Neurodivergence is a facecard wasted

[mefrom]

Im autisitic and i have bad social anxiety with girls, im pretty good looking and i know that because i get attention from girls from time to time, i've had a girl obsess over me simply because of my looks, and i've had girls reach out to my own friends by means of getting my snapchat etc. I've recently started drinking and going out. Last week i was out with some friends, i was fairly drunk and high on weed at the same time (which also nerfed my social abilities) and this girls approaches me talking about how handsome i am, she claimed i could've been a model and was basically complementing me like nothing i've ever heard. But my autistic and socially anxious ass cant handle taking all this so i end up ending the convo and walking back to my friends. After the first interaction she sees me again and gets ahold of me to talk more. She basically does some small talk and asks me if im "looking for someone" obviously asking me if im looking for girls, which my autistic ass didn't understand and i basically rejected her. Im definetly not crossfading at the club again, it partially made me stupid. But my point is, if you are autistic enough like me, it doesn't matter how good you look, because this social anxiety is killing me, i am 20 and i haven't done anything with a girl despite being hit on by numerous girls. A lot of people in this community falsely claim being autistic and underestimate how much of a nerf it actually is, because i am literally incapable of approaching a girl by myself, and the times where i get approached, i can't manage not to end it early because i can't handle interracting with girls. It makes me so uncomfortable and makes me lose hope. Again i was high on weed in this example as i said but i still feel almost as horrible every other time.

Tldr: as a REAL autist with social anxiety, i can't even get with a single girl even though i look good to where they approach me first.

 

[2s2f]

you got the good end of the stick boyo

 

[Iota]

DNR

 

[ilovearcherqueen]

Im autisitic and i have bad social anxiety with girls, im pretty good looking and i know that because i get attention from girls from time to time, i've had a girl obsess over me simply because of my looks, and i've had girls reach out to my own friends by means of getting my snapchat etc. I've recently started drinking and going out. Last week i was out with some friends, i was fairly drunk and high on weed at the same time (which also nerfed my social abilities) and this girls approaches me talking about how handsome i am, she claimed i could've been a model and was basically complementing me like nothing i've ever heard. But my autistic and socially anxious ass cant handle taking all this so i end up ending the convo and walking back to my friends. After the first interaction she sees me again and gets ahold of me to talk more. She basically does some small talk and asks me if im "looking for someone" obviously asking me if im looking for girls, which my autistic ass didn't understand and i basically rejected her. Im definetly not crossfading at the club again, it partially made me stupid. But my point is, if you are autistic enough like me, it doesn't matter how good you look, because this social anxiety is killing me, i am 20 and i haven't done anything with a girl despite being hit on by numerous girls. A lot of people in this community falsely claim being autistic and underestimate how much of a nerf it actually is, because i am literally incapable of approaching a girl by myself, and the times where i get approached, i can't manage not to end it early because i can't handle interracting with girls. It makes me so uncomfortable and makes me lose hope. Again i was high on weed in this example as i said but i still feel almost as horrible every other time.

Tldr: as a REAL autist with social anxiety, i can't even get with a single girl even though i look good to where they approach me first.

Clavs alt account

 

[mefrom]

you got the good end of the stick boyo

Sure. But people dont really know how hard it is being ND. It holds me back in so many ways. Im tired of people throwing the term around like its nothing. Just because you're into a niche internet thing doesn't mean you're autistic yk

 

[mefrom]

DNR

Imagine spamming posts just to try and gain xp on a retarded forum. Thanks for the bump retard

 

[Dr Sonne]

