Need of love

[jflcope67]

I feel the need for love, yet I don’t want to seem needy. Sometimes I ldar crying myself to sleep. I haven’t felt the warmth of a hug in a while, and I barely get any messages from people I’m “close” with.
Having to reach out first makes me feel like a faggot, yet I keep doing it.

I get jealous when my girlfriend does certain things, yet I don’t have the courage to speak up. Any advice?

I’m not seeking for attention, need genuine answers

 

[Frenulum]

watch this

 

[nobodylovesme]

It's fine to feel that way, some people need more reassurance to be content. Try to communicate those feelings with your gf; otherwise, it'll just torment you

yet I don’t have the courage to speak up

You have to. Or you may need to find a new girlfriend who naturally makes you feel loved.

 

[jflcope67]

Try to communicate those feelings with your gf

how would you do it without seeming needy or insecure

 

[nobodylovesme]

how would you do it without seeming needy or insecure

You just frame it not as a complaint but just expressing your needs. Just saying it calmly that you're feeling more disconnected and how you'd like more affection, etc.

That doesn't sound insecure or needy at all. Just listing your basic needs.

 

[Frenulum]

I get jealous when my girlfriend does certain things, yet I don’t have the courage to speak up. Any advice?

Which things

 

[jflcope67]

Which things

Have a lot of male friends, contact with alot of males, different when we speak rather when shes holding a conversation with her male friends, say extremely personal things to them.

 

[jflcope67]

You just frame it not as a complaint but just expressing your needs. Just saying it calmly that you're feeling more disconnected and how you'd like more affection, etc.

That doesn't sound insecure or needy at all. Just listing your basic needs.

in person or over text

 

[nobodylovesme]

in person or over text

in person so it feels more genuine. You kinda want to do all important conversations in person, as a general tip

 

[jflcope67]

in person so it feels more genuine. You kinda want to do all important conversations in person, as a general tip

Thanks