Never date a BPD chick

[Vantablack]

Just broke up with her after the most agonising 3 months of my entire life

I know its water advice but many of the younger ones here need to listen to this

BPD women will lie and manipulate every interaction they have. They have truly no self esteem and can be pressured into doing basically anything. They follow their emotions in the moment and have 0 impulse control. They cannot think for the future and do whatever feels right in the moment. They crave attention and validation like a starving man craves food. In fact, if given the choice between food and validation most these chicks would choose validation.

They are natural liars and will gaslight you and drive you crazy, make you second guess everything. Even if you think you're hardcore blackpilled you won't even realise the games they play with you until its too late and you're already trapped. its NEVER the full story with a BPD chick. They're always hiding something that will come out later and will affect you even after you have broken up.

They have no shame and will say anything to reel you in and keep you in. They are extremely insecure and thus extremely attune to their social surroundings. They will detect the minutest change in emotion and react to it immediately. They have no sense of self - they are like a chamelion that will change their colours at a moments notice to fit in.

The worst part is these women are always the hottest and the craziest in bed. that's how they make you stay. They're always down for sex and are willing to do your wildest fetishes without even needing to ask.

Never ever date a BPD girl, she WILL ruin your mental health and peace. The first few months will be magical, beautiful, everything you could possibly hope for. Soon after that it will turn into your worst nightmare and you won't even realise you're slipping until its already too late and you're too attached. As soon as a woman tells you she is BPD, run as far away as you can and never look back.

 

[Vantablack]

JFL i thought i was special, i thought that my experience with women and years of being blackpilled would make me be able to handle this bitch. man was i wrong.

it was like she had a parasitic effect on me. i stopped going to the gym, started smoking, stopped eating. didnt even realise it was because of her.

 

[swt]

i usually date women with bpd because i have bpd myself, those girls are already broken i might aswell break them more instead of fucking up the head of a completely healthy girl

 

[Vantablack]

i usually date women with bpd because i have bpd myself, those girls are already broken i might aswell break them more instead of fucking up the head of a completely healthy girl

i have never met a guy with BPD before, sounds like you're just an emotional bitch

 

[Sprinkles]

it was like she had a parasitic effect on me. i stopped going to the gym, started smoking, stopped eating. didnt even realise it was because of her.

lmfaooo fucking retard stopped taking care of himself over a whore

what happened?

 

[swt]

i have never met a guy with BPD before, sounds like you're just an emotional bitch

so be it, an emotional bitch it is

but yeah i got diagnosed bpd

 

[Vantablack]

lmfaooo fucking retard stopped taking care of himself over a whore

what happened?

i dunno man, i basically lost all motivation to do anything i used to do before i met her. she used to drive me up the walls and i would constantly be anxious about what she's doing.

never again

 

[Sprinkles]

i dunno man, i basically lost all motivation to do anything i used to do before i met her. she used to drive me up the walls and i would constantly be anxious about what she's doing.

never again

did she become your main focus?

 

[iblamexyz]

Just broke up with her after the most agonising 3 months of my entire life

I know its water advice but many of the younger ones here need to listen to this

BPD women will lie and manipulate every interaction they have. They have truly no self esteem and can be pressured into doing basically anything. They follow their emotions in the moment and have 0 impulse control. They cannot think for the future and do whatever feels right in the moment. They crave attention and validation like a starving man craves food. In fact, if given the choice between food and validation most these chicks would choose validation.

They are natural liars and will gaslight you and drive you crazy, make you second guess everything. Even if you think you're hardcore blackpilled you won't even realise the games they play with you until its too late and you're already trapped. its NEVER the full story with a BPD chick. They're always hiding something that will come out later and will affect you even after you have broken up.

They have no shame and will say anything to reel you in and keep you in. They are extremely insecure and thus extremely attune to their social surroundings. They will detect the minutest change in emotion and react to it immediately. They have no sense of self - they are like a chamelion that will change their colours at a moments notice to fit in.