Im autisitic and i have bad social anxiety with girls, im pretty good looking and i know that because i get attention from girls from time to time, i've had a girl obsess over me simply because of my looks, and i've had girls reach out to my own friends by means of getting my snapchat etc. I've recently started drinking and going out. Last week i was out with some friends, i was fairly drunk and high on weed at the same time (which also nerfed my social abilities) and this girls approaches me talking about how handsome i am, she claimed i could've been a model and was basically complementing me like nothing i've ever heard. But my autistic and socially anxious ass cant handle taking all this so i end up ending the convo and walking back to my friends. After the first interaction she sees me again and gets ahold of me to talk more. She basically does some small talk and asks me if im "looking for someone" obviously asking me if im looking for girls, which my autistic ass didn't understand and i basically rejected her. Im definetly not crossfading at the club again, it partially made me stupid. But my point is, if you are autistic enough like me, it doesn't matter how good you look, because this social anxiety is killing me, i am 20 and i haven't done anything with a girl despite being hit on by numerous girls. A lot of people in this community falsely claim being autistic and underestimate how much of a nerf it actually is, because i am literally incapable of approaching a girl by myself, and the times where i get approached, i can't manage not to end it early because i can't handle interracting with girls. It makes me so uncomfortable and makes me lose hope. Again i was high on weed in this example as i said but i still feel almost as horrible every other time.

Tldr: as a REAL autist with social anxiety, i can't even get with a single girl even though i look good to where they approach me first.

ok

 

[Iota]

Imagine spamming posts just to try and gain xp on a retarded forum. Thanks for the bump retard

DNR DNR

 

[Iota]

DNR

 

[Prøphet]

Im sorry because it is definitely brutal to be able to get so close and fail every time, but it’s pretty difficult to feel bad if you’re good looking enough to have people literally approaching you multiple times despite your personality JFL. You have it better than 99% of the forum tbh just let your face do the work and the positive reinforcement should fix things fairly easy

 

[mefrom]

Im sorry because it is definitely brutal to be able to get so close and fail every time, but it’s pretty difficult to feel bad if you’re good looking enough to have people literally approaching you multiple times despite your personality JFL. You have it better than 99% of the forum tbh just let your face do the work and the positive reinforcement should fix things fairly easy

Thanks im fully aware that im better off than most people ON THIS FORUM. But at the end of the day im 20 years old and still cant manage to get with girls which is very late compared to the average normie which looks way worse than me. At the end of the day people dont realise how hard it is actually being autisitc.

 

[2s2f]

Sure. But people dont really know how hard it is being ND. It holds me back in so many ways. Im tired of people throwing the term around like its nothing. Just because you're into a niche internet thing doesn't mean you're autistic yk

im nd bro I know how bad it is

 

[idnap]

Im autisitic and i have bad social anxiety with girls, im pretty good looking and i know that because i get attention from girls from time to time, i've had a girl obsess over me simply because of my looks, and i've had girls reach out to my own friends by means of getting my snapchat etc. I've recently started drinking and going out. Last week i was out with some friends, i was fairly drunk and high on weed at the same time (which also nerfed my social abilities) and this girls approaches me talking about how handsome i am, she claimed i could've been a model and was basically complementing me like nothing i've ever heard. But my autistic and socially anxious ass cant handle taking all this so i end up ending the convo and walking back to my friends. After the first interaction she sees me again and gets ahold of me to talk more. She basically does some small talk and asks me if im "looking for someone" obviously asking me if im looking for girls, which my autistic ass didn't understand and i basically rejected her. Im definetly not crossfading at the club again, it partially made me stupid. But my point is, if you are autistic enough like me, it doesn't matter how good you look, because this social anxiety is killing me, i am 20 and i haven't done anything with a girl despite being hit on by numerous girls. A lot of people in this community falsely claim being autistic and underestimate how much of a nerf it actually is, because i am literally incapable of approaching a girl by myself, and the times where i get approached, i can't manage not to end it early because i can't handle interracting with girls. It makes me so uncomfortable and makes me lose hope. Again i was high on weed in this example as i said but i still feel almost as horrible every other time.

Tldr: as a REAL autist with social anxiety, i can't even get with a single girl even though i look good to where they approach me first.

