Need help from you guys with a girl I am addicted to

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Me and another friend approached 2 girls outside of a club. One of them was a landwhale and the other slightly chubby but still pretty hot - type bimbo look with fake blue contacts.
We took them with our car to another club to dance/drink, already in the car the cute girl started to talk about how random sex brings no benefits and guys have no idea how to make a girl cum anyways, also she said sex is only hot with a good connection.

After arriving i ignored the cute girl because i assumed no chances with her, then suddenly one drunk girl approached me, I realized that the hot girl was looking at me jealous. When I walked up again to her, we started to make out almost immediately.
Directly from the start she told me that she is only looking for something serious and wants to have children. Also her father wants her to bring home a good guy.
I played cool and only reacted: "hmm the problem is I only want to have a son, no girl". She laughed and told me: We will make such goodlooking child.

When it was time to take her home, her fat friend took her aside and had an intense talk with her. Basically she ruined everything. My girl wanted to come home with me but said: "i am sorry but she is my best friend since 15 years, she can get very agressive and angry". I need to go with her. They both went to the taxi and drove home.
The next day I texted her, she responded but was rather cold in the conversation.
2 days later I wrote her late at night: "can you do phone call?" she answered "yeah i can, but for what?", I ignored that and just called her. She was pretty nice on the phone call that lasted almost 1 hour. Still she didnt ask me one question. Only talked about how she is desperate for a LTR and that in the past she had 2-3 ons ( :D ) and Friends with benefits that ended up with "after a few times sex I fell in love but the guy ghosted".

She also said basically she is not looking for anything and gave up. The only thing would be a serious LTR and having a family. But since she is 24 she is scared to invest in a guy for the next 2 years and then realizing it is not the right one. I took all of this easy and told her she is an overthinker. Also told her that she should take it easy and take things how they come. I tested her a bit and asked if she can cook and some other stuff.
Also I proposed a date that she agreed to.

In the end she flaked my date and for the next 2 weeks we texted back and forth with no effort from her side beside answering my messages within 10-20min.
No sexual talk or anything romantic from her side.

Where did I fuck up? What could I have done better? Maybe calling her and listening to her bullshit was a mistake and made me look beta? Also proposing a date instead of just inviting her home was a mistake? Maybe she never had any interest in me from the beginning? How would you guys behave with a girl that said she has enough from sex and ons?
 
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Please help, will give looksmax advice in return via DM
 
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DNRD
 
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bump
 
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Ill answer
Give me advice
 
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The problem is the girl, and her fucking fat ass fríend, just like the memes, as she is searching for something serious, be everything women want, masculine, muscles, deep voice, good hair, dress well, give princess treatment, invite her on dates, have the initiative(propose things to do like dates, but also other things), be her best friend, pretty much what every girl wants but onle few of them rlly deserve
 
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The problem is the girl, and her fucking fat ass fríend, just like the memes, as she is searching for something serious, be everything women want, masculine, muscles, deep voice, good hair, dress well, give princess treatment, invite her on dates, have the initiative(propose things to do like dates, but also other things), be her best friend, pretty much what every girl wants but onle few of them rlly deserve
Ik its hard to talk with someone that doesnt put effort in, by doing the other things she might change, maybe she is just like that after all
 
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Maybe when she told you about kids or her getting ghosted you could have said i can change that or some shit like that
 
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Im not a very good person to ask this to because im young but i need the looksmaxxing advice
 
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You could send her reels, and overall just develop a better connection with her
 
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And talk to her, all the time, 24/7
 
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And talk to her, all the time, 24/7
Maybe not that much but talk to her a lot, my ex and i stoped working because she talked more with MY friends than with me
 
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ngl I think you came off being too casual and stuff, like if the girl wants a LTR tell her you can give her that, instead you told her she's overthinking and dismissed her very valid concerns about guys just lusting over women
 
ngl I think you came off being too casual and stuff, like if the girl wants a LTR tell her you can give her that, instead you told her she's overthinking and dismissed her very valid concerns about guys just lusting over women
I listened to redpill advice about never showing feelings and always keeping it vague to be a challenge. In theory always the girl should push for a ltr.
Basically the girl will get turned off, if she feels that you totally want her and that you are ready to commit.
 
I listened to redpill advice about never showing feelings and always keeping it vague to be a challenge. In theory always the girl should push for a ltr.
Basically the girl will get turned off, if she feels that you totally want her and that you are ready to commit.
redpilled advice is fucking retarded and doesn't account for the fact that not all women are the same. treat her like a dumb bitch and she'll act like one or leave. this latter is definitely what occurred, ALWAYS BE HONEST WITH PEOPLE! redpill community is good advice if you're trying to fuck low-quality women, not trying to build a genuine relationship.
 
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can’t turn a hoe into a housewife
 
IF A GIRL IS NOT ASKING YOU QUESTIONS BACK - SHE HAS ABSOLUTE ZERO INTENTION OF HAVING SEX WITH YOU. SHE IS NOT INTERESTED AND JUST USING YOU FOR VALIDATION.
 
IF A GIRL IS NOT ASKING YOU QUESTIONS BACK - SHE HAS ABSOLUTE ZERO INTENTION OF HAVING SEX WITH YOU. SHE IS NOT INTERESTED AND JUST USING YOU FOR VALIDATION.
Yeah makes sense. But I really dont understand why she was making out with me and also wanting to go home to my place...
Would she do this also with an ugly guy??
 
Yeah makes sense. But I really dont understand why she was making out with me and also wanting to go home to my place...
Would she do this also with an ugly guy??
There prolly be two reasons one shes a hoe two basically women are some emotional creatures all Your main mistake was to not validate her feelings and also that whale could be a reason too If you would have given her some dark triad treatment instead of begging her attention like a faggot then it would have been better
She felt that high in the club because of jealousy because you were a chad in her eyes then you fucking became a degenerate faggot begging for her attention and then she sensed your faggot desperate energy and she lost interest
And also if she doesnt intiate any convo for now

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