The worst part is these women are always the hottest and the craziest in bed. that's how they make you stay. They're always down for sex and are willing to do your wildest fetishes without even needing to ask.

Never ever date a BPD girl, she WILL ruin your mental health and peace. The first few months will be magical, beautiful, everything you could possibly hope for. Soon after that it will turn into your worst nightmare and you won't even realise you're slipping until its already too late and you're too attached. As soon as a woman tells you she is BPD, run as far away as you can and never look back.

why would I date a bp chick

 

[UnluckyOne]

lmfaooo fucking retard stopped taking care of himself over a whore

what happened?

sexhavers are cucked af

 

[Vantablack]

did she become your main focus?

yeah basically, i was thinking about her 24/7. i even made a bunch of .org threads about her jfl.

i myself became morally degenerate and did shit i regret now. if satan had his minions on earth they'd be bpd whores

 

[Vantablack]

why would I date a bp chick

i thought the same until i met her

 

[Vantablack]

so be it, an emotional bitch it is

but yeah i got diagnosed bpd

sorry, hope it gets better for you brah

 

[Vantablack]

it’s been 24 hours since the breakup and i’m still constantly paranoid

 

[g4rlic]

This post is helping me get over my oneitis tbh. It hurts that it's not real love and just a mental illness.

I feel like they would be cheaters too. Her behaviour makes a lot more sense with this post.

 

[Vantablack]

This post is helping me get over my oneitis tbh. It hurts that it's not real love and just a mental illness.

I feel like they would be cheaters too. Her behaviour makes a lot more sense with this post.

she probably does think it’s real love in her own way, just her illness will warp her mentality and actions that it won’t make sense anymore

a lot of bpd girls cheat but a lot of them don’t if they think it’ll get you to leave. if she’s warped you around her enough that she thinks you won’t leave even after cheating she’s far more likely to do it. micro cheating is much more common and almost guaranteed though

if you don’t mind could you share what happened? it’s still fresh for me and i wouldn’t mind someone else talking about their shit

 

[Hide]

Like crazy foids ngl

 

[Vantablack]

Like crazy foids ngl

same, love them. all my exes have been mentally ill but god it’s exhausting

 

[Hide]

same, love them. all my exes have been mentally ill but god it’s exhausting

I dont like shy obedient man, I like to deal with crazy foids

This stems from my mother

 

[SplashJuice]

Good lesson tbh, negativity is contagious.

 

[Vantablack]

I dont like shy obedient man, I like to deal with crazy foids

This stems from my mother

it’s great the first couple months after it’s pure hell man. they’re crazy in bed though

 

[Vantablack]

Good lesson tbh, negativity is contagious.

shit rots you from inside it’s brutal

 

[g4rlic]

she probably does think it’s real love in her own way, just her illness will warp her mentality and actions that it won’t make sense anymore

a lot of bpd girls cheat but a lot of them don’t if they think it’ll get you to leave. if she’s warped you around her enough that she thinks you won’t leave even after cheating she’s far more likely to do it. micro cheating is much more common and almost guaranteed though

if you don’t mind could you share what happened? it’s still fresh for me and i wouldn’t mind someone else talking about their shit

It was just wierd. She gave strong "iois" after one pretty basic convo I feel. Like she would start tapping me on the back and playfully hitting me during work and stuff. She also did that to other guys during work too. Very hot and cold as well, ignoring me one day was super odd other days.

Like our relationship wasn't even that strong our texts were very dry and she would still initiate after I have long left that work place and had no obligation to see eachother. We were like dry texting for 1 to two years with no progression at all. It was just odd. I think im also kinda ill cuz I would have very strong feelings when she would pull away but when we would talk or I would get her attention again I would feel exhausted again.

Those prolly aren't strong enough evidence but the main thing is that she was apparently on house arrest for some reason, and she posted titty and feet pics on public snap story. Her snap story was very concerning but this comment is long enough.

 

[g4rlic]

It was just wierd. She gave strong "iois" after one pretty basic convo I feel. Like she would start tapping me on the back and playfully hitting me during work and stuff. She also did that to other guys during work too. Very hot and cold as well, ignoring me one day was super odd other days.

