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[Thomas Parker]

First off, new to the site so if I posted in the wrong place do let me know.


Gonna be completely honest here. I want to escape inceldom and upgrade my looks. In the last year and a half I've come a REALLY long way but I still have a ways to go. As shown in the pictures I used to be morbidly obese, about 310 pounds, currently down to about 160.


I also used to have really bad acne, a ton of blackheads. Tazarotene got rid of them and they're pretty much all gone.


I think I went from a 1 out of 10 when I had acne and was obese to about a 4 out of 10 now. I'm also balding and I'm using minoxidil and finasteride to keep that at bay, though I may just shave it while taking the meds anyway idk. I still have most of my hair but may consider another treatment down the line like pyrilutamide. As of now no one can tell I'm balding. Again, 100% honest. I'm either gonna fucking escape inceldom or die trying.

I'm not a virgin but I didn't have sex until my early 20s. Currently 25. I've had sex only a few times twice was with prostitutes once was with an actual gf. (The relationship didn't work out but that's a different story) but most of my life has been an absolute dry spell.


I'm on track to do a number of body related surgeries next month. Basically a fleur-de-lis abdominoplasty as well as an arm lift to remove excess skin and fat from the massive weight loss. Once I recover from those operations (6-8 weeks) I plan to start a serious lifting routine to build mass and a bulk. Will look into a personal trainer.

Now, on to the face. I have a recessed jaw and I'm beginning to look into double jaw surgery/genioplasty, as well as infraorbital and/or paranasal implants if I feel they will make a cosmetically significant difference. I'm also interested in a blepharoplasty for my dark circles.

Do you guys agree with my rating of my current self a 4 out of 10? Do you guys think I can bump it up to a 6 with certain procedures and maybe better dressing/anything else?

Attached are before and after photos of my weight loss and acne, as well as where I currently stand

 

[Deleted member 28904]

DNRD

 

[Deleted member 28904]

LTN

Give us better photos of your face

 

[Deleted member 28904]

Skimmed through your wall of text and gj on losing weight and getting a girlfriend

 

[Thomas Parker]

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Lmao yeah it was crazy. Good thing it's gone now thanks to tazarotene.

 

[Thomas Parker]

LTN

Give us better photos of your face

Better in what way

 

[Thomas Parker]

Skimmed through your wall of text and gj on losing weight and getting a girlfriend

Thanks, sadly it didn't work out. Trying to recreate my success and maximize my aesthetics as much as I see fit.

 

[mortis]

Better in what way

i think he means a full frontal pic with no weird angles.

 

[Thomas Parker]

i think he means a full frontal pic with no weird angles.

Like eye level? Because I posted a frontal pic where my face is fully visible

 

[mortis]

Like eye level? Because I posted a frontal pic where my face is fully visible

the camera angle is high here
but anyways you are right, you are 4/10 in ethnicland.

 

[Deleted member 28904]

Like eye level? Because I posted a frontal pic where my face is fully visible

Give us a photo of your entire face, you are hiding your lower third. Straight photo of your face and then a side profile photo

 

[Deleted member 28904]

Also how tall are you? What part of the world do you live? You can be slayer in Asia but incel in uk

 

[Deprived]

trim your beard

 

[Thomas Parker]

Also how tall are you? What part of the world do you live? You can be slayer in Asia but incel in uk

In NYC and im about 5'9

 

[mortis]

In NYC and im about 5'9

2/10 in nyc buddy also terra manlet, im gonna be honest since you reported me.

 

[Thomas Parker]

2/10 in nyc buddy also terra manlet, im gonna be honest since you reported me.

I didn't report you idk what you're talking about and I ain't no 2/10 idk why you're mad lol

 

[mortis]

I didn't report you idk what you're talking about and I ain't no 2/10 idk why you're mad lol

idk this unknown mod @5ft1 who i never seen on this forum deleted my post.
your failos
death tier pheno
death tier coloring
90 year olds collagen, your skin looks like a dead person tbh.
high hairline
shit hair texture, also looks so thin
shit tier orbitals, non existant under eye bones and shit tier negatively tilted browridge hence the shit brow shape
shit nose shape
shit lips
shit chin to philtrum ratio
shit facial third ratios
shit ipd
shit es ratio
90 lbs of skin

your halos
slightly projected cheekbones so you have a tiny ogee curve
wide face
good chin shape
you have a browridge anyways.


unfixable in west/ arrange marriage able is ethnicland

 

[Deleted member 29167]

start off by softmaxxing, aka not looking homeless. also 5'9 is brutal, heightmogged by 14yr olds on this forum jfl.

 

[Deleted member 27702]

best looksmax is to never go on this forum again

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Take one without doing a lightskin stare nigga

 

[sp3ll]

become a sp3llcel and listen to sp3ll at 3am while crying to your oneitis

 

[futuregigamogger]

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the camera angle is high here
but anyways you are right, you are 4/10 in ethnicland.

First off, new to the site so if I posted in the wrong place do let me know.


Gonna be completely honest here. I want to escape inceldom and upgrade my looks. In the last year and a half I've come a REALLY long way but I still have a ways to go. As shown in the pictures I used to be morbidly obese, about 310 pounds, currently down to about 160.


I also used to have really bad acne, a ton of blackheads. Tazarotene got rid of them and they're pretty much all gone.


I think I went from a 1 out of 10 when I had acne and was obese to about a 4 out of 10 now. I'm also balding and I'm using minoxidil and finasteride to keep that at bay, though I may just shave it while taking the meds anyway idk. I still have most of my hair but may consider another treatment down the line like pyrilutamide. As of now no one can tell I'm balding. Again, 100% honest. I'm either gonna fucking escape inceldom or die trying.

I'm not a virgin but I didn't have sex until my early 20s. Currently 25. I've had sex only a few times twice was with prostitutes once was with an actual gf. (The relationship didn't work out but that's a different story) but most of my life has been an absolute dry spell.


I'm on track to do a number of body related surgeries next month. Basically a fleur-de-lis abdominoplasty as well as an arm lift to remove excess skin and fat from the massive weight loss. Once I recover from those operations (6-8 weeks) I plan to start a serious lifting routine to build mass and a bulk. Will look into a personal trainer.

Now, on to the face. I have a recessed jaw and I'm beginning to look into double jaw surgery/genioplasty, as well as infraorbital and/or paranasal implants if I feel they will make a cosmetically significant difference. I'm also interested in a blepharoplasty for my dark circles.

Do you guys agree with my rating of my current self a 4 out of 10? Do you guys think I can bump it up to a 6 with certain procedures and maybe better dressing/anything else?

Attached are before and after photos of my weight loss and acne, as well as where I currently stand

congrats on losing weight,thats great.
If i were you i would experiment with beard and hair styles.

Grow your Hair Out,maybe get a trendy haircut.
If you do so,i would advise you to get one that covers your forehead,as literally everone except zayn malik looks better with covered forehead.

from the picture it seems like you have a narrower lower third,which is why i would try to thicken up the beard and especially get it higher up on the side & cheeks. (you can do this with minoxidil & dermarolling)

for eye area,shaping your eyebrows (with tutorial ofc) and improving eyelashes (castor oil + curler) can go a long way.
Maybe try icehooding.

Focus on Building Muscle & get a skincare routine if you havent.

White Teeth is also a big Plus. (doesnt have that big of an impact tho if they are crooked and narrow palate)

For Style/Clothing go to pinterest and find out what you like and what women find attractive for men your age range.

good luck,my friend.