Hope u get that shit figured out

 

[4040gate]

Im autisitic and i have bad social anxiety with girls, im pretty good looking and i know that because i get attention from girls from time to time, i've had a girl obsess over me simply because of my looks, and i've had girls reach out to my own friends by means of getting my snapchat etc. I've recently started drinking and going out. Last week i was out with some friends, i was fairly drunk and high on weed at the same time (which also nerfed my social abilities) and this girls approaches me talking about how handsome i am, she claimed i could've been a model and was basically complementing me like nothing i've ever heard. But my autistic and socially anxious ass cant handle taking all this so i end up ending the convo and walking back to my friends. After the first interaction she sees me again and gets ahold of me to talk more. She basically does some small talk and asks me if im "looking for someone" obviously asking me if im looking for girls, which my autistic ass didn't understand and i basically rejected her. Im definetly not crossfading at the club again, it partially made me stupid. But my point is, if you are autistic enough like me, it doesn't matter how good you look, because this social anxiety is killing me, i am 20 and i haven't done anything with a girl despite being hit on by numerous girls. A lot of people in this community falsely claim being autistic and underestimate how much of a nerf it actually is, because i am literally incapable of approaching a girl by myself, and the times where i get approached, i can't manage not to end it early because i can't handle interracting with girls. It makes me so uncomfortable and makes me lose hope. Again i was high on weed in this example as i said but i still feel almost as horrible every other time.

Tldr: as a REAL autist with social anxiety, i can't even get with a single girl even though i look good to where they approach me first.

This is like when a celebrity is complaining to the average person about how hard their life is jfl

 

[mefrom]

im nd bro I know how bad it is

 

[mefrom]

This is like when a celebrity is complaining to the average person about how hard their life is jfl

Stop putting people on a pedestal

 

[mefrom]

Hope u get that shit figured out

Thanks man im working on it. Gonna ascend both physically and neurodivergently soon and bag that same girl hopefull. Best of luck to you aswell

 

[oculus]

Im autisitic and i have bad social anxiety with girls, im pretty good looking and i know that because i get attention from girls from time to time, i've had a girl obsess over me simply because of my looks, and i've had girls reach out to my own friends by means of getting my snapchat etc. I've recently started drinking and going out. Last week i was out with some friends, i was fairly drunk and high on weed at the same time (which also nerfed my social abilities) and this girls approaches me talking about how handsome i am, she claimed i could've been a model and was basically complementing me like nothing i've ever heard. But my autistic and socially anxious ass cant handle taking all this so i end up ending the convo and walking back to my friends. After the first interaction she sees me again and gets ahold of me to talk more. She basically does some small talk and asks me if im "looking for someone" obviously asking me if im looking for girls, which my autistic ass didn't understand and i basically rejected her. Im definetly not crossfading at the club again, it partially made me stupid. But my point is, if you are autistic enough like me, it doesn't matter how good you look, because this social anxiety is killing me, i am 20 and i haven't done anything with a girl despite being hit on by numerous girls. A lot of people in this community falsely claim being autistic and underestimate how much of a nerf it actually is, because i am literally incapable of approaching a girl by myself, and the times where i get approached, i can't manage not to end it early because i can't handle interracting with girls. It makes me so uncomfortable and makes me lose hope. Again i was high on weed in this example as i said but i still feel almost as horrible every other time.

Tldr: as a REAL autist with social anxiety, i can't even get with a single girl even though i look good to where they approach me first.

DNRASM

 

[buddhistking]

 

[UMatter]

at least u look good

 

[AryanSchizo]

Thanks im fully aware that im better off than most people ON THIS FORUM. But at the end of the day im 20 years old and still cant manage to get with girls which is very late compared to the average normie which looks way worse than me. At the end of the day people dont realise how hard it is actually being autisitc.

i’m a 25 year old autist, it doesn’t get any better . the way our brain is wired is just unfortunate

 

[VeryFuglyNiyguhs]

"But face > all".

Even Cavill and Momoa would be FUCKED if they had ASD, but nobody is willing to admit this.

 

[mefrom]

i’m a 25 year old autist, it doesn’t get any better . the way our brain is wired is just unfortunate

I feel you man

 

[mefrom]

"But face > all".

Even Cavill and Momoa would be FUCKED if they had ASD, but nobody is willing to admit this.

I agree with you, face is above all but still people dont realise how hard it is to get with girls as an autist even if you mog. Its like a mental block stuck in your mind its torture really.