Like our relationship wasn't even that strong our texts were very dry and she would still initiate after I have long left that work place and had no obligation to see eachother. We were like dry texting for 1 to two years with no progression at all. It was just odd. I think im also kinda ill cuz I would have very strong feelings when she would pull away but when we would talk or I would get her attention again I would feel exhausted again.

Those prolly aren't strong enough evidence but the main thing is that she was apparently on house arrest for some reason, and she posted titty and feet pics on public snap story. Her snap story was very concerning but this comment is long enough.

I'm also like ltn for reference and I wore ripped sweaters and a shitty beanie. There is no logical reason she would be genuinely into me at all.

 

[Vantablack]

It was just wierd. She gave strong "iois" after one pretty basic convo I feel. Like she would start tapping me on the back and playfully hitting me during work and stuff. She also did that to other guys during work too. Very hot and cold as well, ignoring me one day was super odd other days.

Like our relationship wasn't even that strong our texts were very dry and she would still initiate after I have long left that work place and had no obligation to see eachother. We were like dry texting for 1 to two years with no progression at all. It was just odd. I think im also kinda ill cuz I would have very strong feelings when she would pull away but when we would talk or I would get her attention again I would feel exhausted again.

Those prolly aren't strong enough evidence but the main thing is that she was apparently on house arrest for some reason, and she posted titty and feet pics on public snap story. Her snap story was very concerning but this comment is long enough.

sounds like an attention whore jfl @ texting foids for 2 years without even hitting though

I think im also kinda ill cuz I would have very strong feelings when she would pull away but when we would talk or I would get her attention again I would feel exhausted again.

yeah that happens when you've no options, i probably fell for this bitch because i had moved to a new city and didnt know anyone there except her. was working all the time so didnt have time for dating apps either. thats when you tend to meet the worst women

 

[g4rlic]

sounds like an attention whore jfl @ texting foids for 2 years without even hitting though

True. I'm very high inhib and I don't think I would like pumping and dumping that's just me im very low t lol. I could also just sense from the beginning that something was wrong with her so I just kinda tricked myself into thinking I was prolly helping her or some shit lol. I'm probably no better than her tbh.

yeah that happens when you've no options, i probably fell for this bitch because i had moved to a new city and didnt know anyone there except her. was working all the time so didnt have time for dating apps either. thats when you tend to meet the worst women

To the second comment the love bombing helps as well too. Wasn't seeing my friends very much at the time and I was also getting over someone else lol. I had issues operating in life without experiencing intense feelings for someone.

 

[edodalic29]

this is y i just pump and dump these mentally ill foids

 

[edodalic29]

yeah basically, i was thinking about her 24/7. i even made a bunch of .org threads about her jfl.

i myself became morally degenerate and did shit i regret now. if satan had his minions on earth they'd be bpd whores

did u fuck her ? im assuming she got u giga attached , it almost happened to me but was able to snap out of it

 

[heightmaxxing]

*never date a chick

 

[Vantablack]

True. I'm very high inhib and I don't think I would like pumping and dumping that's just me im very low t lol. I could also just sense from the beginning that something was wrong with her so I just kinda tricked myself into thinking I was prolly helping her or some shit lol. I'm probably no better than her tbh.




To the second comment the love bombing helps as well too. Wasn't seeing my friends very much at the time and I was also getting over someone else lol. I had issues operating in life without experiencing intense feelings for someone.

hop on some test nigga 500 a week asap

 

[Vantablack]

did u fuck her ? im assuming she got u giga attached , it almost happened to me but was able to snap out of it

i fucked her all the time when we met, we'd go 3 rounds and she'd be horny for a 4th in 10 minutes. it was crazy

 

[edodalic29]

i fucked her all the time when we met, we'd go 3 rounds and she'd be horny for a 4th in 10 minutes. it was crazy

Slayerr , but yeah bro they use sex as their weapon, i thought to myself this girl is a freak and lets me do anything i want with her .. i knew from that point i was being manipulated cuz after some time i for the first time initiated contact and she started playing games .. shouldve just fucked her once and left but i kept coming back for more..

