"NEver chase woMEn" Advice?

[bananacoffee]

Redpill youtubers often give the advice of "Never chase Women or they will Run Away"

Instead a man should "Focus on his Purpose" and "Focus on his life goals: work, gym, study"

How does that make sense? WHY would a girl give a fuck about you if you ignore her?

She will just go fuck chad who is giving her attention LOL

So whats the real advice? u chase in the beginning then pull back?

 

[bananacoffee]

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[nathan]

redpill is a cult of failed normies.
self improve for 10 years bro
focus on your purpose bro
wait 30 minutes to respond to her text bro

 

[$Abomination]

Well the idea is that you'll get rich and aesthetic and become more attractive. Ignoring women will always only lower your chances no matter what. But from a practical standpoint it may be better to money and looks max first.

 

[bananacoffee]

redpill is a cult of failed normies.
self improve for 10 years bro
focus on your purpose bro
wait 30 minutes to respond to her text bro

Well the idea is that you'll get rich and aesthetic and become more attractive. Ignoring women will always only lower your chances no matter what. But from a practical standpoint it may be better to money and looks max first.

whats the solution? to looksmax and chase at same time?

 

[uksucks]

Life is literally a conspiracy. Probably my whole life is a dream and nkr even real. Only thigh that makes sense at this point

 

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[cooldude1231]

Chase and bark at them at night

 

[Brus Wane]

Redpill youtubers often give the advice of "Never chase Women or they will Run Away"

Instead a man should "Focus on his Purpose" and "Focus on his life goals: work, gym, study"

How does that make sense? WHY would a girl give a fuck about you if you ignore her?

She will just go fuck chad who is giving her attention LOL

So whats the real advice? u chase in the beginning then pull back?

1. No one said to ignore them. What gave you that idea?

2. They mean don't "chase" them in the autistic and degrading way that simps do - send them money, blow up their DMs with hearts, orbitermaxx and follow them 24/7 ... that type of shit
Showing an "acceptable" amount of interest is fine.

3. The "purpose" and "life goals" thing here refers to getting really rich and popular (cope because the redpill guys make it sound so easy and doable) but if you do pull it off, young pretty women will gravitate towards you (in theory) if youre in their circle and appear to be approachable.

 

[bananacoffee]

1. No one said to ignore them. What gave you that idea?

2. They mean don't "chase" them in the autistic and degrading way that simps do - send them money, blow up their DMs with hearts, orbitermaxx and follow them 24/7 ... that type of shit
Showing an "acceptable" amount of interest is fine.

3. The "purpose" and "life goals" thing here refers to getting really rich and popular (cope because the redpill guys make it sound so easy and doable) but if you do pull it off, young pretty women will gravitate towards you (in theory) if youre in their circle and appear to be approachable.

so what is the proper balance? ask them out once and if they say no/dont reply, then drop them?

i guess thats the proper way

 

[Brus Wane]

so what is the proper balance? ask them out once and if they say no/dont reply, then drop them?

i guess thats the proper way

There is no good answer to that.

Its pretty much like playing poker, buying stocks or sports betting.

You're playing a game that involves incomplete information and all you can do is try to play the odds while preventing yourself from getting burned.

Your decision should be based on her looks, your looks, her personality, your current wealth and social standing and other factors you deem relevant in the moment, eg. your competition, your other options if any etc

 

[Maalik]

Well the idea is that you'll get rich and aesthetic and become more attractive. Ignoring women will always only lower your chances no matter what. But from a practical standpoint it may be better to money and looks max first.

we're not immortal man
we have to do everything at the same time. can't be careless about aesthetics. can't become a social hermit. can't be poorcel.

Just do everything in moderation theory

 

[$Abomination]

we're not immortal man
we have to do everything at the same time. can't be careless about aesthetics. can't become a social hermit. can't be poorcel.

Just do everything in moderation theory

It depends on your situation how to go about it.

But I think if you're at zero in everything... Looks, money, and status... Your best bet is to put a lot more priority in moneymaxxing first just because being a loser in M seriously limits your ability to looksmax and status max, and doing well in M strongly benefits the ability to looksmax and status max.

Looks don't really help much with moneymaxxing or status maxing (as a male) so putting extra emphasis on this if you're at zero in all is just stupid. And status maxing from ground zero is just impossible.

The only looksmaxxing id ever recommend anyone do if they're at zero across the board is leanmaxxing. Not even gymcelling beyond basic workout routines to stay in shape because roidcelling also costs some money.

 

[Tenshi]

they mean chasing women once you already got her, lol.

If you haven't slept with a woman yet you literally mean nothing to her, that's not chasing that's just simping.

 

[bananacoffee]

they mean chasing women once you already got her, lol.

If you haven't slept with a woman yet you literally mean nothing to her, that's not chasing that's just simping.

how do you "get her"?

 

[autistic_tendencies]

they mean chasing women once you already got her, lol.

If you haven't slept with a woman yet you literally mean nothing to her, that's not chasing that's just simping.

I like your takes bro
I would say emotional connection is stronger that that though
First you need to live rent free in her head
Women pump and dump nowadays like nothing

 

[Tenshi]

I like your takes bro
I would say emotional connection is stronger that that though
First you need to live rent free in her head
Women pump and dump nowadays like nothing

Yes it's true. I'd say a good rule of thumb is if you have slept with her in at least 4-5 different occasions, then you can entertain the idea of meaning ''something'' to her.

how do you "get her"?

you can never ''get'' a specific woman you want as in ''doing something'' to seduce her. It's a mere matter of timing and convenience of approaching her when she's available + being good looking enough for her.