 

[Iota]

Thanks im fully aware that im better off than most people ON THIS FORUM. But at the end of the day im 20 years old and still cant manage to get with girls which is very late compared to the average normie which looks way worse than me. At the end of the day people dont realise how hard it is actually being autisitc.

do you take medication brother?

 

[satangoy]

Im autisitic and i have bad social anxiety with girls, im pretty good looking and i know that because i get attention from girls from time to time, i've had a girl obsess over me simply because of my looks, and i've had girls reach out to my own friends by means of getting my snapchat etc. I've recently started drinking and going out. Last week i was out with some friends, i was fairly drunk and high on weed at the same time (which also nerfed my social abilities) and this girls approaches me talking about how handsome i am, she claimed i could've been a model and was basically complementing me like nothing i've ever heard. But my autistic and socially anxious ass cant handle taking all this so i end up ending the convo and walking back to my friends. After the first interaction she sees me again and gets ahold of me to talk more. She basically does some small talk and asks me if im "looking for someone" obviously asking me if im looking for girls, which my autistic ass didn't understand and i basically rejected her. Im definetly not crossfading at the club again, it partially made me stupid. But my point is, if you are autistic enough like me, it doesn't matter how good you look, because this social anxiety is killing me, i am 20 and i haven't done anything with a girl despite being hit on by numerous girls. A lot of people in this community falsely claim being autistic and underestimate how much of a nerf it actually is, because i am literally incapable of approaching a girl by myself, and the times where i get approached, i can't manage not to end it early because i can't handle interracting with girls. It makes me so uncomfortable and makes me lose hope. Again i was high on weed in this example as i said but i still feel almost as horrible every other time.

Tldr: as a REAL autist with social anxiety, i can't even get with a single girl even though i look good to where they approach me first.

mirin that u get approached first, but I've had social anxiety issues too get ur hands on some pregab and use 300 mg an hour before a big event and u should be fine

 

[satangoy]

do you take medication brother?

exactly pharma is a life changing aspect

 

[XazaqazaX]

Ldar ramblings

 

[SoundnVision]

Just whip out your dick bro if you're actually that good-looking it won't matter

 

[mefrom]

do you take medication brother?

no, i dont take medication. im not even diagnosed with any ND yet. i recently spoke with my doctor about autism and he wants me to go to some specialist, it takes a while for it all tho.

 

[mefrom]

mirin that u get approached first, but I've had social anxiety issues too get ur hands on some pregab and use 300 mg an hour before a big event and u should be fine

thanks. i started using alcohol and it helps with the social anxiety around girls but not nearly enough. I know how to get my hands on pregab as i've ordered cannabis products off the dark web numerous times. but idk about the whole pregab thing, im scared i'll end up as a junkie. i also wanna drink, can you even mix alcohol and pregab?

 

[mefrom]

Just whip out your dick bro if you're actually that good-looking it won't matter

you're overlooking the entire problem

 

[SoundnVision]

you're overlooking the entire problem

Not really bro

 

[satangoy]

thanks. i started using alcohol and it helps with the social anxiety around girls but not nearly enough. I know how to get my hands on pregab as i've ordered cannabis products off the dark web numerous times. but idk about the whole pregab thing, im scared i'll end up as a junkie. i also wanna drink, can you even mix alcohol and pregab?

absolutely don't mix pregab with alc that's all I can say but it's worth buying and it's not even hard to get prescribed

 

[mefrom]

absolutely don't mix pregab with alc that's all I can say but it's worth buying and it's not even hard to get prescribed

What works better between the two? I also dont wanna avoid to drink when going out

 

[satangoy]

What works better between the two? I also dont wanna avoid to drink when going out

u can drink just don't get drunk me personally i prefer i high dose of pregab since it makes me low inhib while being sober and just not fucking drunk , u can take a couple of sips etc just don't get drunk

 

[mefrom]

u can drink just don't get drunk me personally i prefer i high dose of pregab since it makes me low inhib while being sober and just not fucking drunk , u can take a couple of sips etc just don't get drunk

Alright thanks

 

[satangoy]

Alright thanks

REP MY SHITTT BRAHH

 

[mogmypsl999]

What works better between the two? I also dont wanna avoid to drink when going out

dont do any pregab its heavy addicting.

