"NEver chase woMEn" Advice?

[bananacoffee]

Redpill youtubers often give the advice of "Never chase Women or they will Run Away"

Instead a man should "Focus on his Purpose" and "Focus on his life goals: work, gym, study"

How does that make sense? WHY would a girl give a fuck about you if you ignore her?

She will just go fuck chad who is giving her attention LOL

So whats the real advice? u chase in the beginning then pull back?

 

[bananacoffee]

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[nathan]

redpill is a cult of failed normies.
self improve for 10 years bro
focus on your purpose bro
wait 30 minutes to respond to her text bro

 

[$Abomination]

Well the idea is that you'll get rich and aesthetic and become more attractive. Ignoring women will always only lower your chances no matter what. But from a practical standpoint it may be better to money and looks max first.

 

[bananacoffee]

redpill is a cult of failed normies.
self improve for 10 years bro
focus on your purpose bro
wait 30 minutes to respond to her text bro

Well the idea is that you'll get rich and aesthetic and become more attractive. Ignoring women will always only lower your chances no matter what. But from a practical standpoint it may be better to money and looks max first.

whats the solution? to looksmax and chase at same time?

 

[uksucks]

Life is literally a conspiracy. Probably my whole life is a dream and nkr even real. Only thigh that makes sense at this point

 

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[cooldude1231]

Chase and bark at them at night

 

[Brus Wane]

Redpill youtubers often give the advice of "Never chase Women or they will Run Away"

Instead a man should "Focus on his Purpose" and "Focus on his life goals: work, gym, study"

How does that make sense? WHY would a girl give a fuck about you if you ignore her?

She will just go fuck chad who is giving her attention LOL

So whats the real advice? u chase in the beginning then pull back?

1. No one said to ignore them. What gave you that idea?

2. They mean don't "chase" them in the autistic and degrading way that simps do - send them money, blow up their DMs with hearts, orbitermaxx and follow them 24/7 ... that type of shit
Showing an "acceptable" amount of interest is fine.

3. The "purpose" and "life goals" thing here refers to getting really rich and popular (cope because the redpill guys make it sound so easy and doable) but if you do pull it off, young pretty women will gravitate towards you (in theory) if youre in their circle and appear to be approachable.

 

[bananacoffee]

1. No one said to ignore them. What gave you that idea?

2. They mean don't "chase" them in the autistic and degrading way that simps do - send them money, blow up their DMs with hearts, orbitermaxx and follow them 24/7 ... that type of shit
Showing an "acceptable" amount of interest is fine.

3. The "purpose" and "life goals" thing here refers to getting really rich and popular (cope because the redpill guys make it sound so easy and doable) but if you do pull it off, young pretty women will gravitate towards you (in theory) if youre in their circle and appear to be approachable.

so what is the proper balance? ask them out once and if they say no/dont reply, then drop them?

i guess thats the proper way

 

[Brus Wane]

so what is the proper balance? ask them out once and if they say no/dont reply, then drop them?

i guess thats the proper way

There is no good answer to that.

Its pretty much like playing poker, buying stocks or sports betting.

You're playing a game that involves incomplete information and all you can do is try to play the odds while preventing yourself from getting burned.

Your decision should be based on her looks, your looks, her personality, your current wealth and social standing and other factors you deem relevant in the moment, eg. your competition, your other options if any etc

 

[Maalik]

Well the idea is that you'll get rich and aesthetic and become more attractive. Ignoring women will always only lower your chances no matter what. But from a practical standpoint it may be better to money and looks max first.

we're not immortal man
we have to do everything at the same time. can't be careless about aesthetics. can't become a social hermit. can't be poorcel.

Just do everything in moderation theory

 

[$Abomination]

we're not immortal man
we have to do everything at the same time. can't be careless about aesthetics. can't become a social hermit. can't be poorcel.

Just do everything in moderation theory

It depends on your situation how to go about it.

But I think if you're at zero in everything... Looks, money, and status... Your best bet is to put a lot more priority in moneymaxxing first just because being a loser in M seriously limits your ability to looksmax and status max, and doing well in M strongly benefits the ability to looksmax and status max.

Looks don't really help much with moneymaxxing or status maxing (as a male) so putting extra emphasis on this if you're at zero in all is just stupid. And status maxing from ground zero is just impossible.

The only looksmaxxing id ever recommend anyone do if they're at zero across the board is leanmaxxing. Not even gymcelling beyond basic workout routines to stay in shape because roidcelling also costs some money.