 

[Vantablack]

after some time i for the first time initiated contact and she started playing games .. shouldve just fucked her once and left but i kept coming back for more..

holy shit this is so real man. its like they can smell weakness and immediately pounce. like a shark smelling blood jfl except its a 160cm 40kg foid.

atleast you got out early man, this is gonna haunt me for a while now. fucking trauma response

 

[Mr.Proper]

Reddit - The heart of the internet

www.reddit.com

That sub is a full of stories of (mostly) men who thought they would change their partners or that the love bombing phase was the thing to stay.
Even limiting relationships to sex is dangerous with them, with their poor emotional control you can get accused of rape if she is in the hatred phase, can be babytrapped (over for your and your kids nerves) or get std she got from a random encounter after she had a dream you cheated on her and decided to cheat in revenge.

 

[Mr.Proper]

People with bpd often target (not always consciously) people of "caretaker" psychotype, who will not say "Oh no, fuck off, I'm out" the minute they face bpd person in devaluation phase.

 

[Vantablack]

People with bpd often target (not always consciously) people of "caretaker" psychotype, who will not say "Oh no, fuck off, I'm out" the minute they face bpd person in devaluation phase.

yeah i definitely fit that type, im subconciously attracted to broken women i think.

 

[trashbinxoxo]

 

[kana]

Just broke up with her after the most agonising 3 months of my entire life

I know its water advice but many of the younger ones here need to listen to this

BPD women will lie and manipulate every interaction they have. They have truly no self esteem and can be pressured into doing basically anything. They follow their emotions in the moment and have 0 impulse control. They cannot think for the future and do whatever feels right in the moment. They crave attention and validation like a starving man craves food. In fact, if given the choice between food and validation most these chicks would choose validation.

They are natural liars and will gaslight you and drive you crazy, make you second guess everything. Even if you think you're hardcore blackpilled you won't even realise the games they play with you until its too late and you're already trapped. its NEVER the full story with a BPD chick. They're always hiding something that will come out later and will affect you even after you have broken up.

They have no shame and will say anything to reel you in and keep you in. They are extremely insecure and thus extremely attune to their social surroundings. They will detect the minutest change in emotion and react to it immediately. They have no sense of self - they are like a chamelion that will change their colours at a moments notice to fit in.

The worst part is these women are always the hottest and the craziest in bed. that's how they make you stay. They're always down for sex and are willing to do your wildest fetishes without even needing to ask.

Never ever date a BPD girl, she WILL ruin your mental health and peace. The first few months will be magical, beautiful, everything you could possibly hope for. Soon after that it will turn into your worst nightmare and you won't even realise you're slipping until its already too late and you're too attached. As soon as a woman tells you she is BPD, run as far away as you can and never look back.

I dated 2 girls with BPD.

The first cheated on me, falsely accused me of raping a twelve-year-old girl, leaked my cock, turned my entire school against me, and had me jumped by 20+ people.

The second had an episode, leaked messages of me venting to her, in which I express homicidal thoughts ... as well as her own homicidal thoughts ... shared it to the entire school and had both of us expelled from college and high school alongside being investigated for making terroristic threats ... Upon exiting the psych ward, she blocked me on everything and her friends messaged my parents those messages ... leading me to get disowned at the ripe old age of 17 and forced to enlist. If I stayed any longer ... I would've ended up dead. I'm nearly confident she wanted to end my life and hers.

I didn't do anything wrong besides being the poor soul who happened to be their boyfriend at the time.

Big Pharma is an industry; "BPD" isn't a real thing ... it merely exists as a means to make a profit. Truthfully, people with "BPD" are objectively terrible people, using an imaginary diagnosis as a crutch as to why they are such horrid people, undeserving of any love or affection. Quite honestly, I'd kill every single person diagnosed with any Bipolar disorder if I had the chance. They aren't human.

