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ULLORD101
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Hello,
I know most of you are pretty young and might respond like animals, but try to keep these tips in mind.
I'm pretty convinced that if you're at least a 4/10, you can get a girlfriend. Why? Because it's not that hard if you seriously work on your conversation skills — not the fake "pickup artist" stuff you see on TV, but the real ability to have deep, engaging conversations with a girl or even a friend, for hours. Conversations where it doesn't feel forced, where natural silences give both people space to breathe.
Personally, I shine in weird 1-on-1 convos. My friend, who also pulls girls, is amazing in group convos — especially when there are three people. If you're like him, then you should bring a friend and create those situations on purpose.
If I were you and had zero social skills, I’d train with a close friend — just talk about anything, without any distractions (no games, no movies). Try joining group chats on Discord (3–4 people) and practice speaking there.
Also, study what women like. In K-dramas, male characters are written in a specific way. Same with female-oriented manhwas. Their taste is literally in front of us — the way they dress, act, speak. Don’t assume women wouldn’t like in real life what they consume in fiction. Think for two seconds: are they fantasizing about incels, or do they like the vibe of Gojo Satoru?
If you're neurotypical, that's actually great — you can go all in on this. Work on your go-to lines, interesting conversation topics, and once you're able to hold a good connection, you can make your move — ideally during her ovulation window, or even before.
I'd also recommend checking out John Zerka's streams. It's long, but the dude has seen it all.
With enough training, your vibe will feel more natural, and people can feel that.
If you're a 4/10 and you check all the boxes — style, conversation, confidence, presence — you might realistically pull a 5 or 6, and with luck (and good timing), maybe even shock the world with an 8.
lil advice, you can even create thing, like having a bracelet, saying it done by ur dead grandma, you talk about how people don't value things done by older people etc. (here you show vulnerability and someone who has value but not weakness )
If you need any ressources such as Kdrama, anime or redpill stream, ask me in DM.
I know most of you are pretty young and might respond like animals, but try to keep these tips in mind.
I'm pretty convinced that if you're at least a 4/10, you can get a girlfriend. Why? Because it's not that hard if you seriously work on your conversation skills — not the fake "pickup artist" stuff you see on TV, but the real ability to have deep, engaging conversations with a girl or even a friend, for hours. Conversations where it doesn't feel forced, where natural silences give both people space to breathe.
Personally, I shine in weird 1-on-1 convos. My friend, who also pulls girls, is amazing in group convos — especially when there are three people. If you're like him, then you should bring a friend and create those situations on purpose.
If I were you and had zero social skills, I’d train with a close friend — just talk about anything, without any distractions (no games, no movies). Try joining group chats on Discord (3–4 people) and practice speaking there.
Also, study what women like. In K-dramas, male characters are written in a specific way. Same with female-oriented manhwas. Their taste is literally in front of us — the way they dress, act, speak. Don’t assume women wouldn’t like in real life what they consume in fiction. Think for two seconds: are they fantasizing about incels, or do they like the vibe of Gojo Satoru?
If you're neurotypical, that's actually great — you can go all in on this. Work on your go-to lines, interesting conversation topics, and once you're able to hold a good connection, you can make your move — ideally during her ovulation window, or even before.
I'd also recommend checking out John Zerka's streams. It's long, but the dude has seen it all.
With enough training, your vibe will feel more natural, and people can feel that.
If you're a 4/10 and you check all the boxes — style, conversation, confidence, presence — you might realistically pull a 5 or 6, and with luck (and good timing), maybe even shock the world with an 8.
lil advice, you can even create thing, like having a bracelet, saying it done by ur dead grandma, you talk about how people don't value things done by older people etc. (here you show vulnerability and someone who has value but not weakness )
If you need any ressources such as Kdrama, anime or redpill stream, ask me in DM.
