luuk
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Feel like my own experiences seem to increasingly affirm a more redpilled view of the sexual market.
Obviously the development of charisma is contingent on being at least decent looking and having a good physical presence and the right childhood environment but the modern interpretation of the BP seems to be just "ascend to HTN+ and women will just throw themselves at you" , and that you'll have no success below like HMTN, and I see that continually proven wrong. I am of course not denying lookism in the slightest, but rather suggesting that there are other, harder to empiricalise ideas that are holding us back when competing with normies we objectively mog.
The "looks over all" brutality is more prevalent when she only has static visuals to work with like on dating apps, but other, often intangible cues clearly affect things in the flesh. We are incredibly adept pattern-seeking creatures and so our brains pick up on things we can't describe or consciously understand, especially in our mate selection. A spergy chadlite can still make women dry up and I've known plenty of slimy yet charismatic LTNs batting way out of their league and have been left wondering what the hell their trick is.
Of course, it is not "personality"- she is not attracted by what music you like or your MBTI, nor is it "character", as we can see from chadfishing experiments and the rampant hybristophillia they display.
"Charisma" is probably the best term for this, and it's not some hidden "inner light" that some people are just born with, although I'm sure genetic and deterministic factors play a major role here. Being neurodivergent is the OPPOSITE of being charismatic- your cues are all off, you misread social situations and the way you carry yourself and move is subtly different. Effectively, your existence inherently gives them the 'ick'.
I plan to perform some highly extensive research into the subject (far beyond just posture or tonality or "game") and I will report back my findings. I think being able to truly understand how to effectively mimic/adopt charisma will probably have a much higher ROI than any other realistic looksmaxx I can do at this point.
Obviously the development of charisma is contingent on being at least decent looking and having a good physical presence and the right childhood environment but the modern interpretation of the BP seems to be just "ascend to HTN+ and women will just throw themselves at you" , and that you'll have no success below like HMTN, and I see that continually proven wrong. I am of course not denying lookism in the slightest, but rather suggesting that there are other, harder to empiricalise ideas that are holding us back when competing with normies we objectively mog.
The "looks over all" brutality is more prevalent when she only has static visuals to work with like on dating apps, but other, often intangible cues clearly affect things in the flesh. We are incredibly adept pattern-seeking creatures and so our brains pick up on things we can't describe or consciously understand, especially in our mate selection. A spergy chadlite can still make women dry up and I've known plenty of slimy yet charismatic LTNs batting way out of their league and have been left wondering what the hell their trick is.
Of course, it is not "personality"- she is not attracted by what music you like or your MBTI, nor is it "character", as we can see from chadfishing experiments and the rampant hybristophillia they display.
"Charisma" is probably the best term for this, and it's not some hidden "inner light" that some people are just born with, although I'm sure genetic and deterministic factors play a major role here. Being neurodivergent is the OPPOSITE of being charismatic- your cues are all off, you misread social situations and the way you carry yourself and move is subtly different. Effectively, your existence inherently gives them the 'ick'.
I plan to perform some highly extensive research into the subject (far beyond just posture or tonality or "game") and I will report back my findings. I think being able to truly understand how to effectively mimic/adopt charisma will probably have a much higher ROI than any other realistic looksmaxx I can do at this point.