 

[kana]

I dated 2 girls with BPD.

The first cheated on me, falsely accused me of raping a twelve-year-old girl, leaked my cock, turned my entire school against me, and had me jumped by 20+ people.

The second had an episode, leaked messages of me venting to her, in which I express homicidal thoughts ... as well as her own homicidal thoughts ... shared it to the entire school and had both of us expelled from college and high school alongside being investigated for making terroristic threats ... Upon exiting the psych ward, she blocked me on everything and her friends messaged my parents those messages ... leading me to get disowned at the ripe old age of 17 and forced to enlist. If I stayed any longer ... I would've ended up dead. I'm nearly confident she wanted to end my life and hers.

I didn't do anything wrong besides being the poor soul who happened to be their boyfriend at the time.

Big Pharma is an industry; "BPD" isn't a real thing ... it merely exists as a means to make a profit. Truthfully, people with "BPD" are objectively terrible people, using an imaginary diagnosis as a crutch as to why they are such horrid people, undeserving of any love or affection. Quite honestly, I'd kill every single person diagnosed with any Bipolar disorder if I had the chance. They aren't human.

I'm cursed with attracting the most mentally unstable women ever ... Nowadays, I'm terrified of women and nearly broken as a man. I've experienced true evil firsthand ...

 

[Vantablack]

I dated 2 girls with BPD.

The first cheated on me, falsely accused me of raping a twelve-year-old girl, leaked my cock, turned my entire school against me, and had me jumped by 20+ people.

The second had an episode, leaked messages of me venting to her, in which I express homicidal thoughts ... as well as her own homicidal thoughts ... shared it to the entire school and had both of us expelled from college and high school alongside being investigated for making terroristic threats ... Upon exiting the psych ward, she blocked me on everything and her friends messaged my parents those messages ... leading me to get disowned at the ripe old age of 17 and forced to enlist. If I stayed any longer ... I would've ended up dead. I'm nearly confident she wanted to end my life and hers.

I didn't do anything wrong besides being the poor soul who happened to be their boyfriend at the time.

Big Pharma is an industry; "BPD" isn't a real thing ... it merely exists as a means to make a profit. Truthfully, people with "BPD" are objectively terrible people, using an imaginary diagnosis as a crutch as to why they are such horrid people, undeserving of any love or affection. Quite honestly, I'd kill every single person diagnosed with any Bipolar disorder if I had the chance. They aren't human.

sounds brutal man. im so sorry you had to go through that. so glad you made it through. bpd women are pure evil. bipolar isnt the same as bpd though, bpd is far far worse.

my chick wasn't as bad but she leaked a lot of my messages too. i said some vulnerable shit to her and she showed it around to her friends and my friends because she was angry at me.

I'm cursed with attracting the most mentally unstable women ever ...

same, i think ND attracts ND. all my exes have been mentally unstable to some capacity and the breakups are the worst.

 

[Vantablack]

I dated 2 girls with BPD.

The first cheated on me, falsely accused me of raping a twelve-year-old girl, leaked my cock, turned my entire school against me, and had me jumped by 20+ people.

The second had an episode, leaked messages of me venting to her, in which I express homicidal thoughts ... as well as her own homicidal thoughts ... shared it to the entire school and had both of us expelled from college and high school alongside being investigated for making terroristic threats ... Upon exiting the psych ward, she blocked me on everything and her friends messaged my parents those messages ... leading me to get disowned at the ripe old age of 17 and forced to enlist. If I stayed any longer ... I would've ended up dead. I'm nearly confident she wanted to end my life and hers.

I didn't do anything wrong besides being the poor soul who happened to be their boyfriend at the time.