 

[lepo2317]

If you aren't top 10% in looks, chasing women is the only way to get pussy. If you are really good looking, you will get pussy going out to the mall. Rest men won't ever get anything "not chasing sluts". IMO chasing sluts, being a dog etc. is better than being indifferent to women (I was always indifferent and I wasn't succesfull with women), but you need to get lobotomy or be 70iq with no shame and unfortunately I'm not.

 

[bananacoffee]

If you aren't top 10% in looks, chasing women is the only way to get pussy. If you are really good looking, you will get pussy going out to the mall. Rest men won't ever get anything "not chasing sluts". IMO chasing sluts, being a dog etc. is better than being indifferent to women (I was always indifferent and I wasn't succesfull with women), but you need to get lobotomy or be 70iq with no shame and unfortunately I'm not.

thing is, whats point chasing if the woman is just using you for attention/emotional tampon and then discarding you without sex or anything

 

[Adonis2654]

So whats the real advice? u chase in the beginning then pull back?

You need to give attention to get sex, once you get sex, you won, you are the one in charge.

If you wanna keep the woman, drop your attention near 0% after sex, and she has to earn it then. If she does not try to get your attention, you don't give a fuck because you fucked her and won. You have to attach value to your attention after you get sex by making her earn it.

You gave her attention for sex. Now she has to give sex for attention.

Before sex, the woman is in charge, after sex you are the one in charge.

If you chase her after sex and you don't attach value to your attention then you fucked up and she's again in charge.

 

[bloomercel]

whats the solution? to looksmax and chase at same time?

There is no solution. Either your height+face is enough or it isn't.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

You need to give attention to get sex, once you get sex, you won, you are the one in charge.

If you wanna keep the woman, drop your attention near 0% after sex, and she has to earn it then. If she does not try to get your attention, you don't give a fuck because you fucked her and won. You have to attach value to your attention after you get sex by making her earn it.

You gave her attention for sex. Now she has to give sex for attention.

Before sex, the woman is in charge, after sex you are the one in charge.

If you chase her after sex and you don't attach value to your attention then you fucked up and she's again in charge.

You’re skipping too much steps bruh
Most men have trouble getting sex for attention you retard

 

[roxycodone]

Redpill youtubers often give the advice of "Never chase Women or they will Run Away"

Instead a man should "Focus on his Purpose" and "Focus on his life goals: work, gym, study"

How does that make sense? WHY would a girl give a fuck about you if you ignore her?

She will just go fuck chad who is giving her attention LOL

So whats the real advice? u chase in the beginning then pull back?

Most of redpill youtubers aren't really ""redpilled"" they just want to sell their courses to incels, this shit will never work irl

Besides that, what they say could ""hypothetically"" work if you have status or money, preferably both though

 

[bourgeoizyzz]

The correct advice is "never bother chasing women".

They've already decided where you stand

 

[gaymidget]

Its a fine line because persistence can be very masculine and attractive. I now quite a lot german girls who get wet for middleastern men because they treat them like property and are overly jealous. At the same time, too much can be unattractive. IDK where one starts and one ends but i fumbled the hottest girl i ever dated due to pussyness and being too shy. So be rather assertive but now when to pull back.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Its a fine line because persistence can be very masculine and attractive. I now quite a lot german girls who get wet for middleastern men because they treat them like property and are overly jealous. At the same time, too much can be unattractive. IDK where one starts and one ends

It starts at the jawline and ends at the chin

That's the line in the sand you're missing

Chasing a woman as a mtn makes them uncomfortable

Chasing a woman as a htn+ makes them uncomfortably wet

And not Chasing a woman, as an htn+, soaks them even further

You're attempting to place the idea in her head that you don't actually care. That you could do without her

Niggas meme on the abundance mindset but it's not a meme, it's psychological warfare

Like not cumming on purpose, not asking her to have sex often or giving minimal attention

Created a complex in their mind that can only be resolved by your approval

 

[Arthur schopenhauer]

Redpill youtubers often give the advice of "Never chase Women or they will Run Away"

Instead a man should "Focus on his Purpose" and "Focus on his life goals: work, gym, study"

How does that make sense? WHY would a girl give a fuck about you if you ignore her?

She will just go fuck chad who is giving her attention LOL

So whats the real advice? u chase in the beginning then pull back?

I have read so much regarding redpill and I can tell you that it can work depending on the context and how your game is, I have read roosh V, mysteri, tomassi and all the pickup artists. I would tell you that always the one with the initiative should be you, women will not chase you if you are not a supermodel, but that you should unmark yourself from the idiot simps that flood her imbox, trying to be more dry, very masculine, and always trying to take her down from her pedestal in a very subtle way, the first approach you should always try not to give her any flattery because then you will fuck everything up. The redpill and the blackpill combined are a brutal mix. The redpill will never go wrong. If you are too needy she will distance herself. If you are too subhuman she will become increasingly uncomfortable. The only thing that can save you from the redpill is if you are Chad. Then if you can show yourself needy and groveling she will still suck your dick.

 

[Venzord]

Redpill youtubers often give the advice of "Never chase Women or they will Run Away"

Instead a man should "Focus on his Purpose" and "Focus on his life goals: work, gym, study"

How does that make sense? WHY would a girl give a fuck about you if you ignore her?

She will just go fuck chad who is giving her attention LOL

So whats the real advice? u chase in the beginning then pull back?

Solid advice in the blackpill perspective. If a women doesn't like your looks, never ever will she be. And there is no point of being loved for something else which will probably superficial and they will have a power over you always. She can make fun of you and will always think that she is giving you a 'chance'. Why live such a horrible life? Instead, enjoy your life without the opp sex. And also helps with the new simp overload crisis. It will decrease.

 

[Mewton]

True. There's probably many guys much better than you who would be down bad for her. Jfl at thinking she will give a shit about you ignoring her as a sub4

Only when she is attracted to you in the first place is when you can abuse these on off tactics to fuck with her mind.