my hair in a pitiful/sorry way and it literally crashed any remnants of confidence in my self image. I started buzzing my hair since then, and every interaction i had with someone i was always stressing if they will notice my grey hair and point it out, it was the only thing on my mind.
And since then for like 5-6 years i never have taken a focused look at my face completely in the mirror, just can't do it.
I started and till this day do cut my hair even lower 2mm after i started my new job because some of my colleagues pointed out my hair looked kinda weird. I guess i started feeling safe and believed in my cope but i was in for a rude awakening. I tried downloading tinder and badoo. And i got crushed hard. No matches and shit. The only matches i had was a fat chick who ignored me after 2-3 lines, single mom, 37year old lady, 18year old girl and some random foreigner. This woke me up from my delusion as the least time when i had used tinder when i was 24 years old i got tons of matches and woman willing to go on dates. Then my buddy pointed out it was my hair or lack of them.
But i really can't grow my hair out because of the shit i mentioned earlier. Yes you can try and dye them. Bu it seems like a hassle and people will notice i think and point it out and how will you explain this shit.
And the last point. Why i am obsessed with all this. so much. I am still a fucking virgin as a 29year old. It's been long over for me but i wanted to take my last shot of losing virginity before i turn 30, maybe finding a gf even.
So since i'm so desperate i will try any fucking remedies and potions with the slightest 0.0001% chance. Grinded rhino balls, tibetan grass, liver of eagles bring it on.
Or maybe some shampoos to try and mask it in short term?
I personally supplement zinc, and i tried supplementing vitamin B12 and copper combo but i guess it hasn't. So if anyone has any personal anecdotes on what to try and maybe what's pointless to try, please share.
Don't want to make this into a venting post. But for me this issue is a life or death situation and i mean it. Maybe i wouldn't care so much if it only started now but i fucked myself over and my mother pointed my first grey hair at 22/23. I didn't mind about it until my colleagues(female) shockingly pointed at my hair in a pitiful/sorry way and it literally crashed any remnants of confidence in my self image. I started buzzing my hair since then, and every interaction i had with someone i was always stressing if they will notice my grey hair and point it out, it was the only thing on my mind.
And since then for like 5-6 years i never have taken a focused look at my face completely in the mirror, just can't do it.
I started and till this day do cut my hair even lower 2mm after i started my new job because some of my colleagues pointed out my hair looked kinda weird. I guess i started feeling safe and believed in my cope but i was in for a rude awakening. I tried downloading tinder and badoo. And i got crushed hard. No matches and shit. The only matches i had was a fat chick who ignored me after 2-3 lines, single mom, 37year old lady, 18year old girl and some random foreigner. This woke me up from my delusion as the least time when i had used tinder when i was 24 years old i got tons of matches and woman willing to go on dates. Then my buddy pointed out it was my hair or lack of them.
But i really can't grow my hair out because of the shit i mentioned earlier. Yes you can try and dye them. Bu it seems like a hassle and people will notice i think and point it out and how will you explain this shit.
And the last point. Why i am obsessed with all this. so much. I am still a fucking virgin as a 29year old. It's been long over for me but i wanted to take my last shot of losing virginity before i turn 30, maybe finding a gf even.
So since i'm so desperate i will try any fucking remedies and potions with the slightest 0.0001% chance. Grinded rhino balls, tibetan grass, liver of eagles bring it on.
Or maybe some shampoos to try and mask it in short term?
I personally supplement zinc, and i tried supplementing vitamin B12 and copper combo but i guess it hasn't. So if anyone has any personal anecdotes on what to try and maybe what's pointless to try, please share.