Big Pharma is an industry; "BPD" isn't a real thing ... it merely exists as a means to make a profit. Truthfully, people with "BPD" are objectively terrible people, using an imaginary diagnosis as a crutch as to why they are such horrid people, undeserving of any love or affection. Quite honestly, I'd kill every single person diagnosed with any Bipolar disorder if I had the chance. They aren't human.

my chick wasn't as bad but she leaked a lot of my messages too. i said some vulnerable shit to her and she showed it around to her friends and my friends because she was angry at me.

she also cut herself and went through multiple psychotic episodes and threatened to kill herself all the time

 

[Hernan]

Just broke up with her after the most agonising 3 months of my entire life

I know its water advice but many of the younger ones here need to listen to this

BPD women will lie and manipulate every interaction they have. They have truly no self esteem and can be pressured into doing basically anything. They follow their emotions in the moment and have 0 impulse control. They cannot think for the future and do whatever feels right in the moment. They crave attention and validation like a starving man craves food. In fact, if given the choice between food and validation most these chicks would choose validation.

They are natural liars and will gaslight you and drive you crazy, make you second guess everything. Even if you think you're hardcore blackpilled you won't even realise the games they play with you until its too late and you're already trapped. its NEVER the full story with a BPD chick. They're always hiding something that will come out later and will affect you even after you have broken up.

They have no shame and will say anything to reel you in and keep you in. They are extremely insecure and thus extremely attune to their social surroundings. They will detect the minutest change in emotion and react to it immediately. They have no sense of self - they are like a chamelion that will change their colours at a moments notice to fit in.

The worst part is these women are always the hottest and the craziest in bed. that's how they make you stay. They're always down for sex and are willing to do your wildest fetishes without even needing to ask.

Never ever date a BPD girl, she WILL ruin your mental health and peace. The first few months will be magical, beautiful, everything you could possibly hope for. Soon after that it will turn into your worst nightmare and you won't even realise you're slipping until its already too late and you're too attached. As soon as a woman tells you she is BPD, run as far away as you can and never look back.

i want this.

i have never met a guy with BPD before

well here's your second.

 

[Vantablack]

i want this.

no you dont jfl

well here's your second.

brutal

 

[gimmedatacc]

bipolar is mental retardation. I hate Bipolars.

 

[Vantablack]

bipolar is mental retardation. I hate Bipolars.

bipolar isnt bpd though

 

[rar]

she also cut herself

This trait legit elevates any foid for me. I'm so fucked jfl

 

[greycel]

 

[kana]

sounds brutal man. im so sorry you had to go through that. so glad you made it through. bpd women are pure evil. bipolar isnt the same as bpd though, bpd is far far worse.

my chick wasn't as bad but she leaked a lot of my messages too. i said some vulnerable shit to her and she showed it around to her friends and my friends because she was angry at me.


same, i think ND attracts ND. all my exes have been mentally unstable to some capacity and the breakups are the worst.

i’m aware. any personality disorder besides generalized depression or anxiety is what i’m referring to …

 

[JoeNutz]

I dated a girl with bpd, she didn't even tell me I learned from my friends, but she lied cheated would make things up to impress me.
Her parents were neglectful, she got raped and sent to the psych ward for suicide stuff, I was in my first relationship and I felt like I had to be a savior to this girl but I literally did not know what to do, she'd call me crying while her parents were laughing in the back round smoking weed, and she'd be telling me I'm the only one who can help her while my mom is telling me I'm not a therapist and shouldn't try to be one. we must've broken up and gotten back together 3 or 4 times. but yeah messed me up mentally for sure finding out she cheated on me afterwards.

 

[Vantablack]

I dated a girl with bpd, she didn't even tell me I learned from my friends, but she lied cheated would make things up to impress me.
Her parents were neglectful, she got raped and sent to the psych ward for suicide stuff, I was in my first relationship and I felt like I had to be a savior to this girl but I literally did not know what to do, she'd call me crying while her parents were laughing in the back round smoking weed, and she'd be telling me I'm the only one who can help her while my mom is telling me I'm not a therapist and shouldn't try to be one. we must've broken up and gotten back together 3 or 4 times. but yeah messed me up mentally for sure finding out she cheated on me afterwards.

brutal man, all these chicks are suicidal and have been abused. hope you’re doing better now