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Kraken
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I've been aware of these blackpill communities ever since early 2021, and for some reason there is an inclination in users towards believing that men shouldn't approach. I'm going to explain to you, very simply, why that is the worst way you could think.
The Store Analogy
In sexual relationships, think of men as consumers and women as a grocery store. When entering the store, you'll probably smell the odor of its products, and its cheapest prices will hit you first. Like a store, a woman depends on showing her customers what she's worth, and whether or not you decide to buy into that is your choice completely.
For this reason, many guys think that this'll work for men, too. It doesn't, because we're the consumers. Sure, if all men decide to stop approaching like is happening right now, women might consider getting desperate, but it isn't naturally that way, nor will all men stop approaching.
Why even chad needs to approach
Again, in sexual relationships, men are the dominant gender, while women are sub-dominant (not inferior). This means that a man trying to get with a woman, is like a hunter trying to get its prey. You can't just wait for it to come to you (even though bait is a thing but let's forget about that for a while), you have to come after it because you're in the position to chase it.
The "She Has Options" Argument
One commonly thrown around argument against men approaching, is that hundreds of men are probably already approaching her as well. She has more options so it's futile, so to say.
What's wrong with this argument, is that it exactly proves my point. If so many men are chasing one women, then that'd only put you at even more of a disadvantage if you decided to stop chasing.
Think of this way. You are given the option to run a marathon, which has a prize of 1000 dollars. But you're competing against (arguably) hundreds of opponents. Would you better of taking the risk, knowing that there's basically nothing that could go wrong if you just do things naturally, or wouldn't you compete at all?
So from that perspective, you can also see how the "she has other options" argument, is a debating point that mostly nihilists use to make users around here feel even more insecure and hopeless. Don't buy into it, you are always better off approaching.
Asides, the idea that each woman has hundreds of competitors is asinine.
The Store Analogy
In sexual relationships, think of men as consumers and women as a grocery store. When entering the store, you'll probably smell the odor of its products, and its cheapest prices will hit you first. Like a store, a woman depends on showing her customers what she's worth, and whether or not you decide to buy into that is your choice completely.
For this reason, many guys think that this'll work for men, too. It doesn't, because we're the consumers. Sure, if all men decide to stop approaching like is happening right now, women might consider getting desperate, but it isn't naturally that way, nor will all men stop approaching.
Why even chad needs to approach
Again, in sexual relationships, men are the dominant gender, while women are sub-dominant (not inferior). This means that a man trying to get with a woman, is like a hunter trying to get its prey. You can't just wait for it to come to you (even though bait is a thing but let's forget about that for a while), you have to come after it because you're in the position to chase it.
The "She Has Options" Argument
One commonly thrown around argument against men approaching, is that hundreds of men are probably already approaching her as well. She has more options so it's futile, so to say.
What's wrong with this argument, is that it exactly proves my point. If so many men are chasing one women, then that'd only put you at even more of a disadvantage if you decided to stop chasing.
Think of this way. You are given the option to run a marathon, which has a prize of 1000 dollars. But you're competing against (arguably) hundreds of opponents. Would you better of taking the risk, knowing that there's basically nothing that could go wrong if you just do things naturally, or wouldn't you compete at all?
So from that perspective, you can also see how the "she has other options" argument, is a debating point that mostly nihilists use to make users around here feel even more insecure and hopeless. Don't buy into it, you are always better off approaching.
Asides, the idea that each woman has hundreds of competitors is asinine.