Im autisitic and i have bad social anxiety with girls, im pretty good looking and i know that because i get attention from girls from time to time, i've had a girl obsess over me simply because of my looks, and i've had girls reach out to my own friends by means of getting my snapchat etc. I've recently started drinking and going out. Last week i was out with some friends, i was fairly drunk and high on weed at the same time (which also nerfed my social abilities) and this girls approaches me talking about how handsome i am, she claimed i could've been a model and was basically complementing me like nothing i've ever heard. But my autistic and socially anxious ass cant handle taking all this so i end up ending the convo and walking back to my friends. After the first interaction she sees me again and gets ahold of me to talk more. She basically does some small talk and asks me if im "looking for someone" obviously asking me if im looking for girls, which my autistic ass didn't understand and i basically rejected her. Im definetly not crossfading at the club again, it partially made me stupid. But my point is, if you are autistic enough like me, it doesn't matter how good you look, because this social anxiety is killing me, i am 20 and i haven't done anything with a girl despite being hit on by numerous girls. A lot of people in this community falsely claim being autistic and underestimate how much of a nerf it actually is, because i am literally incapable of approaching a girl by myself, and the times where i get approached, i can't manage not to end it early because i can't handle interracting with girls. It makes me so uncomfortable and makes me lose hope. Again i was high on weed in this example as i said but i still feel almost as horrible every other time.

Tldr: as a REAL autist with social anxiety, i can't even get with a single girl even though i look good to where they approach me first.

we live the same life btw, just expierienced this on new years eve. we should deffo charismamax, this is a true learnable skill. ND has a lot of benefits and a lot of curses that can be fixed just like i did with my physique, i love to change things from 0 and become the best version, idc what it takes. i dont ever want to feel insecure again when a girl approaches me.

 

[Gilly998]

Yes it is unfortunate, I am 23 years old and have never had a girlfriend, im am above average in most areas (6'1, perfectly straight white teeth, dark eyebrows, long lashes, great eye area, weak jaw, broken nose), last year was the first time i kissed a girl and that was while extremely drunk at a club, I get a decent amount of likes on dating apps and IOIs at clubs, however my messages are so autistic that it scares them off on dating apps and when I talk to girls in person it also scares them off, the 2nd most recent date I went on I accidently said only fun facts the entire time, this was a multi hour date and I purely only said fun facts the entire time and couldnt think of anything else to talk about, obviously there was no second date, some guys I know have sat me down and said im the most autistic person they have seen and to not talk to a girl, I try to and like to consider myself not autistic but at this point theres too many obvious signs

 

[follicel]

stop blaming ur autism that's unfortunate tho brootal

 

[barafa]

now imagine being autistic and ugly

 

[foidgroper83]

DNRD.​

However as a person with high functioning Autism,
I can't give you definitive answer to that. Although there's a piece of advice i can give you, My go to social trick is go up to a girl and say something like "hey you look like the type of girl to be obedient" usually they will run away, however when they do I chase them while screaming come here and when I catch up to them I make sure there's no one around watching, then I knock them out and take them somewhere secluded and rape them.

 

[foidgroper83]

now imagine being autistic and ugly

pretty much my life lmao i got literal deformities like scoliosis which causes my face to be lopsided, also have pectus excavatum which is a hole in my chest, autism, adhd, my future doesnt look so bright

 

[iwantuinsideme]

going to be straight up with you and not a dick as you say you've got a mental condition

i have a serious piece of advice for you. completely cereal.

go to thailand. go to bangkok. and pattaya. smash a bunch of girls. get a room. they walk around everywhere and many are very attractive. it would boggle your mind. it's not expensive at all when you're there. you can go for a week, sleep with 10 girls for 750 usd or something depending.

it WIILL get rid of your social anxiety around women to some extent and will cure the confidence issue